/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I've been into Lolita for about 3 years now, now all of my girl friends want to be Lolitas too. At first I thought this would be a dream come true however they are becoming major itas...planning to make their own skirts out of that dreaded Joanne's cupcake fabric and waltzing about town in there half-assed (no blouse, no head accessory) clashing outfits. I've given them my GLB's to borrow and tried to guide them but they brush my opinions aside or they flat out get butthurt. Now they want to go to meets with me and want me to twin with them and everything...Should I just let them do what they want or should I keep trying to push them in the right direction hoping someday they will grow out of it?