/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>boyfriend's birthday is coming up, already bought him something fancy, have some extra spending money left over
>See my dream dress listed on lacemarket
>its in a FULL SET, and only $250 for the whole thing, when other listers are selling the dress alone (in undesired colorways) for $300+
>Boyfriend tells me for his birthday he really wants to treat his poorfag brother and his family to a nice expensive meal, and have his friends come along too
>Bf's had a tough time, friend killed himself on his birthday last year, a few of his family members died too so I know how much this will mean to him
>Don't buy the dress, tell boyfriend he can invite his family and the money can go to that instead
>His friends don't hang out with him on his birthday, cancel birthday plans with him to go have a "celebration of life" vacation together to mourn their friend who has passed
>His Brother tells him "don't really feel like going, I worked today and i'm tired" last minute
>its just me and him at this restaurant and I try to make it the best birthday I can.
>afterwards he looked at me sadly and tells me "I'm sorry you couldn't get that dress. Seems like we didn't need the extra money after all"


what the fuck on his friends for valuing the dead more than the living
what the fuck on his brother for being "too tired" to be treated to a fancy ass meal
the fuck kind of friend offs themselves on their friend's birthday, my bf can barely enjoy his birthday anymore

I don't even want the dress anymore, I just want my boyfriend to be happy

Can we please stop talking about cons that aren't Ohayo in this thread? It kinda reeks of self promoting in here.

Update:
Boyfriend hasn't showered for 3 weeks. He stated he was going to shower today. "I was just waiting for you to not be on my ass about it for at least 48 hours and then i was going to"
>mfw

>>8925163
your post reminds me about how I've been daydreaming about a normie fashion friend who'd help give me a makeover since I cant into normal fashion but I want to. do you play the kylie jenner app?