/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

TO ALL THE CON STORIES INVOLVE UNWANTED SEXUAL ADVANCES

it's totally okay to tell someone no. even if it hurts their feelings.

if you felt it was somehow rude or impolite to be that direct about sexual stuff, it's not. not at all.

the cosplay community have a BIG problem with having no idea where boundaries are, and the more people learn to vocalize where their boundaries are, the more potential creeps will get that's its not okay to just touch people because everyone's drunk and skin is showing

to wrap up:
>it's okay to lay down boundaries
>love yourself: it's your body, your money, your time, and your decision,
>if you get rejected or are called a creep, forgive a little (them and you), no one's here to hurt anyone. you just crossed someone's boundary, you didn't fuck the sun out of the sky. be your own friend and let yourself learn from it and move your life on
>711 was an inside job