/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

lolita couple mini dump to give hope to us frilly femcels

>>9878448
We've had this conversation a lot on cgl but basically my theories are this

>Most lolitas have nerdy interests and seek partners with similar interests
Most geek dudes aren't exactly model of the year material. Most women involved in lolita are also into anime, cosplay, comics, fantasy or sci-fi and are therefore going to seek out partners with those interests.

>Lolita fashion isn't attractive to normie men.
Lolita fashion is going to scare away most normie men. I've dated men that are more normie, and I just accept the fact that I probably won't wear lolita around them or on dates. I keep that part of my life separate, because it is attention-grabbing and most dudes aren't into that. I wear the clothes on my own time. Granted, I wear sweet lolita. Someone who wears classic or gothic may have better luck finding an attractive normie boyfriend.

>Lolita fashion attracts people with subversive tastes.
Many girls within the community identify as feminists, or just have a different worldview in general. They might have different values they look for in a partner rather than just looks.

There are still lolitas with conventionally attractive boyfriends. maximumclaire and lolitacharm come to mind.

>>9722652