/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>10630855

Going to keep the comfy going!

>>10016722
If this isn't translated yet, I can take a crack at doing it. At work right now though, does anyone have the raw dump for it?

Just a reminder:
>The really cool or well known lolitas in your comm? They're not celebrities, not even the "efamous" ones. They're nerds in frills too so talk to them and maybe you can be friends.
>Joining a new comm can seem scary but most lolitas will be really happy to see you and if you're struggling with the fashion they may be willing to help.
>That person on social media whose posts you love? DM them. If you have interests and opinions in common, they're probably cool. They'll never know that people admire them and want to be friends unless those people talk to them. And if you're at the same larger event, swallow your shyness and say hi!
In between people's public personas, social anxiety, and all the generalising talk about "is this comm nice" or "wasn't she involved in drama 5 years ago", it's easy to forget that we're all individuals in love with this same weird fashion. Lolita can be crazy and dramatic, but it's also a great way to have a lot of fun experiences and make friends with interesting and creative people. There's nothing wrong with being a lonelita or a private person, but if you want to be part of a comm or make friends with someone, please consider reaching out. Chances are, you'll have a great time. You'll never know if you don't try, right? I believe in you, anon. You can do it.