How do women accept being self conscious

[Anonymous No.9662988]

I’m a guy and just realized today that I’m ugly. I’m guessing most if not all women are more self conscious than I am. How the fuck do you deal with this shit?

[Anonymous No.9663005]

With metric fuck tons of make up, hair products, implants, etc.

[Anonymous No.9663015]

>>9662988
Xanax
Alcohol
Complaining about the patriarchy
Yelling about fat/ slut shaming

[Anonymous No.9663020]

FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT
IT
TILL
YOU
MAKE
IT

[Anonymous No.9663035]

>>9662988
Why do you think they are constantly seeking attention amd public approval?

[Anonymous No.9663052]

>>9662988
get muscle. it will compensate for your ugly mug

[Anonymous No.9663071]

>>9663052
Doubt it. Might bump me up to a 5 maximum but I still can’t get roastie gf. I just want to cry with another ugly chick to share the sadness together

[Anonymous No.9663103]

>>9663005
Fuck maybe I should get a nosejob if that’ll improve my life

[Anonymous No.9663106]

>>9663052
no it doesnt because less than half of women dont care about muscle. get in shape yes, but other than staceys (which you cant get anyway) no one cares about muscle.

[Anonymous No.9663108]

>>9663071
That’s very doable, I don’t you think you realize how much it sucks being intimate with an ugly person though.
Seriously anon, unless you’re disfigured or very old, get to the gym.

[Anonymous No.9663148]

>>9662988
Anorexia, prudishness, looking for attention ;_;

I want to have a dick so badly...

[Anonymous No.9663159]

>>9663108
I do but I want fucking proof like a smart contract that bulking up by x will improve my chances with roasties by y.

[Anonymous No.9663170]

>>9663148
Well, what KIND of dick?
A dick that's attached to a guy who loves you or just a dick?

[Anonymous No.9663203]

>>9663159
It might not, it will help though if you're fat
Never be fat
What my girl friends tell me is that the "dadbod" is in right now.

[Anonymous No.9663208]

>>9663170
A dick that's attached to me, ie. I want to be a guy :)

[Anonymous No.9663248]

>>9662988
Work out, get money, get a bike, be a douche bag, sell coke

Then get a life jacket so you don’t drown in pussy

[Anonymous No.9663258]

>>9663203
I’m not fat. I’m can gain some weight but I’ll probably still be unattractive enough to get roasties.

[Anonymous No.9663323]

>>9663106
>don't care about muscle
thats a goddamn lie. its like when a woman says she doesnt care about cock size. you know thats a goddamn lie. you actually bought the 'muscles aren't needed' meme, holy shit

[Anonymous No.9663352]

>>9663258
Doesn't matter. Muscles + confidence >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> face for women. of course a guy with all 3 would mog you but with 2/3 you're far ahead of the game in general.

[Anonymous No.9663367]

>>9662988
One word to solve all female issues. Confidence

[Anonymous No.9663428]

>>9663323
Unironically this, and this is coming from a lifelong skeleton. That said there are women who prefer slender frames, but they can be hard to come by. Either that or most chicks who would fuck me are otherwise turned off by my blatant mental illness.

[Anonymous No.9663458]

>>9663352
>>9663367
>confidence
This is such bullshit. It’s like you know you’re net worth is $1000 but you’re “confident” that you’re a millionaire. So you know you’re ugly but pretend you’re not by self-delusion?

[Anonymous No.9663473]

>>9663458
Fake it till u motherfucking maek it

[Anonymous No.9663531]

>>9663458
You know you're worth $1000, but that dumb roastie doesn't. You act like you're worth a million and you might as well be worth a million dollars to her.
Act with no confidence, and you're not even worth that thousand.

[Anonymous No.9663548]

>>9663367
>>9663458
how the fuck do you even be confident if you can't feel confident? in order to feel confident you need a good face, money and a lean muscular frame AT LEAST.
stop deluding yourself because you're too lazy for the gym.

[Anonymous No.9663595]

i will tell you a truism that has ever been heard on these boards concerning women. make a woman laugh and it doesnt matter if you are a skeleton, ugly, fat, whatever all women like to laugh and the amount of ugly retard sub standard knuckle dragging men with hot women over the years i have regularly seen its only because the guys were confident and funny, take notice because its been true since the beginning of time.

[Anonymous No.9663621]

>>9663428
i live in Singapore and while its true that girls here are okay with slender frames (because of fucking kpop and its popularity here) I find that I have advantage over lanklets and DYEL. Muscles convey strength, and strength conveys security. So yes, please go to the gym and do exercises that spur hypertrophy. Meaning you train for muscles that show definition (low weight high rep) and not bloatmaxx (high weight low rep) powerlifter retard shit. Girls see muscles and instantly think you're strong, they don't care how heavy. google is your best friend if you're not sure what im talking about, or simply head over to /fit/. godspeed

[Anonymous No.9663651]

>>9663595
Definitely a lot of truth to this.

And if you want to improve your body, I'd start with posture. Good posture projects health and confidence like nothing else.

[Anonymous No.9663661]

>>9663458
>>9663531
>>9663548
>>9663595
>>9663621
>he cares what women think of him
not amount of muscle will help vagcucks

[Anonymous No.9663672]

>>9663005
This
>>9663015
This
>>9663035
This

Also, women are not self conscious, at least, not in the way men perceive it. And if an ugly woman does realise and internalize that she's ugly or lacking in physical attributes, she will typically find refuge in feminism which removes all accountability from her and places the fault of her ugliness on men or "society" (aka men). When men internalise their ugliness, they typically find refuge in making jokes about it, or some other medium. Men try to deal with their shortcomings, women blame men for their shortcomings.

Female ugliness is largely a lie. Just like men, ugly women can hit the gym and as long as they can improve their physique to accentuate their body in all the right places, there are ALWAYS thirsty betas out there for her. Unlike men, women don't need to workout much to get the "ideal" body; they are just too lazy or stupid in many cases (most don't know shit what a good diet entails). Men have to spend much longer hours at the gym if they want the right physique.

Tldr: Don't fall for the "ugly wimmin have it harder than men" lie. And like other anons said, you need to hit the gym and improve your diet. You'll be surprised how much that will help.

[Anonymous No.9663710]

>>9663672

I know plenty of women that the gym can't even fucking save.

[Anonymous No.9663746]

>>9663661
>how to spot someone who hasn't felt the feeling of vaginal walls wrapped around his cock since birth
do you want to be chad? then pack on the gains and everything will fall into place nicely. women ARE visual creatures and you're either a retard or gullible if you believe otherwise. stop coping, there is literally NO EXCUSE to not be /fit/ with over 16,000 free guides on bodyspace you fat retard

[Anonymous No.9663771]

>>9663458
It's actually true. As in, not as often and to the extent as described in the meme extremes of negating ugliness and shitty finances. Confidence is more like the cushion to soften the blows of such situations. It's quite simple, really. Consider the following.

Would a female prefer a male who is:

a) ugly, poor, has weird hobbies, fat or (unfortunately) a combination of these but is confident enough to play these things off as trivial.

b) the previous, but has crippling anxiety, is depressed and/or non-existant self esteem. A desperate manchild.

The difference is in the attitude. You either let your flaws make you and break you OR you rise above them and focus on taking the best of what you're given. This is confidence. In short, it can be considered a form of "not giving a fuck".
But not in the stereotypically arrogant, cocky way, but rather a simple, accepting way that shows that you have come to terms with your lot in life and are OK with that. To be seen as a person who is not defined by his flawed traits, but who persists DESPITE the flaws.

The worst thing a man can do is give up and resign himself to defeat from the outset. THAT is the weakness women smell as though sharks tasting blood.

[Anonymous No.9663848]

>>9663595
and i will explain more. its not about the abs, the muscles, the vapid shit (assuming you are over 25), the money so much, the looks the clothes nothing like that. most sub standard confident guys with hot women dont even have a reason to be confident. in fact they shouldn't be confident because they are basically useless but this doesn't stop them believing it. it projects and anons just relax be yourself have fun dont worry about it too much. the amount of high school prom queens that turn into fat soccer moms is overwhelming just look at the girls mother for gods sake to see what she turns into. over 25 these women change over 30 more so they dont want to be with the thick ripped football jock or the assertive mechanic because he doesnt give them social mobility. you guys worry too much relax be yourselves have fun

[Anonymous No.9663939]

>>9663746
doing stuff for women's approval is the ultimate cuckoldry. sure, for most men, if they don't actively chase women and to stuff to appease them that means a life of romantic solitude, but that only shows the miserable state males are in. that is, unless they're naturally good looking / successful, famous etc and then women will be drawn to them. that's the only acceptable way for a man to get involved with a woman. for all other men, better to give up on women than become a slave to their standards and caprices.

[Anonymous No.9663983]

>>9663939
who's asking you to become a slave to their standards? if you're not ready to settle down yet you can at least afford to have the time of your life pumping and dumping. All im saying is looking like the stereotypical chaddy hunk while seeking out young poon makes your life a whole lot easier

[Anonymous No.9663989]

>>9663323
Men with muscles attract women who sleep around. The girls you attract because of muscles will not want a relationship.

[Anonymous No.9664045]

>>9663989
this is true because ultimately we all want to settle down with a good girl at the end, don't state the obvious here please. im talking about literal 1/10 uggos who NEED the superficial factor to even get one foot into the door.

Face Height Frame, never forget.

[Anonymous No.9664074]

>>9664045
The haircut shop did wonders

[Anonymous No.9664245]

>>9662988
>the ugliest woman on the planet still has lines of men queuing up at her front door for a chance to fuck
>how do women deal with it?

kek good one buddy

[Anonymous No.9664246]

>>9663621
>Muscles convey strength, and strength conveys securit
Wrong. Muscle conveys that you have a proportional amount of testosterone. Females are attracted to more testosterone. It's literally that simple.

[Anonymous No.9664269]

>>9663015
Exactly this.
They just go around being jealous petty and shitty and wasting time and space usually (but not always, some mediocre looking girls are actually great ppl)

Lucky for us we are guys and looks are even much less important

[Anonymous No.9664342]

>>9663595
Yeah it’s called getting friend zoned