/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>6639804
I don't see why kinky people should be obligated to 'come out' to people that like the same dresses as them, and I don't see why I should have to hear about people's sex lives just because we like the same dresses.

>>6605958
I likewise have big titties -- almost exactly your measurements, actually. Lolita just wasn't built for girls like us. It flattens out your curves with the goal being to create a doll-like silhouette. As another girl said, some classic dresses will be more traditionally flattering -- giving you more of an hourglass -- but I think it might just be an issue of mentality. These dresses will make you look cute, not sexy. They'll give you a cupcake, not an hourglass.

I'm also not sure what your accessory situation is, but you might feel better if you have a complete look (headbow/shoes). Makes it feel more like a style than a dress with an odd silhouette.