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im 22m living at home, in the same bedroom ive lived in for 22 years, never moved out, parents still do laundry, cook meals etc. I feel weird as ive physically grown and matured but am still living the exact same as i am when i was 15. I make about 1k a week after taxes and rent in my area is about 2k for a 1 bedroom unit (i dont want roommates and i have no friends to move in with) in canada Ive got 50k saved up, should i make the jump or is it foolish to blow through half of my savings in a year for rent. ill have to move out at some point, is it unwise to do it now considering ill just be moving to another place in my city. also i only work 4 days a week and on fridays i spend most of the day options trading for another income source, im up about 3k and ive been doing it for a month. thanks bros

>> No.57650650

you need time to yourself anon, but don't go into debt or financial risk for it

go on a driving holiday with a friend for 2 weeks and see what perspective you gain

>> No.57650667

>>57650638
Do your parents still clean your underwear when you shit yourself? I’ve always wonder how awkward that would be after you become an adult. I moved out at 19 so I could clean my own shit in peace and not have to explain it to my parents.

>> No.57650683

>>57650638
take advantage of your parents for as long as you can. no reason to ever move out if you got a free place to live and two servants. the only exception would be if you plan on having kids, but you aren't going to be doing that any time soon at 22.

>> No.57650697

>>57650667
are we talking like you've been gassy all day, so you're just letting it rip whenever and one of them peeks out a little bit...or like a full blown shitblast?

>> No.57650710
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57650710

Your parents have failed you, and the longer you stay in this situation, the more you fail yourself

>> No.57650725

>>57650710
this is how im feeling, at some point i have to leave this situation, its a lot of money but at some point i have to accept the responsibilities surely

>> No.57650729

>>57650638
Only women complain about men living like that. They are never satisfied and have to incessantly buy garbage whereas men can be perfectly happy with just a bed and a tv

>> No.57650735

>>57650697
It’s more like you’ve been holding it in all day because youve been too busy doing important stuff and then all of a sudden you sneeze or cough all let’s loose.

>> No.57650736

>>57650638
It's not economically feasible to move out anymore unless you're earning at least $100k. \

Assuming living at home isn't mentally toxic and your parents are onboard stay at home as long as you can.

>> No.57650770

>>57650736
how is it not economically feasible tho? yeah yeah boomer rule 30% of income on rent blah blah, its half of my money i will have enough money to live, all living at home is doing is giving you more time to save up to theoretically put down more money on your own property, if i could afford it it is feasible. im a plumber apprentice and in 2 years i will be fully licensed and my income will be maxed out for the time being but at that point should i be staying at home too? i have to leave at some point.

>> No.57650775

>>57650667
luckily ive never shit myself, that would suck lol

>> No.57650789

>>57650683
bro if i spend 25 years living in my childhood bedroom ill consider myself cooked and a failure

>> No.57650813

>>57650638
its not 2k for rent. its way more than that after you pay the rest of your bills.
Trust me it really doesnt get any better.

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>>57650697
>>57650735
i'm going to make some AI generated anime girls doing precisely this, with poop stains.

>> No.57650834

>>57650813
yeah ik, its gonna be an extra like 300 a month for utilities, internet and renters insurance.

>> No.57650838

>>57650789
again, why? what are you "failing" at? you have money. take advantage of your parents if they're kind enough to let you. otherwise, you could easily move out whenever. just don't be trapped or dependent on them. that's when they will make you their bitch.

>> No.57650852

>>57650638
you have to do anything you can to change your situation. i am 30 and still virgin living with parents, yes I have a decent amount of assets and cash but trust me, it is not worth it. Your soul will become a husk, you'll be bitter and angry for ending up a lonely loser that is a 1% minority of men.

You are still young and can change your life around. move out of your parents and join some hobbies and meet people and have sex. You may not like it, you may gaslight yourself that it isn't necessary but it 100% is, every human even if you are an autistic introvert needs to fuck and have a gf and some sort of life with others. the more you are alone and miserable the more irreversible psychological damage you cause yourself

>> No.57650859

>>57650838
social interactions, ability to take care of yourself and house keeping, general life experience, if i keep this up i will be completely autistic at 25.

>> No.57650871

>>57650852
if you have cash why are you still at home? why are you giving me advice youre not living?

>> No.57650877

>>57650859
you shower and clean your room don't you? you socialize with your pals on 4chan don't you? you've played enough of the Yakuza series to have a pretty decent perspective on life haven't you?

you're all set. you won't be autistic. you'll be a giga chad by the time you're 25.

>> No.57650881

>>57650877
lmaoooo

i just wanna play jet set radio bros

>> No.57650922

>>57650735
no one does this wtf are you fat?

>> No.57651054

>>57650667
One time I threw some shitty undies in the trash, the garbage man refused to collect the garbage that week. It was a full bin. He made sure to tell my mom why he didn't take it, and she relayed it to me

>> No.57651072

>>57651054
this anon fucks.

>> No.57651103

>>57650871
I can't live my advice without destroying my livelihood. I rely on my parents property for my business. I'd need a similar property valued at around 2 million otherwise I'd be forced to take bottom tier labor job making like $20 Cad/hr. If I decided to live on my own I could retire in a single bedroom condo, but i refuse to ever work a job thats not my business, before my business every job I worked at I was instantly put bottom of the hierarchy and was the companies punching bag. fuck that fucking shit. the good news for you is you are not in such an ultimatum situation that I am in, you have a good job that has upwards mobility and can easily move out and still save and retire young while developing a life for yourself. If I was smart enough back then to understand this I'd never have tied my self to my business and have just done a trade like yourself and could have easily moved out.

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>> No.57651904

>>57650638
I prefer living with my parents than paying rent, not only do I have to cope with inflation eating up my monthly income but i have to cope with real estate prices rising since November according to Truflation

>> No.57652175

Living with your parents won’t prevent you from having a girlfriend. If you suck with women, moving out won’t improve your situation

>> No.57652296

>>57650638
Nigger you better start knowledge and personal development maxxxxxing or it will literally be over for you.

>> No.57652370

>>57650638
How do you reliably make money trading options? It always just seemed like gambling to me

>> No.57652592

>>57651103
>wordswordswords
So (You) are a subsidized subhuman nigger bitch.
Got it.

>> No.57652692

>>57650638
You can live at home and take your sweet time making lots of money if you're smart about it, then you can do whatever you want. Otherwise you're going to have to force yourself and possibly burn yourself out

>> No.57652804

>>57652592
>getting help from parents is subsidization

STFU commie faggot

>> No.57652862
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>be 2018
>family member passes away, leaves me a decent amount of money
>sit around on it for a few years, but in the end buy a bunch of BTC and a few alts
>price balloons, cash out a portion to buy a single family house in a new state, I want a fresh start
>"hehehe I'm on easy street now, I'll just keep hodling, I can just relax now, I'm retried xD xD"
>6 years later, I spend all my time alone in my house on the computer, I haven't made a single friend let alone talked to a single person since moving
>realize that this will be the rest of my life unless I change something quickly

I have over 1.5 million in combined assets, cash, and crypto, but I'm now convinced I need to reenter the job market after 6 years of not working because I need to come back to human society. I tried the hermit/shut in/recluse thing for half a decade, and at first I deluded myself into thinking this was what I always wanted. Humans are social creatures, and nobody should live the degree of loneliness I've felt in the last few years. It's soul crushing.

I'm looking through some job postings online, and I'm thinking of getting a part time job. I have a bachelors in History (I know, I know, fucking waste of time/money, I'm still kicking myself), but besides a short stint as an underwriter for a Title Loan company, I don't have any job experience.

What kind of job should I apply for? Again I don't need the money, I need something to occupy my day and force me to get out there and meet and talk to people. But I'm 31, I haven't worked in 6 years, my degree is worthless, I have like 3 things in my resume, and I haven't made eye contact with another human being in years. Am I fucked? Do i just lie and say I was dealing with medical shit for the last few years?

How do I rejoin society after so long?

>> No.57652870

>>57650710
my parents failed me that's why I have 500k in savings and most my friends are dead broke

>> No.57652887

>>57652870
Cope incel

>> No.57652893

>>57652862
Move to asia and live as a sexpat

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>>57652887
i had a lot of fun this weekend. saw some killer bands, got spun. i'm all good.

>> No.57652902

>>57650667
This user is American... And fat

>> No.57652934

>>57650650
this is indeed a good ideas. start healing inside and outside of yourself. Come back and starts making more money by trading in forex or crypto . I would suggest you to try a trading based on news like CPI or NFP. You can check data prediction in truflation anyways. Adjust your margin and leverage, there is nothing wrong with trying a new things tho.

>> No.57653000

>>57651054
Why the hell would the garbage man refuse to collect your trash just because it had your shitty undies in it? Is he sorting through your trash before taking it away or something? How else would you throw away such a thing? Does that mean the garbage man won’t take someone’s trash if it has a soiled diaper in it? Because if so, that’s fucking stupid. What the fuck is the protocol for disposing of a baby’s shit diaper then? It’s not like your disposing of hundreds of dead batteries.

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>>57650638
Most women and many men belonging to the cult of Edward Bernays. We should be living like Henry David Thoreau.

>> No.57653386

>>57652862
Is it that fucking hard to touch grass and interact with people?

>surely you aren’t going to make it…

>> No.57653395

>>57652862
>I'm lonely so I should just go back to being a slave
What the fuck? There's plenty of ways for you to socialize without work. Go join some sports club or something. Play tennis or golf twice a week, that'll probably be enough to scratch that itch.

>> No.57653411

>>57650638
I despise this pseudo-masculine memes and the cunts who post them
>le men only need a mattress and a television
Just as cringe as sports fanatics

>> No.57653420

>>57650852
>>57651103
>30
Stop acting like you're fifty, you pathetic fag

>> No.57653608

>>57653395
Dude I moved to a new state. I don't know a single soul here. Join a sports club? I haven't played sports in 15 years. I've never played golf. I'm fucking 31 dude, would you want some old creepy weirdo hanging around you for no reason? I have no idea how to make friends as an adult with 0 connections with anyone in a 800 mile radius.

Also:

>I'm lonely so I should just go back to being a slave

Loneliness. You truly don't understand the depths of that word. For 6 years I haven't interacted with a soul outside of the occasional phone call from my dad checking if I'm alive, and you faggots on 4chan. I live like an actual hermit; I have no one, and nothing. I need to fix this now, I can't love like this anymore. I think niggas on /biz/ think once they make it, they'll quit their jobs and never work again. That only works when you have a foundation of family, friends, gf/wife and kids. If you're just some shit stain like me, it's become a curse. I had no reason to go outside because all my needs were met inside. I have to change this.

>> No.57653683

>>57653608
>I'm 31 I'm too old for sports
Who do you think plays golf, 15 year olds? I'm not talking about joining a professional sports team, just look for some gym/sports thing in your area and join that. If you're out of shape, find something light like ping pong or badminton. It'll be full of middle aged dudes who are just looking to hang out with some other middle aged dudes and there's always a coach there who can guide you.
>you truly don't understand the depths of that word
My story is almost exactly like yours, inherited some money, rode the post-covid pump in crypto, retired in early 2020s, now in my mid 30s doing pretty much fuck all. I'm loving it though but if I was lonely I'd join the local ping pong club, I like ping pong and there is a local club full of middle aged out of shape dudes, I already looked into it

>> No.57653982

>>57650638
just stay until you found a girlfriend.
then move into her home.