/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>7653447

>be wearing lolita for 4+ years now
>suddenly have this really sinking feeling that I don't look good in my outfits
>want to dress up so bad but not sure if I'll like how I look
>boyfriend tells me he doesn't really like Lolita but doesn't care about me wearing it, I can do what I want
>thought he liked it at least a bit, guess I was wrong
>bf also says that I have a very different personality when wearing Lolita, like I'm two people at the same time
>I just have thicker skin when wearing it because else I'd pay too much attention to the stares and mocking
>feel bad about seeming different from usual
>really low self-esteem atm
>almost crying sometimes because it used to make me feel so pretty and now I'm semi-scared of wearing it

/cgl/ halp. I think I need someone to talk to. I feel so sad and I know that it's probably petty, but I'm really upset by it.

I think the other feels thread autosaged. Put all your feels here, post any feels.

waiting for translations

>What's your comm doing that day?
Nobody has brought it up on the comm page yet, which I why I forgot again. My family are visiting so I guess I'll just have to dress up nice to see them instead.
>What are you wearing (or would be wearing)?
Something dogs and a two year old can't destroy, and that I can eat takeaway food in. Sigh.

>>7589985
>a meet with 75 lolitas
All of my burning jealousy.

>>7586646

Anon, I feel you. It's hard being a lolita with boobs too big for many brand pieces.

>mfw 98cm boobs
>mfw I will never be Baby
>mfw the stars will never shine bright for me

>wake up
>too lazy to go to work today
>"whatever, I'll take the shift next week"
>boss is okay with that
>I will not get paid this week, whatever, bought too many clothes anyway

>browsing tumblr
>mfw someone sells one of my dream dresses
>mfw no money

This is what you get for being a lazy piece of shit I guess...

>tfw no bf

I wish I would not be so spaghetti and would actually talk to guys and behave like a normal human being around them. Wearing frilly clothes isn't helping either, I have to admit...

>find dream dress on lace market
>bidding on it, auction runs out of time, I win
>even receive little 'you won!' email
>happy day!!!!
>go back to the auction to look at dress
>somehow it was autobought AFTER THE AUCTION HAD ENDED by another user
holy fuck, I'm so pissed off at lace market right now. I'm honestly crushed that I missed my dream dress because of such a weird loophole in the site, I don't even know what to do with myself right now.
>Even worse, I messaged the seller after to ask if it was a glitch
>she'd already contacted mods, they sided in other user's favor
>she said the other user couldn't even pay for it, they had autobought and afterward asked for a payment plan
>mfw I could have paid in full

ITS NOT COSPLAY DAD ITS A JAPANESE FASHION

I ALREADY TOLD YOU

>I actually haven't talked to my dad in years but I would totally say this

>>7471063
What? We legit don't have bfs.

>buy 2 new dresses
>normally fit AP OPs so don't check measurements
>so excited
>get them, try on
>THE BUST, WHY, NOTHING ZIPS UP OVER IT
>lie in bed sobbing into deco dream pony pillow
No problems in the waist, but as soon as it hits my boobs, it's all over. I feel so stupid for not checking and I really feel like I wasted a lot of money, even though I could resell.
>don't like JSKs so it looks like I'll be sentenced to a lifetime of sports bras and full back/full bust shirring

> always the person that needs to start the conversation or anything at all
> stop doing that because I'm sick and tired of it
> nobody starts talking to me out of themselves

feels bad man, I always seem to end up being that person.

Everyone is sad or telling others off
I do not tell others off often and I am only occasionally sad. I want to express joy about new dresses and being pretty!

>>7391803
Oh you're that guy. I wish I had a dad like you.

>>7375553

I wear lolita during the winter since that's the only time the weather is cold enough to survive in it.

My parents, no matter how many times I've explained it to them are absolutely certain that it's some kind of weird sexual deviant thing and not a just something I wear.

I don't consider myself a crossdresser or weird in anyway gender-wise, like I'd never just wear ordinary women's clothes, my interest in female clothing is entirely lolita. In fact to me lolita clothes doesn't really feel "female" at all.

I feel very alone because all the other male lolitas and "brolitas" I've seen have been into it for fetish or some other unsavory reason.

Are there any other boys out there who are actually JUST into it for the fashion, or am I really all alone here ;;

>>7187477
I see.
>You'll never meet a real life Sakamoto

I'll start off, I suppose.
Lolita here. I've loved this fashion for years now, and I own a few dresses, shoes, blouses, ect. Not a huge wardrobe like most of you guys have, but it's fine for me.
The thing is, I think I'm growing out of Lolita or something. It's beautiful, but putting so much money to one dress that I barely wear just feels like a waste..
I'm so tempted to just sell all my Lolita and put the money to fashion I can actually wear every day comfortably. I've always sort of felt like Lolita wasn't "worth it" but I could just put that thought to the side and look at pretty dresses on /cgl/. But I can't do that anymore. Just seems like a lot of work for so little payoff.
Any other Lolitas feel the same way?

How long before you lucky qt3s decide to sell your MS stuff? Also, how much should I expect to pay for it then?
>mfw I really want the sk and the clip in navy, got the money but no seller in sight.

>>7057198
That sounds so horrible. I'm so sorry that happened, anon. I hope you find her.

>>7038252
>mfw I see itas ruining my dream dress