/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>smallish comm
>mod who used to organise a lot got busy recently so not that many meets
>I hosted a few meets last year and there are a few local lolita aesthetic things I really want to do this year (going to the opera, the theatre, a stately home)
>high pricetag discourages most itas or having to manage a huge turnout so those kind of meets are usually fun to host
>comm recently got annoying, poorly-dressed brolita who comes to nearly every meet
>can't post an event in the group without him RSVPing
>okay to be around in a large group at a public setting like a gallery but it would be impossible to relax with him drawing attention to our tiny group at a super fancy event
>no way to exclude him without being obvious, don't know enough of the comm well enough to organise a friends-only private meet

I'm probably going to just go with my normie partner since at least I can trust them to behave appropriately, but I feel kind of bad since the comm's so inactive.

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Old kera fanart, issue 66, 2004