/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9089986

Whatcha cosplaying? You may need to swallow the bitter pill and accept some slightly weeby sorts to open the door to less weeby. But otherwise try and find a group relevant to your cosplay? Keep putting yourself out there. And it's good you have such a good friendship with your sister! At least I hope so. You'll find friendos.

Speaking from my own perspective I know my biggest challenge is opening up to people and also being willing to approach them rather than expect an invitation.

>>9089990

You're free of that trouble and dangerousness now, that's what matters and is important. Dealing with such abusive fuccbois or bitches is a rite of passage and you'll be better able to see the redflags in the future. Don't feel like you have to be on 24/7 - you can get your batteries to recharge and deal with happier, milder things with your new partner. Take time out for yourself - whether that's lolita shopping or a lolita-break, don't feel the need to go ambitious and hard as a motherfucker until you've rested and refreshed.

Coulda woulda shoulda'll kill your mental wellbeing. What's done is done and hindsight is valuable only for planning ahead into the future, you can't change the past.

>>9090006

I dunno lolita but, horrible stereotyping ahead, don't the Japanese find that crooked teeth endearing? That photographer is a real asshole though, height of rude. Maybe you need to find a new one who isn't so pushy and inconsiderate. I hear you there though, while I've grown to love my canine fangs I do not have a face to smile all toothily. Not everyone does, some are

Smiling lizards are cute though, and so are you.