/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>got a job about 3 months ago
>thought it would be okay
>it's not
>four employees have quit just while I've been there
>company only has about 10-15 employees in total
>management chases everyone out by giving unclear expectations and little compensation
>must persevere for the burando
>had a meeting with the boss today to set some things straight
>made it worse
>even extended my 90 day review because I "wasn't ready," meaning no raise
>drove home shaking I was so angry
>literally every other job I had I was viewed as a model employee
>wtf is wrong with this place
>still trying to hang in there for burando

I want the spending money, but after today I think my boss is just delusional. I've cried so much tonight being so confused as to why they can't seem to value anything I do. I'm a mess and the only thing that comforts is I'm taking money from this gross company and using it for cute dresses.

>>got a job about 3 months ago
>>thought it would be okay
>>it's not
>>4 employees have quit just while I've been there
>>company only has about 10-15 employees in total
>>management chases everyone out by giving unclear expectations and little compensation
>>must persevere for the burando
>>had a meeting with the boss today to set some things straight
>>made it worse
>>even extended my 90 day review because I "wasn't ready," meaning no raise
>>drove home shaking I was so angry
>>literally every other job I had I was viewed as a model employee
>>wtf is wrong with this place
>>still trying to hang in there for burando

I want the spending money, but after today I think my boss is just delusional. I've cried so much tonight being so confused as to why they can't seem to value anything I do. I'm a mess and the only thing that comforts is I'm taking money from this gross company and using it for cute dresses.

>>10030313

>>10018265
Same. I’ve been coveting the thing since I got into lolita a few years ago, now it’s finally my chance to get the dress in my preferred color way...and I’m back to being a broke college student.

>>10004836
Oh god, that's so sad. Not OP, but I'll be moving to Indiana probably within a year. My comm right now isn't big but we meet at least once a month. To think that I've actually been spoiled all along. I'm going to miss all my friends so much.

Well, when I do finally show up, I'll be hitting y'all up, I'd love to help make it more active.

>gonna travel to meet my gf this winter
>hell yeah
>luggage hell ensues
>can'"t bring this or that
>must not exceed this weight,those dimensions,...
i'm so damn lost,i need to bring muh lolita but also several "normie"/himekaji outfits for everyday when i'll chill at home,and some pjs,and products,and different shoes,... and i'm so nervous about it because i just wanna look cute and not repeat my outfits too much for 3 months. I'm too poor for additional luggage fees too, fml.

>>9958225
>tfw you like both vm and moitie

>>9958137
ty, anon

>>9923013
if that stops them from using shitty emoticons I'm fine with it desu

Lolita made me question my sexuality. I think I might be bi, or a lesbian. I'm worried no one will love me though.

>>9898736
Update, I had a third (less expensive) dress get lost in the mail

>tfw starving myself to fit into lolita dresses is actually quite nice

Gulls I know this is more of a feels thread than a help thread but I'm having a rough time. I suffer from bipolar, ADHD and borderline personality disorder. I'm a lolita, albeit not the best at it, and my cleanliness factor outside of it can be really lack luster. It's not that I'm gross I'm just cluttered, I forget to put stuff away. When I go to do anything I sit and think about doing it, but get overwhelming bouts of anxiety that cause me to not want to do anything. I pretty much shut down. I want to die looking at my clutter, and I try very hard when I'm able to bring myself to do stuff to clean and take care of stuff but it keeps getting worse and worse. I'm in therapy, on 4 different meds and I'm still having troubles. I need tips and help for keeping my mind focused on stuff I need to do.

>>9875160
>tfw you check off all but two symptoms

I have nice feelings and good intentions, but I'm not good at showing them so I look like I'm just a jaded, salty bitch. And I'm not even funny so I feel like I make meets actively worse every time I open my mouth.

>fire alarm goes off
>watching a movie so we don't hear it at first
>by the time we do and get up to look it turns off
>open door to dad's hoarding room
>Oh my god the SMELL
>I've never breathed in anything so awful
>Something is or was burning
>Can't find it
>Mysterious oily black splatter on the wall
>brb mom, let me check upstairs
>Go up to my room, directly above
>Grab dream dress
>Nothing upstairs mum!
It's been a couple hours now and we aired the room out. Hopefully that's the end of it for now, but I've packed all my favourite brand and left it by the front door.