/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Lor uploaded a video about confronting Lolita obstacles asking what makes it hard for people to wear Lolita and makes them not wear it. I hate that today we’re suppose to be super inclusive and supportive of everyone and their “lolita journey” and have to hold everyone’s fucking hand. If you’re interested in the thing and really like the thing, you will put the money and effort into said thing. These bitches just want to be part of what they see as a cool club and feel unique and special. No one is getting into lolita for the fashion anymore it seems, they see it at cons and in anime and look it up and want to play dress up and look cute like the girls wearing it. Sorry, if you don’t look relatively okay outside of lolita chances are you aren’t going to look good in lolita. You don’t deserve asspats for being so brave for being a “trans man” in frilly clothes or a fat poc in brand. It’s fucking clothes. I guess I’m just buttmad that lolita as a street style is dead now and I firmly believe fatty chans and flavor of the week gender fucks wanting to feel special have killed it in the west.