/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>due to restart counselling soon
>don't know how honest to be
>genuine autist and don't know social norms

I never told my last counsellor I wore lolita out of fear of her judging me, even though it's my main hobby and takes up most of my time. I can't even begin to explain 4chan to a middle-aged woman, even though it affects my mental health. It seems inappropriate and uncomfortable to talk about porn with a stranger even though it relates to my obsessive behaviours. People say you're shooting yourself in the foot if you're not 100% honest with your therapist, but isn't avoiding talking about some of this stuff just...polite? I'm so confused.