/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I've been really bitchy about other lolitas online anonymously. I sent ask.fm insults to someone who was being an ass on Facebook and I made the snide "go back to Excel class" to an anon here last time.
I feel really bad and I'd like to apologize now, at least to the anon here, because you had only made a small mistake.
I'm sorry anon. From now on I'll try spreading lolita love and niceness only.

Would it be really frowned upon if I asked for a refund due to shipping being to high? I bought something (under $20) from an online store, and there was nothing indicating I'd have to pay a separate shipping cost and now I'm being charged an extra $10....how rude would it be to ask for my money back? I was under the impression that the price included shipping.

He's more or less the reason I don't attend anymore. He didn't attend and when he saw the pics of me posing with friends he'd go berserk and accuse me of cheating, start tearing up my cosplays etc.

So yeah....