/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Before I start this, I want to say, I'm a girl. have periods, born with a vagina, that shit.
>used to enjoy cute things
>always been tall, with an oblong face
>sweet lolita, fairy kei, all cute shit
>lifestyled and was happy as can be, despite some people being rude
>nothing fits me i'm too tall, the older I got, the more aware I was of this.
>start noticing the negative comments more, from strangers, the jfashion community, family, and even crushes/ people i've dated
>"you're too tall to look cute"
>"excuse me, are you a boy are a girl?"
>"boys shouldn't wear dresses, lol"
>"the fuck are you, some sort of drag queen?"
>"if you were shorter you'd be cute, but with your height and face shape you look like a crossdresser"
>"sorry anon, I like shorter girls"
>"tall girls should only wear classic lolita, sweet makes you look like a sissy"

I.. can't enjoy the fashion anymore. I put on the outfit that once made me so happy the other day, looked in the mirror and just started to cry. I felt so dysphoric.

Its really hard accepting that your body isn't right for the fashion you enjoy.

Before I start this, I want to say, I'm a girl. have periods, born with a vagina, that shit.
>used to enjoy cute things
>sweet lolita, fairy kei, all cute shit
>lifestyled and was happy as can be, despite some people being
>nothing fits me i'm too tall, the older I got, the more aware I was of this.
>got a longer face too.
>start noticing the negative comments more
>"you're too tall to look cute"
>"excuse me, are you a boy are a girl?"
>"boys shouldn't wear dresses, lol"
>"the fuck are you, some sort of drag queen?"
>"if you were shorter you'd be cute, but with your height and face shape you look like a crossdresser"
>"sorry anon, I like shorter girls"
>"tall girls should only wear classic lolita, sweet makes you look like a sissy"

I.. can't enjoy the fashion anymore. I put on the outfit that once made me so happy the other day, looked in the mirror and just started to cry. I felt so dysphoric.

Its really hard accepting that your body isn't right for the fashion you enjoy.

I admit, the wigs I've used in the past dont do my face any favor. but even so, having my lolita photos tagged pic related is actually pretty soul crushing

>Have you gotten (cosmetic) surgery? If so what did you get and why?
no
>Would you get any surgery to look more kawaii and fit in with Lolita/Gyaru/Otome whatever?
I want to be cute,
>Name one thing you dislike about yourself or would change with surgery.
probably labiaplasty because pants/undies are uncomfortable and I'm self. Maybe get rid of my manface too. I've been considering teardrop breast surgery for my flat chest but I like being small/boyfriend bitched when I expressed it
"it'll feel different, not jiggly"
"my boobs are so small you ignore them anyway when we do stuff hun..."

>>8106932
This. I've been mistaken for a brolita before (though I am female)
and it kind of just pissed me off like I had some disability in style for (supposedly) having a dick, and it was "just so endearing" that I was making an effort to dress up

>finally get xkit
>learn about tag reader
>get curious about what people say about my lolita outfits
>for some reason, pictures of me looking the worst get reblogged a lot?
>check tagreader on said pictures
>people say that I'm a cute brolita
>mfw I'm female


Any tips on how to appear more feminine? I have a long face. the way my wig works can either make me look manly or adorable.