/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9509146
I don't wear lolita anymore but this applies.

I run a community groupchat, and following these steps you should be fine
>red flag appears
>be cautious of said person
>second red flag appears
>block said person on social media
>community event comes up, they're there.
>avoid the fuck out of that person, do not fake kindness, it will make it worse.

I'll tell a short story.
>groupchat ends up with a lot of minorities in it (probably because I myself is a minority)
>we were all complimenting eachother because girl love is neat
>girl comes in, and immediately after we compliment her, she starts saying that her life is so hard because she's white, that none of us like her because she's white, that she's marginilized and discriminated against in my racist minority groupchat, and all my mods are minorities who hate her as default
>white mod tells her to get over herself
>kick her
>block her on all other social media
>she throws a shit fit and starts harrassing anyone in my groupchat she can, loses it completely, starts sending people pics of her cutting herself
>instruct my community to block her on all social media, share screencaps and warnings
>community is closely knit, so warnings were spread to other similar communities very quickly
>no one's heard from her since
if she did show up to a gathering, everyone's been instructed to ignore her.
I've never dealt with anyone quite like ...that... since, but it was a great learning experience. if the person is bad enough and community mods aren't retarded, it gets fixed very quickly.