/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Comm feels/advice post?

Some girl in a comm I just joined was 'funposting' some rumors about someone else (who isn't in the comm) in the comm group-- that someone else is my significant other. I literally JUST JOINED and I feel like I can't say anything but what they said was really out of line and hurt my feelings and are really untrue. I almost don't want to go to meets out of fear of meeting her because I don't know how to peacefully resolve the conflict or if it should even be brought up at all... But I'm pretty upset what they said about him.

The group's rules say not to talk about the comm on /cgl/ so I'm trying to stay as anon as possible here but I am upset and wondering what to do about this? Do I do nothing since I'm the new kid on the block? Or should I speak up? The thread is like 2 weeks old in the comm anyway, so I feel like responding would just kick up a fuss especially since I'm new and the post is oldish. The rumors she put out were just really offensive and a little damaging to him and I'm also wondering if they'll feel the same way about me when they learn I'm his wife.

Maybe I'm overthinking it but I already feel threatened.

>people in con community i cannot stand because they had relations with ex-husband
>people still bring them up and talk about them because they are 'popular' or 'famous'
>loathing increasing incredible amounts
>started cutting off people who are mutual friends because it hurts so much
>consider going to a con where many of these girls will be at and attacking them
>too pussy
>sit in room alone and cry
>no friends because i am afraid of being backstabbed by everyone
>isolating myself because i feel such shame between being cheated on and such angry at girls involved
>can't ever enjoy a con for fear of running in to them
>on medication for neurotic problems
>want to die every day

feels horrible

>>7380643
Alright so the vet got back to me. It's feline leukemia and it looks like there's nothing the vet can do for my cat and I'll be going to the vet tonight to have her put down. I also called my dad and told him to get their cats tested because it's something she could have had her whole life and either contracted or gave to the other cats(since my parents never got any of their cats tested for the virus)