/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>be me
>be single older dude
>take care of myself
>don't actually look that old
>younger friends find out I'm into anime, vidya, /tg/ing
>convince me to cosplay with them
>go to cons with my younger friends
>always get complements on my cosplays
>been cosplaying for 6 years since
>go for the lulz, stay for the weebness
>make friends every time, ladies usually want pics with me
>some will tell me that they were hunting for me the day before to get a pic
>can't ever tell if I'm being hit on or if my cosplays just rock
>so dense I can't tell if I'm someone else's con crush

I'm wary of ones too young but I'd be over the moon if I met a gal somewhat closer to my age who was into cosplay.
What are the signs, lady gulls?