/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

It kind of is lolita related because this did put a little dent in my wallet and I'm super pissed off about this right now. It needs to get out of my system:
>me and ex were on break since November after he had done multiple things to piss me off and hurt me
>officially end it in mid-December when I can't take his zero ambition, stinginess, and idiocy anymore
>he claims to have ordered something for me for Christmas
>implies it's "lolita"
>I feel guilted into buying him something
>he's too fat for Wal-Mart so I have to go the extra mile to find him some clothes that he asked for
>ship them out
>his package arrives
>"Oh anon I like my gifts, I promise I'll buy you your gift soon...when I get the money :)"
>uh okay, even though you made it seem like you had gotten me something I guess it's cool to lie to me like that, sure
>his friends (aka people who I had equally put effort into getting to know throughout our relationship) are all jumping ship now and are talking shit like I'm the bad guy for ending the relationship just because he was "sweet" to me
>they're forgetting the fact that I always had to do shit like spend my own money to drive for four hours to see him among other various unequal shit
>"Oh silly me guys, I should be thankful he texted me a 'I love u' every three days." /sarcasm
>still no gift to this day
I'm really fucking rustled. I can't believe I ever gave this fat useless shit my time or my money. But ofc just because I'm a woman and he's the "nice guy" that means it's the other way around just because he paid for movies once every other month. FUCK.
I wish I could get all the money I ever spent on gas, highway tolls, and food for him back. I'd probably be able to buy myself five new brand dresses.