/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I have nothing in common with the girls in my comm. I like more metal and country, they are into kpop and jpop. They like drinking tea and I prefer to go to a bar. I feel like everything is a competition with them and I'm going the wrong direction. I know their likes are more geared towards the "lifestyle" of lolita but sometimes I just want to be able to talk about things that aren't kawaii or the many flavours of tea.