/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

There's this absolutely beautiful, one-of-a-kind piece I've been trying to buy for over a year now. The seller never responded to my questions about the sizing (she didn't list any measurements on her listing) so I didn't get it in fear that it wouldn't fit and I'd have trouble selling it. But a year passed, the listing was still up and I still loved it as much as I loved it the first day I saw it. So I bought the listing, thinking if it doesn't fit I would just display it in my room or something, since it was just that beautiful. And if they never sent out the item I could start a case and get my money back. Well, the seller finally did get back to me, but only to tell me she sold it to someone in person a long time ago. I know maybe I'm stupid for waiting for so long to purchase the listing since it's obviously what got her to respond but I was trying to be patient waiting for her answer and now I'm just frustrated and sad.

>tfw want to buy something
>tfw only seller is gemgem

Don't want to support a scalper but gdi I want it

>>9232887
Yes, I know they dislike me. I have no issue with their clique but I do dislike the fact that so many members of that group actively try to make me out to be this bad guy.

I don't 'shit talk' anyone and I certainly wouldn't try to cause issue with people I already know don't like me. I try to keep my distance but their bullying is just getting to me. I'm sick of being their topic to gossip about and spread rumors on. I just want a nice and happy group and I'm frustrated.

>>9232888
I thought that I might have been overthinking or been annoying at first, but even after trying to befriend them or make amends it has done nothing to help. I think I'm just an easy target to keep them amused right now. It's strange, they were so nice at first too.

>>9232889
I have tried to talk to some of them and even apologized if I went about the wrong way. They never admit they do anything face to face and sugarcoat everything in person so it has done nothing. I think I might just have to stop going to meets and hosting things anymore. I am just so sad that I can't have people to enjoy my fashion with.

>>9232897
Thanks for your sympathies anon. I hope so too.

>>9232908
The group isn't the best dressed or prettiest, and not all the well dressed and pretty girls are part of it, I was just trying to describe their high standards. I don't want to be friends, but I just want the air cleared and things to be fine. I don't want to worry about their harassment is all. I've been part of the group long enough to have an idea of what these people are like. I am trying to keep my distance and let them be, but they still go out of their way to try and hurt me. It sucks.