/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8349469
Behind the bows isn't the problem. The problem is that when people can speak freely without fear of repercussion they chose to say things like what they say on BtB.

If you censor people by deleting BtB, all you are accomplishing is shutting people up; they don't stop feeling a certain way, or treating others in a certain way, they just don't talk about. It doesn't stop people from being homophobic, racist, ablist, sexist, etc, it simply masks the fact that people feel that way.

Meanwhile, some people do use BtB for its intended purpose and share things that they should tell someone else but are afraid to, like when people share their fears and insecurities.

What needs to change for these sorts of things to go away is the lolita community's behavior in general, and society in general, not just censorship.