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I've explained this situation before in previous threads so I apologize
>two and a half months ago
>finished grad work
>moved states away to live with parents who welcomed me and my bf
>allowed to stay until we found our ground financially; might even pick up their rental lease if they buy a house
>turns out my parents are controlling pricks and treat us both (23) like we're teenagers
>"Oh well, we gotta make the best of this bf."
>bf found a job because he has no degree but tons of retail experience
>it's taking me longer because I'm shooting for more competitive jobs, I've had a couple interviews
>I'm depressed but bf should be trying to save his money for a vehicle at least
>I have a vehicle and he doesn't
>it's really inconvenient, he's less likely to get a second job without one, and I drive him all over the place
>look at bf's fb and realize he's bitching about not being able to go to LARP gatherings and concerts back home because he's working
>mfw

Honestly it's only been two months and he's scaring me because he's acting like such a baby about not being able to have "fun" and having adult priorities. I don't even know why he's claiming he never has fun because I take him to his weekly LARP events. And while I know my parents are fucking assholes, they're letting us stay here rent-free. My bf snarls about wanting to move out the second we save up enough, but I told him to chill out because it's a HUGE advantage for us not having a monthly $800-1000 rent bill that we frankly can't afford. He's already been nailed twice for non-payment by his private student loans for when he dropped out of college (~$400+ bills both times), and I know had we been living on our own we wouldn't have been able to make rent with him having those payments due.
So it pisses me off that he doesn't even want to save $3k for a used vehicle, since securing one will only be HARDER on us if we move out. I feel like the only one with common sense sometimes.

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