/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I'm relatively new to lolita, and the comm where I live is pretty dead. Of course this won't stop me from wearing what I love, but occasionally I feel a sense of FOMO seeing other comms and their meets on the internet.

>what are your reasons for being lonelita? did you leave your comm, or do you not have one near you?
>how often do you wear lolita? do you wear it every day, or just for special occasions?
>how do your normie friends and family members feel about it?
>do you have any tips for other lone lolitas?