/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>big lolita meet coming up next month
>been looking forward to it for months, even put a special coord together
>just find out boyfriend's parents have planned a "surprise" vacation for us and his brother&gf that same weekend that I'm being guilted into participating in (they're quite poor and have been saving up for a very long time, it's his graduation present)
>OKAY WHATEVER I'LL WEAR MY LOLITA THERE THEN
>tiny-ass cabin in the forest
>it will probably rain all weekend
>okay nevermind
Sigh.

Also this may be a long shot but is anyone here as oversensitive to shitty table manners as I am? I prefer not watching/hearing people eat in general but normally I can deal either deal with it or quietly remove myself from the situation without issue. However now I will be stuck with my boyfriend's brother's girlfriend for three days and her table manners are revolting. She always makes these smacking, slurping, snorting and burping noises and chews with her mouth open which means that a) you can see everything and b) sometimes things fall out. I literally can not be near her while she eats without feeling like I'm going to throw up. Just writing about it makes me gag.
How the fuck am I going to survive this weekend without hurting anyone's feelings please halp