/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>6269923
"Pretend" like you don't need a boyfriend/girlfriend. Every morning, if you have to, tell yourself in the mirror "I am a strong (black) woman who don't need no man" and go about your day, even if it makes you dumb. Make excuses to be social with your regular friends, make an effort to make new ones, and just pretend like you're untouchable and you have everything you need. After a while, you'll start to buy into it and before you know it, you really will feel like you don't need a significant other to stop that weird pit of loneliness.

The important thing is to not physically search someone out because then you're gonna keep pining for a relationship you don't have/need right now. Like I said to another anon, get comfortable being by yourself first.

You're still gonna feel lonely at times, and it's gonna suck, but you'll get over it. Everyone does. This is you right now anon. You are the best and don't forget it!