/biz/ - Business & Finance

[Anonymous No.9492858]

Who /hates their job, no gf, no friends/ here?

[Anonymous No.9492877]

>>9492858

literally me

[Anonymous No.9492881]

Me. I live in canada

[Anonymous No.9492890]

Me too thanks.

[Anonymous No.9492893]

me :(

[Anonymous No.9492900]

Same. But crypto is my GF. She regularly cucks me, but I am too weak and hopeful to leave.

[Anonymous No.9492913]

same here bro, trying to find a way to become a neet lord before i make it

[Anonymous No.9492918]

>>9492858
we are all frens here

[Anonymous No.9493063]

I was so close to having a great, long term gf but I ruined it with my autism and we only lasted a month. Shit haunts me.

[Anonymous No.9493141]

>>9492858
You are not alone bro, but gainz will come to us soon. And with great gainz comes great pussy frens

[Anonymous No.9493184]

cant stand the low iq brainlets i work with i get irrationally angry even looking at them. wish one of my coins would moon so i can quit

[Anonymous No.9493192]

I am sailing the same boat too. To everyone on this thread, if you ever make a group or need someone remember "YOU GOT A FRIEND IN ME"

[Anonymous No.9493209]

Enjoying the night with my friends rn. I hope you guys all make friends eventually

[Anonymous No.9493220]

>>9492858
got a few friends, but everything is me

>tfw virgin at 26

no one in this thread is getting JUSTed harder than me, ill tell ya hwhat

[Anonymous No.9493230]

>>9493209
sadly all my friends are chads and i just get mogged 24/7

[Anonymous No.9493233]

>>9492858
i wish you the best, OP

[Anonymous No.9493247]

>>9493209
Must be an interesting bunch if you're shitposting on 4chan is a "great night" lawl.

[Anonymous No.9493309]

lol add dead parents, manlet, and ugly to that and you got me

If I don't make it via crypto im just gonna kms

Job's shittily paid as well

[Anonymous No.9493343]

no gf, hate my job, ugly, have friends though. Moving soon to start a new life. Can't take it here living here, and before I know it I won't be young anymore. People are graduating and getting married, all while I've made no progress. I need to make a huge change if I want to make it.

[Anonymous No.9493400]

>>9493063
I feel that bro.I took her virginity, we made it a year before I managed to push her away. Then she came back and I fucked it up by not having my priorities on straight. Now she wants nothing to do with me and I haven't heard form her in 6 years. I'm sure she's married by now. Could be me but tfw.

[Anonymous No.9493588]

>>9492858
>college dropout
>live with parents
>no job
>no gf
>virgin
>no friends
>talk to no one
betting my entire future on crypto, if i don't make it... well let's just say it will have been a fun ride

[Anonymous No.9493654]

>>9493343
why do men care about their peers getting married? I'm 24 but I don't give a fuck about getting married. Just plan on fucking qt's without having to deal with their bullshit

[Anonymous No.9493658]

>>9492881
anywhere near banff?

[Anonymous No.9493659]

>>9493588
L

[Anonymous No.9493920]

>get first big boy job
>it sucks, pay is bad, manager is a stereotype failure asshole
>wagecuck for 3 months
>finally say "fuck this" and start studying for the GRE
>start saving money
>i use my hate for my job and fear of becoming my coworkers as motivation to study after working 10-12 hour days
>take test, do well, apply for PhD program
>holy fuck they called back for an interview
>HOLY FUCK I GOT ACCEPTED TO MY #1 PICK
>sigh of relief, followed by savings getting wiped out due to emergency hospital bill and truck needing major immediate repair
>can't quit job because no savings now and crypto just shit the bed (feb-march)
>continue wagecucking to reestablish savings
>be me now, less than a month from giving this nightmare company my two weeks
>don'tburnhell'sbridges.polaroid
>get called into HR
>nightmare manager wants me fired because she is bored, dumb and petty
>i might lose my job
>tfw this is an opportunity to get unemployment for a month
>tfw my life is a never ending bear market

[Anonymous No.9494319]

>>9493920
How many weeks/months did you study for the GRE? What'd you get?

[Anonymous No.9494378]

>>9492858
Me. I don't think I hate my job, but I'm starting to be too tired to be happy with my work. I think it might be due to health issues or depression creeping back (more than creeping, to be honest, but eh) I manage to keep my head out of the water for now. I wish I had friends, it seem so easy for some people.

[Anonymous No.9494516]

>>9492858
>20 yo kissless virgin
>shitty job
>no friends
>social anxiety
>made no profit on crypto
>no parents

[Anonymous No.9494557]

>>9494516
i live in a 5 million dollar house by myself though, but everything else is crap

[Anonymous No.9494586]

The only thing wrong with my life is that I fucking HATE my job. Why the fuck did I not spend my teens working toward a comfy IT job?

[Anonymous No.9494614]

no job, no gf, but 1.7mm from crypto

>tfw 22y/o college neet

[Anonymous No.9494673]

>>9493920
Did you need the reference? Otherwise, getting to collect unemployment/severance is a perk, not a loss.

[Anonymous No.9494678]

>>9492858
>not a wagecuck cause have my own business
>10/10 fiercely loyal gf. also was a virgin when we met
>few friends but very reliable and loyal; many acquaintances
>lurk /biz/ to find about crypto gems from autists and neets that have more time to research than me
>made decent gains from crypto thanks to /biz/
>not larping

AMA if you're struggling with something unrelated to crypto and need advice.

[Anonymous No.9494789]

>>9494678
Can I ask you a question? how old is too old for a girl to be a virgin?

I met this girl. We always have cool conversations about life and shit and she's into crypto too. I like that she's a virgin but she's 25. Idk..I'm 27. Am I being too picky? She is pretty tho

[Anonymous No.9494822]

>>9494678
>>9494789
>2018
>actually having any form of opinion on whether a chick is a virgin

Actual normies dont give a fuck, stay larping faggot.

[Anonymous No.9494882]

>>9493920
my life is a never ending bear market
my life is a never ending bear market
my life is a never ending bear market
this hits hard.

[Anonymous No.9494893]

>>9494789
usually their breaking point is at 20-21. It's a miracle if they manage to reach this age without getting railed, but if they do, it's at 20-21 when most of them snap and go on a fucking spree. If they are 21+ and still a virgin either they have given up hopes of fiding a decent guy and they might be too jaded, or there's some mental issues involved.

If this girl is not bat-shit crazy or too jaded, get her. If you'll be her first guy, she'll imprint on you if you know how to fuck and she'll be very loyal.

[Anonymous No.9494894]

>>9494614
larping is great.

[Anonymous No.9494917]

>>9494822
I assume your girlfriend is a roastie that got fucked by at least 10 guys before settling with you. Only dumb betas don't care. Had whores thrown at me wanting relationships. Never worked out. A virgin girl or one that had 1 cock tops makes a huge difference if you're looking for something long-term.

[Anonymous No.9495027]

>>9492858
Same here, bro. Kind of a relief there are so many people out there who struggle with the same problems.
I hope to make it in crypto so I can quit my shitty as job and do whatever I want to do.

[Anonymous No.9495271]

>25 years old
>haven’t had a job since i quit 12 months ago
>moved back in with my parents 10 months ago
>anxiety getting worse and worse

all i have going for me is my family and two close friends who stay by me despite being a fucking loser. other than that I’m fucked if crypto doesn’t work out

[Anonymous No.9495297]

>>9493400
Same thing happened to me. Autism is a terrible affliction. She hates me now but I still dream about her even after 4 years. It's almost as bad as holding link.

[Anonymous No.9495321]

I hate my 2 jobs and have fallen in love with 2 chicks, one in each job.

The chick i flirt with in my day job is already dating somebody else who works there. And the chick i like in my night job is mormon which is actually a huge turn on for me but i already outed myself as a dropout and she is training to be a dental hygenist.

Ive been told that im attractive but im so socially retarded i have no idea when somebody is flirting with me or not. halp

At least im making some ok money now

[Anonymous No.9495575]

>>9492858
Why do you care if you dont have a gf? They are a fucking shit ton of work and it seems you really need to focus on yourself. Even after you get your life together, having a gf is not really that great. I much prefer putting my effort into close friends and going home to an empty apartment and my dog every night.

[Anonymous No.9495605]

>tfw 6'4, pretty intelligent, have a good group of friends I hang out with a few times a week, live in gf
Have an absolute shit job and some substance abuse issues though so it balances out
>still up at 5am shitposting off of a few dabs and 5 beers and only slightly buzzed

[Anonymous No.9495671]

Working hard and saving money so I can become a dropshipper

Lambo land inbound

[Anonymous No.9495766]

>>9495575
kek try hitting the 30s without a gf
it will be over

[Anonymous No.9495882]

>>9492858
Im 31, 5'4, dicklet like 4.5 inches, and asian looking, and not popular. Treated like shit by white friends who were subtly racist if they knew it or not. Midwest needs more diveristy. I also had a taste of some clear potential i couldve had. Stuck around toxic people too long that fucked me up. They also kept me in the dark on alot of shit too. I have ptsd from their shit that its affecting getting new friends and relationships started. I get envious seeing how others moved on to live normal lives, even get envious when i take small trips with parents see guys my height with 7 or 8 female companions. I got cheated out of life. And any opportunity i had was sabatouged because i didnt see it that way after the years of shit.
Only way through this is to make money then go to the bunny ranch atleast once or twice a year.

[Anonymous No.9495899]

>>9495882
Jesus.... U are pathetic!

[Anonymous No.9495919]

>>9495766
lol watchu meen idiot

[Anonymous No.9495926]

>>9495882
shheeeit man i feel you
idk even know how can you start a social life at 31, isnt it pretty much over? where do people of your age meet, what do they do?
i'm in my mid 20s now, what should i avoid to not fuck up completetly?

[Anonymous No.9495941]

>>9495919
i mean that if you don't manage to get a good partner by the time you hit 30 it's pretty much over
you will start lowering your expectations and standard every year until you end up in a toxic relationship with a single mom

[Anonymous No.9495983]

>>9495941
I see. Well, you are in your mid 20's and think you know how your future will turn out? IMO all the years to 29 is filled with bullshit and false imaginations. Once you're 30+ you'll realize that alot of those concepts the people taught you are crap. Marry someone with 20+? lol gtfo.

You're right, your (fake) standards will lower once you turn 30 and you'll open your eyes for what's really important: a healthy relationship.

But first you have to get off your ass and do the work OP! Nothing comes from sitting around in your mom's basement

[Anonymous No.9496044]

>>9495899
Fuck you. I have my reasons.

>>9495926
Everyone is closed in. Most have settled down with having kids, to longterm relations, or having some form of baseline of activity that gets them out there.
I was literally cut out of anything that was social. I was in a band once and thought that my life would improve somewhat, but my eagerness on doing simple shit and enjoying showed and it put others off guard.
I suggest finding a job where there are college students and try to mingle in.
Red flags for shit people are:
>flamboyancy (talks too much and shows off. I.e. guys with comically big trucks) since they lack humility and thus knocks perspective out of their thoughts
>liars who lie about simple shit. Its a forshadow on thier habits
Dont expect people to treat you the same if you are generous to them. If you had more life experience in the negative side, your depression may come off as a creepy vibe to the young ones who are 25 but still think as if they are 17. Age does not bring wisdom. You can life your whole life in ignorance if your entire enviroment is suited to meet your needs all the time.

[Anonymous No.9496158]

>>9496044
that's exactly what i thought. i'm already starting to see this in my life and at work.
Luckily i still have a good group of friends but no gf.

[Anonymous No.9496290]

This is an interesting thread. I'm wondering this alot myself when I had to desire to become a millionaire:

How would it change my life if I'd actually become a millionaire, anon?
Honestly, I doubt it would change my life a lot. I would move into a nice house, eat good, but what else?

[Linky Divinsky !Yw19ncTkNs No.9496319]

>>9492858

Just got a office job that's simple and pays 80k plus full benefits

Having a graduation party this Sunday

Girlfriend coming over to sleep at my place tonight

#FeelsGoodMan

Shit I forgot this isn't Reddit

[Anonymous No.9496363]

>>9496290
At the end of the day it's all about love.
You will eventually start fo feel an empty void in your life even if you become a millionare or fuck thots every weekend.
It's about sharing the rest of your life and experiences with someone who you care about and that genuinely cares about what you really are beside of your accomplishments.

[Anonymous No.9496378]

>>9496363
Delete this post right now. I'm dead serious.

[Anonymous No.9496398]

>>9496319
>that cringe Reddit autism
Fuck me... get the fuck out of here

[Anonymous No.9496461]

>>9496378
biz must know my friend.
Invest your best years (18-25) in finding the sweetheart of your life. The more you age the more difficult it gets because you don't actually get many chances of sharing common situations with people of your own age, ideas and goals. Everyone is more carefree and authentic. Once you start your corporate 9-5 it becomes full hard mode and when you hit the 30s most girls get engaged and shit like that

[Anonymous No.9496478]

>>9494557

Sell your house, move to the Midwest and live off interest.

[Anonymous No.9496482]

>>9496461
IM TRYING DAMN IT

REEEE

[Linky Divinsky !Yw19ncTkNs No.9496492]

>>9496398

No.

[Anonymous No.9496495]

I semi made it but realised what i want money wont help with.
Money attracts the wrong type of woman. Im not bad looking or too autistic conversationally but i could just never get myself to talk with a qt

Now im 23 back at college and have opportunities but im wasting them
Anons. I could find a qt gf material in the library but i have a mental block since 18 and idk why

Money just helps ease pressure and that is all

[Anonymous No.9496536]

>>9496495
exactly, money isn't the answer, it's just a placebo.
Yes you can be a sugar daddy and all that but it won't last forever.
that feeling of not really being loved will get at you sooner or later

[Linky Divinsky !Yw19ncTkNs No.9496567]

>>9496461

I've always wondered if this incel thing is new. Did previous generations have as many incels?

Maybe the internet being created really did fuck all these autists over.

[Anonymous No.9496583]

>>9496567
what do you mean?

[Anonymous No.9496600]

>>9496495
Throw me some of that "made it" btc. I have a wife and a full life but no money (same anon as melting dark wojack thread)

[Anonymous No.9496609]

>>9494614
>college neet

[Anonymous No.9496618]

>>9493400
Youre lucky you got away before marriage

[Anonymous No.9496624]

>>9496567

No internet just gave them visibility and a means to socialise from comfort bubble via message boards. If anything it’s reduced the number of them.

[Anonymous No.9497208]

>>9496624

Yes on the visibility thing, no on the reducing the number.

Women/girl expectations wrt a male mate have skyrocketed since the 80's. OTOH, male expectations wrt women have increased somewhat perhaps but not on the same rate as women.

[Anonymous No.9497324]

>tfw no job
>tfw no coins
>tfw no gf
>tfw no f

[Anonymous No.9497360]

>>9495983
thanks for this anon

[Anonymous No.9497626]

never had a job and probably never will

[Anonymous No.9497780]

>>9493400
>bought in before the pump
>dropped his worthless bags on some poor cuck
Where's the problem?

[Anonymous No.9497832]

>>9492858
no job, gf cheated on me and I broke up with her
asked a qt out yesterday and she said yes, first time I slept well in a long time
got good friends though, not plenty but the good kind

[Anonymous No.9497842]

My jobs pretty cool and pays decent but man I just happiest when I can smoke weed all day and play Vidya

[Anonymous No.9497853]

complete opposite actually

[Anonymous No.9497948]

>>9496618
this, i'm married with 2 Kids, i hate my job and my wife because after the second kid she turned crazy, always yells at me for nothing and pretend that i do domestic jobs when i'm back from work tired af.. the kids take all my time and i barely have 1 hour off a day that i spend trading like a moron because i'm stressed and tired.. I didn't leave till now because i love my kids.. what i do?

[Anonymous No.9498021]

>>9493658
Camrose here.

[Anonymous No.9498142]

>had really close relationship but grill didn't have a career plan
> Got rid of that waste
>Graduated uni
>Now 22, have what people consider a good job
> Can't find grills
> No frens
> Also hate myself and want to die
> I don't want to cause my family pain or I would've ended it years ago

> No gains from crypto. CL lmao

[Anonymous No.9498193]

>tfw no gf and no crypto bull run

[Anonymous No.9498217]

If you’re not happy, you’re doing it wrong. Do something that nobody else is doing. Join us.

[Anonymous No.9498290]

>>9497948
get life insurance for your wife and kill her.
Improve your life and make little crypto funds for the little pepes.

[Anonymous No.9498404]

>>9498142
uni parties

[Anonymous No.9498460]

>>9497948
holy shiet you have fallen to all the memes from marrying a woman who later turns crazy, to kids and alimony :;D now if you lose your job you gonna lose half of your shiet

[Anonymous No.9498653]

>>9498460
I feel i fucked up really bad, but everything was perfect before, i couldn't see It coming.. i will end up divorced, with half of my money going to her every month, and she will likely talk shit about me with the kids all day.. but the kids love me so i will find a way

[Anonymous No.9498658]

>>9492858
you must be Chinese

[Anonymous No.9498684]

>>9498653
try fixing the marriage, it can't be that bad come on now
even my parents argue sometime but they always get along afterward

[Anonymous No.9498705]

>>9497948

try to remember why you fell in love with your waifu and recreate that. dump the kids on your parents or hers for a bit and fuck off somewhere together. woo her all over again, and then when she's being crazy afterward stand up for yourself and try to figure out what's really bothering her. don't get defensive, just be level headed, rational, and keep trying to make each disagreement end up with a resolution that improves things.

its easy to get trapped in a rut and just replay the same patterns on repeat. the only fix is to shake things up and fuck off from your routine for a while.

[Anonymous No.9498745]

>>9492918

no. no fren here.....

[Anonymous No.9498755]

>>9498684
>>9498705
Thanks guys, i will try my best

[Anonymous No.9498810]

>>9493220
I‘m a 28yo touchless virgin and I have zero amount of friends.

[Anonymous No.9498847]

>>9498810

[Anonymous No.9498858]

>>9496624
>>9496567
The internet 100% created incels, I actually went outside before home computers and online gaming went widespread. It ruined my life, I used to go outside and play football with mates and even had girls chasing me.
Now I'm in my early 30s with piss poor social skills and low confidence due to being alone for 15 odd years.
Don't fall into the same trap I did, go outside with your mates and don't get trapped inside by the internet/online gaming/porn jew trifecta.

[Anonymous No.9498874]

>>9492858
No job, have girlfriend that i love, hate my junkie friends, love my hobby brazilian jiujitsu, pretty good life to me

[Anonymous No.9498893]

>>9498847
don‘t cry for me my friend, I‘m already dead

[Anonymous No.9498915]

To any friendless virgins here, here's what you need to do:

GO THE FUCK OUTSIDE

srsly. make excuses to go out and do something, even if its by yourself. go grab a beer and burger in a diner. go read a book in the park. go for a bike ride just to tour around. do anything that gets you away from your computer and out into the real world. its not instafriends, but it will help you see the world through new eyes.

if you have FB, keep an eye out for events acquaintances are going to and try to show up at them to "bump into them" there. even if you don't talk to them much, each little interaction adds up and makes you a friendly face.

if you get invited to anything, go. don't make an excuse. it doesn't matter if you're tired, or would rather be at your computer. it doesn't even matter if you hate people and can't stand social situations. you hate them because you don't spend enough time at them to develop the skills you need to navigate the situation. you'll never be able to bench 200lbs if you never pick up a weight, just like you'll never find friends and feel comfortable in social situations if you hide from them forever.

life is scary. its frustrating. it sucks. computers are easy. they do what you want. and they're enjoyable. but computers also just kill time and sap whatever happiness you could have had from your life. so to repeat: GET THE FUCK OUTSIDE.

[Anonymous No.9498926]

>>9498810
Fren, Anon is always there for you

[Anonymous No.9498935]

>>9498858
>The internet 100% created incels,


I agree. I moved into a new house resently and It took almost a week to get my internet all set up. During that week I was so fucking productive. I went out to play tennis twice, painted the house despite it not being necessary and did some gardening.

..Now I just shitpost.

The internet gives immediate gratification for shitposts and you're always occupied so don't reach out to do anything. Without the internet you get so fucking bored you are almost forced to go out and get a life.

[Anonymous No.9498958]

>>9498935

my power was out recently and I was so antsy I couldn't help myself from looking for shit to do around the house. this is 100% true. we've been placated into apathetic submission by the tool we thought was freeing us.

[Anonymous No.9498977]

>>9498935
if internet and software world sucked nobody would use it. i dont see any problem you guys see. some people go outside more than others. some prefer bike rides while others like being around people and party. personality traits simply.

[Anonymous No.9499013]

>>9498915
I have no business outside, there is nothing there for me out there
no matter where I go I feel like I don‘t belong anywhere

>>9498926
the closest to a friend that I will ever have

[Anonymous No.9499063]

>>9498977
>if internet and software world sucked nobody would use it.


Its not that the internet sucks per se. Its just that it needs to be used in moderation. Its not healthy or productive to post frogs on image boards for 8 hours every day for years and years.

If you did something else with that time you could get good at something and "have a real life"

[Anonymous No.9499090]

>>9499063
I‘m posting frogs here on 4chan since 2011

[Anonymous No.9499150]

>>9498977
stupid fag

[Anonymous No.9499227]

>>9499013

friend, that feeling never goes away. I've gone from a rural area to a mid sized city to a large city and back to the rural area and not once have I felt like I belonged. Searching for true belonging is a waste of time. Just find people you accept and who can accept you and learn to accept life as it comes, not as how you want it to be. You'll never find a perfect match because perfect is a meme.

[Anonymous No.9499256]

>>9492858
Whats the point working then, just kys.

[Anonymous No.9499334]

My job isn't bad but I can't deal with the small talk. Everyone is at least 10 years older and talks about their kids and shitty Netflix shows. I can't relate or fake interest, I miss working shitty retail jobs, at least the co-workers were interesting.

[Anonymous No.9499507]

>>9499063
meh. no need to moderate. natural flow. drink beer and shitpost on 4han as much as you wish. people do way too much things they dont like, you should focus only thigns you enjoy. only mistakes ive made have been occasions ive done something i already knew beforehand gonna suck.

[Anonymous No.9499693]

>>9494614
You can't be a Neet while in college retard.

[Anonymous No.9499904]

>24 yr old
>own businesses
>make millions every year
>started with $3k at 17
>millions in crypto
>live like a neet because I structured my businesses so efficiently
I’m bored af. What do?
>inb4 get girlfriend
I’m mgtow

[Anonymous No.9499921]

>>9499904
buy me a house

[Anonymous No.9499935]

>>9492858

Me but add 50k in student loans that I've been paying for almost 10 years to make it even worse

[Anonymous No.9500752]

>>9492858
>okay job, no gf, couple friends
Anybody else /autist-lite/

[Anonymous No.9500788]

>>9499904
fund your local arts scene and come up with ideas to fund. Set it up so it's not-taxed/so you get tax deductions for it though.

Ever heard of performance artists? They'll do unbelievable things if you can fund it. You'll also have more friends than you can imagine because you'll basically be the man

[Anonymous No.9500830]

>>9492918
you me fren...

[Anonymous No.9501257]

>>9499904
Read about radical politics.

[Anonymous No.9501906]

>tfw just dropped my phone and shattered the screen

I've never done this before. Feels bad...