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[Anonymous No.58209558]

I have finally accepted that I will be fine living alone. I don't need a girl to be happy and that is okay.

[Anonymous No.58209604]

>>58209558
i hope it makes u happy anon
i’m struggling to figure out whether i want to have someone else. i’m just so tired that i can’t imagine coming home to talk to another somebody

[Anonymous No.58210595]

>>58209604
i used to have the same thought as you anon but after i married i realized that u dont have to talk and hopefully she understands that not all nights are easy. besides they probably have the same idea from day to day

[Anonymous No.58210640]

Video games and hookers is the male equivalent of women traveling and drinking wine. You’re a loser.

[Anonymous No.58210641]

>>58209558
It's really like hitting the lotery. Before I met my current gf I told my mum "I'll never settle with a girl I feel like I need to take care of a disgusting dog"
My mum was frightened. Then after banging here & there I met a trad girl with a capitalist trad family honestly It's day/night difference. She wants to marry have kids, big house the perfect midwit life and honestly it's quite motivating, sometimes tiring but being commited to smth worth it is a lot better than being bored / depressed.
I've been really lucky, I hope you anon get the same. It's not perfect but I understand a little bit better how our grand parents were living and it was a rough life sometimes but life with values.
Basically a perfect life is :
-2M $ in assets to get divs and keep intact the purchasing power
-Working 35h in a good company, having a high quality job with responsibilities (sometimes tiring but it keeps away depression in my case)
-10h sports / week (8h minimum 12h is best)
-2-3kids and a house

I don't have all of this but I realized you really CAN'T be unhappy with this set-up, it fills your soul (kids/wife), your motivation to grind (job), your hormones and joy (sports), your decisiveness (free time/assets and $ autonomy).

[Anonymous No.58210666]

>>58210641
Imagine having $2M and still willing to wage. The absolute state.

[Anonymous No.58210676]

The only possible way for me to ever even just try to get a girl is to hire a professional assassin and pay him tens of thousands of dollars to literally seek me out at random times putting a loaded gun on the back of my head where if I don't approach at least one girl he'll blow my brains out on the spot or something like that.

I have no clue how anyone is actually motivated enough to seek girls, try to win them over and then spend money, time and effort to try to keep them with you after that. All what happens in my brain when I see an attractive girl anywhere is just "damn, she's hot" and I continue on walking, that's it

[Anonymous No.58210718]

>>58209558
you're coping but you already knew that.

[Anonymous No.58210734]

>>58210666
That's what I tought, I cashed out 1M in 2021 and immediatly stopped working. I lived like a king but I also started to feel extremely depressed. After that I realized it's a quite common pattern, you need discomfort in your life especially for men, we're cabled to solve problems.
Look at all these succesful people who are worth more than 10M (actors, famous boxers, even streamers, hedge funds traders etc...) They all keep working without exception it's not a random pattern.
Look the Dan Bilzerian's bio where he explains he had everything and felt the most depressed ever.
>I'm a loser so I spent it all in travelling and spending like a mad retard (drove race cars, started low ranking pro Iron Man triathlons, went 6months to costa rica in the most expensive places... Technically it was great I lived a life I never got before but I realized it's quite empty after a while. Its' not a meme.
At least now I'm starting to almost 0 back again but now I have smth worth it to commit.

[Anonymous No.58210746]

>>58209558
Many of us have this fate. You should still reproduce if you’re not totally deformed and if u want them tho.
If you want children just save up 50-100k over the course of the next 5-10 and get surrogacy abroad; make like a “my kid fund” or smth. I’m a brutally shy and romantic person even though I’m 6’ 2, fit, good face, on track for 6 figs in a few years etc. But my romantic ideals and general shyness just makes wanting to talk to the horde of hymenless, insensitive, obese roasties even more impossible. Have no interest in gettin laid or gettin dat muhfuggin pusssayy either.
I do want kids tho and I’ll just use surrogates and then raise them properly. I know I’d be a good father.

>>58210641
Not gonna judge how you want to live but calling it perfect (as in ideal for everyone) is just completely off.

[Anonymous No.58210753]

>>58210734
>need discomfort
No, you don’t. Maybe you do, but I certainly don’t.

[Anonymous No.58210819]

>>58210746
I'm saying this because I know I'm extremely average / midwit so tha'ts what I think would fit for most of the people.
Also I had a quite weird young life (14 to 23) and I had this time of gaming alone, living my life alone doing what I want when I want and it's fine for some time. Now I realize I take much more pleasure to get involved in smth and get a little discomfort.
It's a matter of perspective honestly, It took me years to realize this and I think I realized it only a few months ago.
If you're romantic fit and shy honestly you should simply fuck here and there for fun, do some fight sports to counterbalance your inner weakness and from there I think you can learn a lot. ( that's what I've done and it helped me tremendously) Also I started reading masculinity books because I grew up without father so I had to learn by myself how to behave like a man. These books look cringe at first and there is some shit advices in it but it helped me to see through the shitty fog of this society if that nakes sense.

[Anonymous No.58210859]

>>58210753
Everyday for 6months I woke up with an intense desire to jump from my 50meters high balcony when I stopped working. (the first 2 years were great tho).
At some point I was making scarifications with kitchen knifes on m carotide. When I went surfing I went during a storm in Portugal almost alone (5meters waves and my previous max was 3m with a huge strenght and frequency) and I almost drowned out (I felt unconscious when I reached the sand) I don't think I've done it randomly.
Also like previous message, nobody wleathy just retire at 30-40 yo it never happens.

[Anonymous No.58211249]

>>58210819
>If you're romantic fit and shy honestly you should simply fuck here and there for fun
Nah man I just can’t do it
>combat sports
I’m definitely interested in this, I don’t wanna get my head rocked tho so I was thinking of BJJ or Judo or smth. Thoughts?

>masculinity books/father
If it works for u all power to u brah but I just can’t into stuff like that. I’m comfortable with what/who I am rnow. Won’t judge you for it if it helps you.

>>58210859
Interesting stuff, but that last sentence is peculiar. When I think “retirement” I think 60 year old pensioner/social security receiver who is no longer in employment lol; of course it’s trivially true that somebody that gets rich young, or is a rich 30 something will probably not totally take his foot off the pedal and devote himself to his personal projects or whatnot. Not disputing that brah.

[Anonymous No.58211306]

>>58209558
Being single and alone were the best days of my life. I could get home from, get high and pour myself a whiskey and play video games all night. Now I’m married and have 3 kids. Being married is a fucking drag. The kids are the love of my life, but they are so much fucking work. And I have to see my in-laws more often. Wouldn’t trade my kids for anything but I would be lying if I said I wouldn’t love to revisit my single and alone years.

[Anonymous No.58211351]

>>58211306
always greener on the other side. many neets want a stable family life

[Anonymous No.58211404]

>hookers, drugs, sex, cars, watches gold doesn’t make you happy
>starting a trad family doesn’t make you happy either

[Anonymous No.58211430]

>>58210676
Problem is there’s no incentive especially if you live in the US. If you live in a country where the women aren’t morbidly obese and you aren’t addicted to porn - the motivation comes naturally.

[Anonymous No.58211468]

>>58209604
How old are you? If you're young and don't find anybody you'll have a moment where all of a sudden you just don't care anymore and you have overcome the power of pussy. It's a blessing desu

[Anonymous No.58211483]

>>58210641
>you can’t be unhappy with this setup
Kek, ask any divorced dad what it’s like. A loving wife is very difficult to maintain. It’s miserable sometimes desu

[Anonymous No.58211489]

>>58211306
I heard somewhere that 75% of parent-child interactions happen by the time the child is 12 and 90% when the child is 18, so they will be out of your life soon enough.

[Anonymous No.58211517]

>>58210859
>Everyday for 6months I woke up with an intense desire to jump from my 50meters high balcony when I stopped working. (the first 2 years were great tho).
How? I have been retired for 3 years and im fine..

[Anonymous No.58211547]

>>58210718
Is he? I have $ and big house, every single girl ive been with, it feels like im doing her a favor. Even when im driving seems like doing her a favor. You just have to rich so that only 2 percent of the female are that level too.

[Anonymous No.58211568]

>>58210676
stop masturbating

[Anonymous No.58211579]

>>58210718
8% of americans are millionaires. 5%
to 7% are men and let says 1 -3% are girls. Less girls to choose from unless you want to be some betamale provider simp.

[Anonymous No.58211597]

>>58210718
Add the fact 1% of the world are millionaires, girls are like 0.03%. Lol. Good luck. I aint here to provide like some average male with $

[Anonymous No.58211601]

>>58211568
I went two months straight without jerking off before the nofap meme was even a thing, absolutely nothing changed except having an annoying wet dream every 8-9 days or so

[Anonymous No.58211610]

>Be single
Feel miserable
>Get girlfriend
Feel even more miserable
>Be neet
Feel miserable
>Get job
Feel even more miserable

Coins for these feelings?

[Anonymous No.58211622]

>>58210734
yeah.. some of us are ment to be employees some not.
ive never been more depressed and demotivated than when I was waging

[Anonymous No.58211648]

>>58211622
I graduated high skrewl early so the year before college (22 now this is back when I was 17) I did absolutely nothing. Beyond my mother’s nagging it was soooooo comfy lol. I don’t hate work but I would like to do that again in a few years when I have a good amount stashed and have my own property or something.

[Anonymous No.58211655]

>>58210641
>I met a trad girl with a capitalist trad family
how anon??? please tell me how did you find a girl like this?

[Anonymous No.58211656]

>>58211648
Being an engineer isn’t that bad lel.

[Anonymous No.58211663]

>>58210641
Thanks for the positive outlook. I’m glad you’re happy.

[Anonymous No.58211675]

>>58211656
Engineers are phags. But if you are legit rich, 99.7% of girls in the world is below you. (Actual statistics) and i dont think its a good look to "date down" like the average man

[Anonymous No.58211683]

>>58211648
Youre 22. Young as fuck. Almost a dumb child to me.

[Anonymous No.58211686]

>>58211675
I’m never going on a date anyway. All women are whores. Fuck you for calling engineers fags btw kek.

[Anonymous No.58211696]

>>58211686
Im an engineer and i make 45 dollars per hour

[Anonymous No.58211698]

>>58211683
>>58211597
>>58211579
>22 be like a child holmes
>i aint gon be daytin down cuh
Disgusting Latinx slave

[Anonymous No.58211712]

>>58211696
What type? Mech eng fag here and I make 68,000 a year and I’m a first year pretty much. Had internships every year though and I got a really good reference from someone.

[Anonymous No.58211717]

>>58210641
>you can’t be unhappy with this setup
>*throws chicken nugget*

[Anonymous No.58211722]

>>58209558
>>58209604
In the same boat. Just working on me right now, who knows if I'll ever do the dating thing again. I've dated 2-3 beautiful high quality women in my life for extended periods and if I can't replicate that, then I'm just not interested. I'm 46 but look better than I ever have (I was already good looking), so I do have options We'll see.

>>58210640
I neither play video games or fuck hookers.

>>58210676
Find a group of local dudes that do pick up. Seriously. Meet up with them and it'll motivate you. There a fair share of weird-ish dudes but I made a couple good friends from these groups as well. Plus it's fun and exciting to hunt. Have some balls and try it

[Anonymous No.58211735]

>>58211712
That blows Im a field engineer and make 86k. Just started in January its pretty sick

[Anonymous No.58211741]

>>58211712
Kys you engineers are like vegans

[Anonymous No.58211750]

>>58211698
>i aint gon be daytin down cuh
Whats your problem? If 99.7% of girls are below, why are you picking from the trash? You dont see girls dating down. Have some self respecr

[Anonymous No.58211756]

>>58211735
Cool brah, I literally took the first offer kek. I have almost no expenses because I live with my parents. Once I save up 300k I’ll try my hardest to get a job in the metro area near me instead and buy a house, but rnow I’m extremely comfy. I also have to save money for something more important tho, so I have to minimize my expenses, if I were to move to my local metro with 120k median mech engineer salaries I’d have to get an apartment and food that would cost me a little too much compared to rnow when I have no expenses like I said.

[Anonymous No.58211764]

>>58211722
Wing man is gay. Bunch of pussies who just critise from the sidelongs. And when i bump into these types theyre always with someone i wouldnt even look at.

[Anonymous No.58211765]

>>58211741
How, you dumbass nigger monkey? In what way?

>>58211750
I’m never going on a date because all women are whores but the way you write is just sooooo Mexican who follows PUA accounts on X.com.

[Anonymous No.58211782]

>>58211698
Youre 22. Lol.

[Anonymous No.58211808]

>>58211765
>I’m never going on a date because all women are whores
Are you rich or sth? I feel like every second i spend with a girl is a waste. I guess im just not like the average guy. Sitting at a traffic light with a girl next to me was the most simp gay feeling ever. I literally sitting there feeling like a huge beta. And some guys get married lol.

[Anonymous No.58211812]

>>58211782
You’re old and latinx kek. The elderly possess no advantage over me. Go overdose on Modelos and IPAs and grow your man tits out further hombre.
“At leezt I got dayut expeeerience homez”

[Anonymous No.58211821]

>>58211808

Were bout it here: >>58210746
Just saving for myself and my future kids. Dgaf bout holes.

[Anonymous No.58211829]

>>58211812
Im not threat? You pretty much work for me. And top 10 own 70 percent of all assets. Lol. Your housing costs, rent and everything benefits the top 10% . U have shitty attitude

[Anonymous No.58211841]

>>58211829
Nice cope. You are not part of any group, you are just an individual. One with a very low IQ tho.

[Anonymous No.58211847]

>>58211756
I keep 5k saved for whatever expenses come my way and other than that I’m 100% in Chainlink. I still live at home too but only for this current project then I’m probably gonna move to Orange County.

[Anonymous No.58211855]

>>58211764
It helps if you have approach anxiety, like the anon I was replying to does

[Anonymous No.58211856]

>>58211812
You drive uber? Good for me. You go uni? Good for me. You buy gas? Good me. You buy and do anything and it benefits me. At the same time lowering your value fue to increasing population. Lmfao. Youre a literal slave. So drop your shitty attitude.

[Anonymous No.58211857]

>>58211847
Kino

[Anonymous No.58211860]

>>58209558
One night you will have a dream where you have lived the most wonderful life with your soul mate and then wake up to pure void agony when the realization hits that it was only a dream and that now after that experience you know truly deep down that you longed for a partner this whole time but have been suppressing it to avoid the pain that had not really ever gone away but been lingering in the subconcious your whole life.

[Anonymous No.58211864]

>>58211856
Cope.

>>58211860
Read young werther. This happens to everyone. You can either cope about it or accept it.

[Anonymous No.58211868]

>>58211841
Im not part of any group? Im part of the top 5%. The gap between the top 20 and bottom is huge and growing. Me and you are getting further apart as we speak.

[Anonymous No.58211872]

>>58210640
>Hates travelling
>Hates wine
>Hates video games
>Hates honest whores
You're the loser, kill yourself. Go shove rabbi Yeshua Ben Yosef's cross up your ass.

[Anonymous No.58211876]

>>58211868
I’ll be fine. The gap is largely growing because every new generation is worse at saving and investing, not to mention obsessed with the latest fashion pushed into their worthless brains with talmudvision. I could give less of a fuck about anything beyond my health and finances. Plus mass migration of course but I digress.

[Anonymous No.58211880]

>>58211610
interlinked

[Anonymous No.58211883]

>>58210718
Relationships are insanely overrated. Why do you think there are so many breakups and divorces

Moreover, they aren't for everybody

[Anonymous No.58211884]

>>58211876
You sound based. Ignore that retarded boomer.

[Anonymous No.58211905]

>>58211841
Youre part of a group that owns nothing. Lmfao.

[Anonymous No.58211912]

>>58211864
Cope? I have nothing to cope. Youre the generation will horrible society to grow up in lol.

[Anonymous No.58211916]

>>58211905
Is there a national 5% club? Oh wait, there isn’t! I am not part of any group, I am myself an no one else.

>>58211884
Yh kek he’s a funny retard tho.

[Anonymous No.58211926]

>>58211876
It's "I couldn't give less" not "I could give less" that implies that you still have room to give, stop being a fucking retard and using English improperly you turgid shitskin jeet faggot

[Anonymous No.58211927]

>>58211916
There is. Its called the millionaire class.

[Anonymous No.58211935]

>>58211912
It’s not as if being a boomer is much better in the grand scale of things, whatever benefits you may have had legally and societally are all gone. And it’s not as if you are gone yet, you still live amongst the masses. The masses who if they could would expropriate your wealth and hang you. Mass democracy existed in 1960, it’s just that the median American was a northwest European with 100 IQ so it was slightly better. It was still not good though.

[Anonymous No.58211941]

>>58211926
It was an accident that I already realized I made retard, relax kek.

[Anonymous No.58211945]

>>58210641
>Then after banging here & there I met a trad girl
hmmm you're not trad at all but I guess she got with you in order to fix you?

[Anonymous No.58211948]

>>58211864
Just read the summary, some old ass story about a cuck that couldnt move on from the roastie who was already engaged so he roped. Im talking about dreams about non existent women you silly sausage

[Anonymous No.58211950]

>>58211926
It’s “room to grow” not “room to give” you stupid shit brown nigger monkey

[Anonymous No.58211974]

>>58211860
none of us will ever really wake
up
https://odysee.com/@Realfake_Newsource:9/RFNS-2.21-001-015:d

[Anonymous No.58211980]

>>58211948
I think the more prescient observation is how most people will never meet their “soul mate”. Romance is omnipresent but just simply not available to most people because most people will simply never meet the person who fits their every desire.
Werther’s story, where one meets their beloved but will never be able to be with them is a much more likely situation for love, and Romeo and Juliet on the other hand a very, very rare situation but it’s the situation most normalfaggots (at least historically, these days they’re such worthless cattle I can’t even begin to explain kek) think of when their onions addled hearts go pitter patter for a fat Latinx pig with tattoos.

[Anonymous No.58212004]

>>58211927
What does a 2 million net worth car dealership owner in some suburban area with no college degree have in common with a New York finance jewfag, a streetshitter who owns 10 gas stations, and a Silicon Valley tech dork? Classes in your understanding literally don’t exist. You are not voting as part of some guild lmao. How can you be so old yet so uninformed and fucking retarded?

[Anonymous No.58212028]

>>58211980
Well put. Jah feel this now and i see the comparison to what i wrote earlier. Ty, well read anon

[Anonymous No.58212090]

You don't need a girl to be happy, but you do need children. It's the only reason you exist. Women are simply a means to that end, and usually a healthy nuclear family leads to raising happy and successful children.

[Anonymous No.58212204]

>>58209558
This, I'm just going to buy a dog when I make it. Dog's are more loyal, loving and tight.

[Anonymous No.58212213]

>>58209558
you literally made it

[Anonymous No.58212240]

>>58210666
Do you think youll be feel satisfied with having no purpose and just living a life of empty shallow pleasure of fucking hookers and doing drugs when you're rich?

Study the hedonic treadmill and you'll see why people still want to work when they're rich.

You're probably the type of normie midwit who wonders why entrepeneurs/founders worth billions don't just retire.

[Anonymous No.58212247]

>>58210734
If you need to waggie to not be depressed you lack real hobbies or talents. Do you think a guy with a musical talent like Aphex Twin wishes to be a wagecuck? kek. He literally has never worked a day in his life and said he has never been depressed.

[Anonymous No.58212294]

>>58212247
Aphex Twin puts in a ton of effort into his music fren.

Yeah its not waging at mcdonalds but its still work.

I think some people can derive the same satisfaction from programming or running a cool company which is why they continue to work after "making it"

Personally I will still work when I have 10 million dollars. I could retire right now with 7 figs and live off interest like a neet but I would be depressed playing video games all day

[Anonymous No.58212302]

>>58212247
>He literally has never worked a day in his life
But that’s false, he’s likely working longer hours than a wagie, and that’s the point

[Anonymous No.58212417]

>>58211935
>. The masses who if they could would expropriate your wealth and hang you.
I love seeing the wealth gap widen. It widen a lot since 2021. Fuck u i got mine zommie bitch. Shit like this fuels the boomer seeing you zoomer own the lowest amount of shit in historyyy
>>58211935
>the masses
The masses live paycheck to paycheck. Your attitude sounds so pathetic. The masses also wake up to an alarm.

[Anonymous No.58212431]

>>58212004
Only percent of the world are millionaires. Its an elite class. Super elite is billionaires. Imagine think the literal top 1% are "nothing" lol wtf

[Anonymous No.58212443]

>>58212004
>>58211935
Theses two brokies have no idea the wealth disparity in the west lmfao.

[Anonymous No.58212455]

>>58212417
Are you retarded? Where did I imply I want your money taken? I’m just saying your gay little brag about being born 40 years before me is irrelevant because we still live in a democracy. The creatures in your image are ugly, what of it? Dysgenics is happening, if boomers had installed a eugenic regime instead of loving democracy so much such hideous monstrosities wouldn’t walk among us.

>>58212431
Again there is no “millionaire class” you fucking retard. You’ve got to brush up on your #politicalscience

[Anonymous No.58212478]

You're damned if you do, damned if you don't. The grass is always greener, and it's like the universe is programmed to make you feel miserable no matter what to do. During my teens and 20s, I wanted nothing more than to have a girlfriend/wife, and it always eluded me, making me feel depressed. I'd only get occasional luck, and when I was 26, I was devasted to lose what I thought was my soulmate.

I'm 33 now and I've come to peace with being alone. I've actually come to enjoy and embrace it. It makes me feel mostly content, yet I still can't shake this nagging feeling that I'm a failure and disappointment for not having a wife and kids. Yet I know if I were to get these things, I'd instantly miss the peace and solitude I have now. I can't imagine always having another person breathing down my neck, or having even less sleep and free time that I have now raising a kid. I'm also an anxious person and worry that my kid would end up hurt or growing fucked up. I also worry about my financial situation and having a wife screw me over. I'm on track to retire at 50. Would this still happen if I had a wife and kids? I'm not sure. But at the same time I feel like living only for my sake is empty and selfish. Will I be even more miserable retiring at 50 with no wife and kids and only money and time to show for it?

I don't have the answers to this. I wish I could go with the flow more and not second guess all my life's decisions. I still feel the need to go through the motions of at least half heartedly finding a wife, now that women feel slightly more inclined to date me nowadays. I'm supposed to go on a date with a 27 year old woman tomorrow at Dave and Busters, but dating just feels like such a chore nowadays. I will have to drive an hour to meet her, and now that I'm older, i honestly feel like I'd just be happier staying at home reading or designing things for my 3D printer... activities I'd feel like I have less time to enjoy if I had a wife and kids. I just don't know.

[Anonymous No.58212480]

>>58212443
You use the term wealth disparity like I have an issue with it. Wealth disparity is neither a bad nor a good thing. Many global southern shitholes have extremely high wealth disparity and many have very low wealth disparity but they’re equally shit. Western countries are not wealthy because of disparity but because of superior biology. That biological material has been accumulating lots of mutational load though and this issue needs to be fixed with eugenics.
I’m not opposed to some vacuous concept like “income inequality” or “wealth disparity” because it’s a stupid fucking thing to care about lol