/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Does anyone else feel like it's much harder for them to make friends in the cosplay community than it is for their other friends in it? I try to be friendly with everyone I'm introduced to, follow them on social media and comment on their stuff in a positive and non-clingy/creepy way, offer booze to people at cons (if they drink) etc and it feels like nobody ever remembers me or talks to me... I've had to reintroduce my self to people I've met like, ten times over the years. Meanwhile, I'll have friends that will meet the same people once in passing and seemingly become online BFFS with ease.

Is something wrong with me?