/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I need anon's advice...
The community where I live is pretty dead because no one is interested in hosting meets any more aside me and I got bored of all the unexcitement and stopped.


But recently we had some newbie lolitas join the community and they are all excited to meet, so I thought it would be a good idea to host one again in order to bring the old ones and the new ones together and maybe revive the community a bit. Our older lolis have also expressed interest in attending

The thing is though,the new ones are young and sort of ita. One of them is very opinionated and shops from the local equivalent of Hot Topic and another is one of these new lolitas who think that lolis must have pink wigs, OTT style and is investing in wigns instead of a complete loli outfit. I don't mind OTT sweet as a style but I am not sure if it is suitable for my hometown. The older girls and guys on the other hand used to dress only in classic and gothic styles and in a rather modest way in order to avoid unpleasant situations.

So on one hand I don't want to exclude newbies because hey, most of us started as itas and if we didn't have older lolis or EGL we would have remained as such, but on the other hand I am afraid of how they are going to dress and that we are going to attract unnecessary attention because of them.

Any advices on what to do?