/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

lolita has a very tight grip on me and while I might gradually let go of certain pieces overtime I don’t think I could fully give it up, even if I decide to have a family. I’ll be a lolita mom,aunt,grandma whatever the hell until I die.
The community is a confusing beast for sure. I’m happy there’s a place where the fashion can be discussed and seeing how Lolita’s wear different pieces. I love seeing girls look and feel pretty, express themselves, and talk about how much they love the fashion and getting excited for releases. But I also hate the awful attitudes, shopping habits, rampant mental illness and drama that plagues it. What is cool is that you don’t have to actively engage in the community if you don’t want to, you can just wear the clothes and be done with it.