/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9899050
Aspiring to meet gulls' expectations is, well, maybe not your first mistake but definitely one of them. Set your own achievable goals for yourself and aim to achieve them, don't think about trying to please others in a subculture made to please the individual.
Even without seeing you, I can still assume that your skin tone is fine. If light pastels don't suit you, go for other shades; there are different shades of every color even within one brand and at least some of them have to work for you.
And lastly, please don't starve yourself for any reason, especially not for fashion. It's not healthy. Your measurements might drop but so will everything else, including the look of your skin and hair, your alertness, among other things. If you're unhealthy it shows and it's not cute. It's okay to use lolita as motivation to lose weight but please do it in a healthy way.
Please love yourself, anon. You can be a beautiful lolita by taking care of yourself and choosing to be healthy.