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8325174 No.8325174 [Reply] [Original]

How does /biz handle women who are liberals but yet demand that you pay the bill on dates. In before "just don't date liberals" because I live in boston.

>> No.8325180

>>8325174
Don't live in Boston

>> No.8325197

>>8325180

this desu

alternatively, just be a fucking man and say "we're splitting this, right?" before she has a chance to say anything. if she insists you pay it all, laugh and say "not very feminist" then delete her number and never see her again

>> No.8325198
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8325198

>>8325180

>> No.8325231

jesus fuck poorfags

>> No.8325242

>>8325174
Quit bitching and pay the bill. If the woman is demanding that you pay you've already fucked up. Enjoy dying alone.

>> No.8325250

Why would you meet someone who “demands” stuff like this.

And of course a gentleman pays the bill on first date. Fuck liberfucks.

I’m in Western Europe and I have not been in a situation yet where a simple “let me take care of this” doesn’t resolve it.

>> No.8325258

>>8325242
kek

>> No.8325265

>>8325242
If she was a tradition woman id be glad to pay

>> No.8325275

i usually pay on the first date. i usually get play on the first date. you win some you lose some. up your game OP and you won't give a fuck about splitting the bill.

>> No.8325288

>>8325250
It's about principle.

>> No.8325324

just pay the bill you faggot

>> No.8325643

>>8325174
if she demands that you pay the bill then you demand that she sucks your dick

>> No.8325682

>>8325174
pay the bill
you dont pay for the food
you are actually paying for the pussy

>> No.8325693

>>8325174
It’s a shit test dummy. She wants to see if you are man enough to stand up to her little stupid requests. Firmly say, we’re splitting this, end of discussion. You get to keep more money and it’ll turn her on a lot to see you have a spine.

>> No.8325704

>>8325174
Are you some sort of idiot who can't cook on your own? What sort of cuck pays for the privilege of eating food prepared by another person?

>> No.8325713

>>8325250
>pays the bill on first date
>I’m in Western Europe
literal Eurocuck

>> No.8325745

>>8325174
>dating stupid hoes
>not just banging them

If you have to spend a few shekels to bang pussy in good condition then it’s worth it.
But if you’re actually trying to gf some hoe who is against “patriarchy” but will gladly take ur money and expects you to be a gentleman then you’re a dumb cunt.

>> No.8325808

>>8325174
>spending money on a woman that is not the mother of your children
Don't spend a dime until at minimum you have fucked her in all holes. Stick to bar dates with no food involved and only pay for your own drinks. Dinner dates are for after you are married to a fertile keeper not for random thots.Bonus points if you have enough game and charisma to convince her to pay for you, and yes it can be done.

>> No.8325822

>>8325288
Hello MGTOW-fag

>> No.8325855

It's sad. I want to help you retards but I don't think there's any help to be had.

>> No.8325861

>>8325174
>liberal expects a handout
I don't understand what you're trying to get at, op. Everything seems normal to me.

>> No.8325895

>>8325174
>dating
being this ameritarded

>> No.8325914
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8325914

I'm a woman and I've always found that if a man doesn't just grab the bill and pay it with no questions asked, he usually ends up being a meek little beta boy that no woman wants. Ever.

We want a take charge kind of man. It doesn't matter if she's conservative or liberal. All women want a man who takes care of shit.

>> No.8326049

>>8325174
I don't ask a woman out unless I like her enough to pay for everything. I just calibrate where I take her to how much I like her.

>> No.8326085

>>8325174
I don't give a fuck what she demands lol, and I never had any women who demanded me to pay or something, I just pay and drive her to my place.

>> No.8326111

>>8325914
And men want woman who don't act like children all the time. Life sucks.

>> No.8326125

>>8325914
SHOO SHOO SMELLY VAGOO

>> No.8326182

>>8325914
why do women raise boys to be the betas they despise so frequently

>> No.8326212

>>8325174
Aren’t liberals more likely to split the bill? Feminism and all that?

>> No.8326228

>>8325174
If you’re traditional / conservative who cares what she thinks? You’re the man. You pay. Everyone has their place.

Then you can make your next move based on how she acts.

>> No.8326229

>>8325174
I have my dates pay for my meals. If you don’t do this, you are a failed man.

>> No.8326232

>>8325174
Conservative women will expect you to pay moreso.

Be a man you faggot

>> No.8326248

>>8326182
Selfishness. Women don't love the man himself, they love what he does for her. They love being fucked ruthlessly by an alpha, they love being doted on and supported by a beta. When a woman raises a son to be her servant, she's basically committing a form of non-sexual incest.

>> No.8326250

BACK TO R9K/POL WITH YOU
SHOO SHOO

>> No.8326542

>>8325174

i just wish a woman would even speak to me outside work....

>> No.8326620

>>8325174

You pay the bill to show her you are more powerful than her and are able to provide security without being coerced.
It's a very simple step in the mating ritual.

Protip: if the issue of 'how we are splitting the bill' ever comes up, don't expect to get your tip wet.

Protip#2: if she 'insists' on paying part of the bill, you probably aren't getting your tip wet either, because she doesn't respect you, or the mating ritual

>> No.8326659

>>8326620
this. fucking virgin neets making a big deal over paying a bill on dates.

>> No.8326667

>>8326659
>you want to pay for me you little shit? You think you're better than me?
>RAAAAPPPEEEEE

>> No.8326681

>>8326667

it was my privilege

>> No.8326683

>>8325174
say you have to use the bathroom and then exit through the back

>> No.8326721

Pay for her goddamn dinner on a date.

You'll eventually go 50/50 if you get into a relationship but that WON'T happen if you try to go dutch on the first dates. You'll look like a poor loser.

>> No.8326745

>>8326620

This is right. Leave your liberal/conservative ideology at the door and realize you're dating a human woman.

>> No.8326748

>>8325174
You get her to pay for you. I did with my current gf of 1 year. Worked out splendidly. She buys me shit/pays way more than I buy/pay for her shit.

>> No.8326787

>>8325174
Anon a real man never fucking let's someone split the bill, being on a date or out with friends, this is why you will never be an alpha

>> No.8326834

>>8326787
>>8326721
>>8326620
>>8325914
How do you explain my situation then?

>> No.8326913

>>8326834

exceptions always exist
in your case, your female for some reason considers you to have a higher sexual marketplace value than herself, and she is concerned that if she does not provide for you, she will lose access to your perceived value

my guess is that she's a thirsty hoe with issues, and that she is using you like some sort of comfort blanket

good for you if you are satisfied with her

>> No.8326922

>>8325174
I pay the bill. My gf gets the bill next time. Super simple stuff.

>> No.8326994

>>8326913
Oh hell yes. Happiest I've ever been with a woman. She's Asian and I'm white, dunno if that plays into it. She cooks and cleans for me, buys me clothes, pays for trips etc, and she's cute and smart. I think I just lucked out honestly. First Asian girl I've dated. I give her lots of love and affection in return but almost nothing material. I didn't buy her anything for valentines or our anniversary and she didn't bat an eye. I just took her on a hike/picnic and she was overjoyed. We met hiking during a meetup.com event. Keeper I'm thinking. Considering marrying her even though I swore I'd never marry.

>> No.8327007

>>8325174
>How does /biz handle women
We don't.

>> No.8327055

>>8326994

>wmaf

That may play into it. I dunno what type of asian she is, but lots of them have white-fever, and think its an amazing thing to catch a white man. I'm happy for you, and I hope you treat her well and do something special for her on occasion. Getting a woman who puts effort into keeping her man happy like that is a pretty rare thing.

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>>8325914
>We want a take charge kind of man
>''Pay the bill, bitch''
>le trigger vagina
??

>> No.8327110

>>8325174
I'll pay the first date, no problem, after that it's 50/50 or one treats the other.

>> No.8327126

>>8325745
but the problem is you dont know until youve paid

>> No.8327148

>>8327055
i can relate. my gf is asian aswell, and she is such a loving person. ill protect her against all and forever. 6ft spanish hot guy in vietnam

>> No.8327153

>>8326620
by that logic is demanding you split the bill an express sign of rejecting her?

>> No.8327173

My gf and I do't split but I pay this one, she pays the next, and so on.

>> No.8327215

>>8325197
I wouldn't even bother being that direct. When the server asks about the bill, mention to split it and continue on with the conversation. If the cunt you're with gives you a look, remind her how strong and independent she is.

>> No.8327273

>>8327055
She's from Hong Kong. Yeah I treat her well, even if I don't get all spendy on her. It's weird because always heard Asian girls are just gold diggers and just want to grab your wallet, I even joke with her about it.

>> No.8327348

>>8325914
if someone like YOU is at my table i will rather you think the worst of me than spend another second of my time with you

such a shit attitude, id gladly even stand you up with the bill and run away

vile whore

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8327545

>>8327348
>id gladly even stand you up with the bill and run away
You just proved her point. Meek little beta bitch boy

>> No.8327609

>>8327545
How is that meek or beta? Do you at all understand the words you're using? What he's describing is the complete opposite of complacency.

>> No.8327629

Just pay like a man.

>> No.8327680

>>8325914
>wants a man to take charge
>man takes charge by telling the bitch to pay for his meal

Seriously though, how entitled do you cunts have to be that you think strangers should pay for your mere existence. Jesus. You're nothing more than a leech with a fish hole.

>> No.8327762

>>8327273
mirin' brah, don't fuck it up

>> No.8327819

>Tinder/happn
No
>girl you have met trough friends, or work, and you're getting to know
Why not ?

>> No.8327860

>>8327762
I won't, her parents might though. They aren't keen on the gwailo.

>> No.8327906

>not going to the bathroom near the end of the meal then ditching the woman leaving her with the bill.

Stay poor

>> No.8327961

>>8325174
But the wage gap

>> No.8327964

>>8327860

I have a Asian qt too, she usually pays for shit, or at least we split sometimes but sometimes I just forget. It's awesome because I'm clearly the man in the relationship but they have a way of doing some manly shit "paying for bills etc." while also still relegating themselves to the womanly role and cleaning, cooking etc.

I swear I can be the male and the female in the relationship sometimes. It's awesome, my girls from Taiwan so maybe it's different.

>> No.8327978

>>8327964
Well shit thats different. Everyone knows taiwan numba whan

>> No.8327979

>>8325197
>>8327215
>wanting to date these independent cunts
How about you pay for the fucking meal and then make her suck your dick for a living?

>> No.8327988

>>8327964
Yeah I know exactly what you mean.

>> No.8327993

>>8327860
>>8327964

I like being babied though and people doing shit for me. They just want a strong man (confidence not necessarily literal strength) with a half-decent penis (mines honestly nothing impressive) and they treat you like King's because they're still in the old world mentality. My girls Mom for example is a stay-at-home Mom, you don't see that shit very often in the West anymore. The gender roles are clear and explicit and everyone is just happier for it

>> No.8327994

>>8327906
I kind of want to do this just once.

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>>8325174
>How does /biz/ handle women who are liberals
I can't speak for /biz/ but I can speak for old /b/ and /pol/ on this one.

>> No.8328063

>>8328006
i don't change for women, I remold them into what I want if they fight me I kick them to the curb

>> No.8328082

>>8325174
Never been on a date. No girl will ever like me.

>> No.8328091

>>8328063

that's a total girl thing to do. girls date guys for what they want them to become, guys date girls and hope they never change.

>> No.8328113

>>8328091

how many times have you been broken up with vs you breaking up with them

>> No.8328148

>>8328113

Generally what I would do is lose interest and sabotage the relationship. It's an even split between me breaking up and them though

>> No.8328168

Have her pay.

>> No.8328175

if she doesn't offer to pay, you're not chad.

>> No.8328190

>>8325174
>How does /biz handle women who are liberals but yet demand that you pay the bill on dates.

Perfect use case for a smart contract. You consent to pay for a meal, she consents to sucking a dick.

Meal is paid for, funds are locked in escrow, if your dick isn't wet within 24 hours, funds for the entire meal are credited to your account, otherwise, why are you dating a liberal chick that demands you pay?

Alternative scenario, if she's a normal female that you might want to have children with, pay the bill, she'll be happy to know you aren't the average beta, and maybe you'll be able to pursue a relationship.

>> No.8328306

Has anyone who isn't really jacked and outgoing been on a date? I've convinced myself that anyone who isn't is hopeless. I gave up on any hope of dating a while ago.

>> No.8328352

>>8326787
t. cuck supreme

>> No.8328395

>>8327629
I'll do when I'll see a real woman. not an adult child.

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>>8328306

It sometimes works if I met them in person beforehand, but any foray into online dating has beat me over the head with the knowledge that I'm irrelevant at best. Stay away if you want to maintain a shred of self-worth.

>> No.8328521

so many advises about hot opportunities, buy that , sell that, btc 10k in 2 hours, but none of them have a real background, read about skywire if you believe there is a future

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>>8325231
>I can afford to buy free things for roastie cock-sockets...like a man

>> No.8329532

>>8325174
If a woman is traditional I will pay the bill no problem.
If a woman is a new gen (ultra feminist, women's rights advocate, strong independent) then she can split the bill

>> No.8329567

>>8325174
read "surely youre joking mr feynman" for the answer.

Actually, just read it regardless.

>> No.8329588

>>8329532
Why should you give a fuck about her opinions? If I date a woman I pay the bill, and if she's not happy with it she can go bck to her place alone. You're the man, you get to decide. Women want someone to take them in charge, who makes decisions for them. She'll adopt your political opinions.

>> No.8329598

>>8325914
Women use to cook, clean, make babies, raise babies, virgin on their wedding day, mend a home. These are the women I pay the bill for, but I understand those days are long gone

Entitled bitches like you who want the benefits of a traditional woman, but don't do any traditional stuff are just holes.

>Pump and Dump only