/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

My sister's cat pissed in my room, all over my shoe rack, mostly on two pairs of my AP teaparties.
What can I do to clean these? The floor and everything cleaned fine with vinegar and an enzyme cleaner, but my tea parties still smell.
Am I totally fucked, gulls?

Gulls, this has been eating away at me for weeks.

I dated a really great guy who supported me through a lot of hard times. He actually suggested I check out /cgl/ after I mentioned getting back into cosplay, and here I fell in love with lolita/jfashion in general.
He was always very supportive of my interest in lolita, and he would even ask if I wanted to wear it out when we went on nicer dates. It's not like he was interested in it himself, but he appreciated that I was.

On top of all of this, he was just a great guy. I've never felt so comfortable and so deep a connection with another person.

But he was also my first serious, adult partner, and after dating for a year or two, I got weird fomo that I would just end up married to him. Add to the mix study abroad, me budding into an alcoholic, and general life/school stress, and I was a fucking mess. I broke up with him.

At the time, I felt kind of good about , but as time has gone on, I just feel worse and worse. I've dated other people, and some of them have been good people, but no one has ever been anywhere near his level. Most of them have also been either weirded out by or downright rude about my fashion style.

We're still good friends, and I've told him how sorry I am for hurting him and fucking everything up, and how I hope things can be different in the future, but I really don't ever see it happening.
Just the other day would have been our 5 year anniversary, and the whole day I was on the verge of tears.

>>9346195
MFW It had to be after I decided what lenses to buy

These threads always make me sad, because I come looking for reverse trap help, but it's overwhelming filled with mtf crossplay advice and resources. I'm glad that it'shere, but can I get a guide on looking less feminine, or a makeup guide to emulate masculinity? What are the best binders (for someone who is a 30GG, I've only tried to bind with ace bandages, and that ended horribly and I looked like I had uni-pecs anyway). If I'm an hourglass, is there a way to give myself a more boxy appearance?

>mfw I realize I'll never look like an attractive man with my chubby cheeks
Why live?

I have a story that occurred over this past weekend.

>a week after making an order, customer e-mails me
>"hey where's the tracking number for the product I ordered? it hasn't arrived yet."
>nicely reply saying that, as the FAQ says, the default economy shipping doesn't come with a tracking number, and takes around 12 business days to arrive
>"oh then it won't come by christmas! then what's the point! give me a refund."
>tell him I can't, because it's already shipped
>he starts bitching about how in the "buying process" I never stated how long shipping takes, and that he shouldn't have to read the FAQ
>so he demands I give him a refund plus return shipping, and that he'll return it once it arrives
>say no of course
>so he starts a Paypal dispute saying I never shipped his product.
>I can only end the dispute by giving a tracking number, but of course as the FAQ says, I don't give them
>he ends up calling the business phone number and ends up screaming "Fuck you!" at me
>so basically he's getting Paypal to force me to refund him because "it was never shipped"
>and intends to keep the product when it arrives and give it to his daughter as an early Christmas present
>tfw I'm a broke college student and only wanted to make extra spending money

I really need the brown jacket from Melty Ribbon Chocolate. I thought I had my priorities straight when I decided to socialize instead of wait for the release to happen, but I was clearly wrong.

>>7778090
I just did paypal shipping for the first time today and it was so simple. AND I don't have to leave my house to mail it.

Technology is amazing.

>>7722498
>smiling at how supportive and sweet your mom is
>read last sentence.

Anon, pls.

>>7666236
>tfw you don't even have a female friend to drag into the fashion

>>7644533
I know those feels.
>foreveralone.jpg ;__;

Thanks for all the support anons, but could I just ask for an email buddy?

>>7561180
Oh anon, your DDC coord is the first image I ever saved into my "perfect coord" folder.
You're chubby, but I think you're cute as hell and your face is perfect and

WHY CANT I BE YOU

Last thread is auto-sageing

>thinking it has been a while since I didn't feel pain
>mfw it has only been three day and I'm so used to it that it feel like a while
>mfw I fall like a dumbass while I was cooking because my legs started to hurt like hell and didn't support me anymore

At least I'm used to it...So, to keep it lolita related

>meet in a couple of days
>'anon, are you coming ?'
>really really want to come, but meet involve a lot of walk
>don't want to faint in my expensive dress, make other lolita panick and pity me, ruin the event and go to the hospital again
>tired of being a lone lolita, but can't go out because sick

>>7273530
thin with belly fat hanging there
I look the same and I really feel fat and bad about hanging fat there, no matter how much excercise I do the fat doesn't want to go

>>6312331

Oh God... I am so sorry to hear
Thank goodness you two took her, you guys sound like you really love her

>>6294752
This please.