/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8192613
P-people find that dress ugly? It was my first dream dress and I practically screamed when I won it. I still haven't worn it to my satisfaction yet.

>sold shoes within last 48 hours
>haven't sent them out yet
>sellers remorse, want to keep them

what do I do anons? Offer a refund and be like "i straight up had sellers remorse?" Or would that just be too fucking shitty

>My ex and his gf spread rumours about me
>Rumours aren't true
>Ex's gf just wants to feel better about herself
>Ex wants to cover up bad behaviour by scapegoating me
>Nobody remembers that they started the rumours
>They slip into mediocracy
>Everyone in the scene knows my name for all the worse reasons
>Tfw their lives are perfect, they're getting married and having kids in the near future
>tfw small country so avoiding them at cons is imposible
>tfw I have to live with the rumours hanging over my head forever
>tfw I'm forever mad & salty

>browse Closet Child
>see dress
>price is okay
>I considered buying it before
>I totally deserves this, sure!

>suddenly, remember that I already own another cut and colourway or the same print
>I don't really have much to coord with this dress, plus the colour is not what's usually in my wardrobe
>remember that I need more cardigans, boleros and blouses
>remember that I plan a taoabo order
>I don't really need another dress that I cannot really coord, and I should buy more important versatile items that I lack like blouses and cardigans and headwear
>also wanted to save up for new releases
>and for various cons/tea parties taking place within the next few month

>don't buy the dress
>notsurewhattofeel.jpg

I-i did the right thing cgl, right?

>>8088712
I know it won't.

Did anyone get caps of the threadblowing up on rufflechat? I'd give my left nut to see them

>tfw no longer moot's qt lolita gf

>order kawaii-ass fountain pens last Wednesday
>order ships same day
>store estimates delivery by Tuesday (yesterday)
>A WILD USPS APPEARS!!!!
>Wednesday afternoon: package picked up
>Wednesday night: package arrives at sort facility
>Monday afternoon: package has departed sort facility
>new estimated delivery: Thursday
>mfw package SAT IN SORT FACILITY FOR FIVE DAYS before ever moving
>god fucking dammit

just goddammit, USPS. i did everything right. i ordered from an american seller for once. why are you doing this to me. i'm hormonal and sad and can't take this agony.

Just bought a coat off of Baby's winter sale a few days ago, and I'm waiting to be invoiced. How long do you think this is going to take? They're not usually as bad as IW, but, I haven't ever waited this long for an invoice. Even during a sale period. I don't want to e-mail them. I'm too afraid.

>>8020127
I do the exact same thing.
>tfw afros will never be kawaii

>Deep nasolabial folds
>Angular nose
>small old lady lips

Constant bitchface makes me look like a witch.

>>8004427
>>8004590
oh damn

>>7987128
>>7986872
Samefag, go away Mylitabox owner
pic is u

Has anyone received any secret santa stuff from their comm etc.?
Mine arrived the other day and honestly I'm a little disappointed, I received no Lolita (or even slightly related) items at all, despite this being one of the rules. In fact they were all items picked up from a supermarket in my country. This sounds pretty ungrateful I know but I always put a lot of effort into my secret santa's and I end up being let down every time. I think that's a common theme with secret santa though

>>7902146
you're right, I just feel like an idiot for missing out.
hopefully the lines won't be too long... I couldn't go last year and I've always got the tickets online, so I really don't know what to expect.

>tfw when I used to think my bf was "the one"
>really smart
>laughs at my jokes
>shares most of my interests and thinks the ones we don't share are cute
>super sweet and respectful
But whenever I tell people we're dating they don't believe it. Both he and I have been told that I'm out of his league and it's starting to get to me. I've never really been that physically attracted to him and just being near him makes me annoyed lately. Part of me wants to break up, but the rest of me knows how fucking shallow that would make me. Fuck.

>>7878281
>>7879100
You could try going to cosmetology school. I have a lolita friend that did that because she didn't know what else to do and she always has burando. Also , it seems like it would fit your interests and you can choose your own schedule.

I have an aliexpress order that "sent to airline" after clearing Chinese customs on August 23. USPS tracking still has no record of it, and it's now September 15. What the fuck did it fall off the plane I AM SO CONFUSED. I need my socks, you bitches.

Currently waiting on a wig too that's just totally MIA. My fault for buying cheap shit on ebay, but I have to wait until September 22 til ebay will let me report it missing. Sonuvabitch.

But then I had a petticoat reach me in exactly a week via airmail so I guess for every two or three major panic-inducing fuck-ups I get a pleasant surprise.

Figured this is the best place to ask, but I'm trying to get more into lolita and build up a wardrobe but most of the dresses and blouses I find have 90+ CM and I'm an 80 CM bust.
I was wondering if any of you have dresses or blouses that are a bit bigger than your measurements and still look alright when worn?
I realize that 10 cm is too much, but would something like 5-6 CM too big work or look stupid?

I got an exhausting full time office job, and amongst other more important issues with it, I miss actually having time for lolita and impromptu mini meets.

>>7729701
I'm kind of biased against your kind, though I'm sure you're nice. The last hot twenty something that decided I was his type broke the ice by asking if I wanted an "..all-night session. Let me take care of your body." Fucking neanderthals.

I just want someone to work out with that isn't afraid of lace.

>>7700020
and dropping pics

>find something really cute on Closet Child
>hesitate
>come back next day, determined to buy it
>it's gone

Bonus:
>a week later, on tumblr
>blouseless noob in cosplay wig and ratty converse posts bathroom selfie of babby's first burando
>mfw it's the dress I wanted

>>7681726
I'm usually turning men down pretty regularly (I get weekly date offers), not the other way around, so I don't think it's something about me that is turning men off. I just haven't found anyone that I'm attracted to, and it's just really fucking frustrating. Maybe I'm just picky. So many people in my age group have no life goals or are in dead end careers...