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What do you do to socialize with other people? I work from home and being antisocial gets depressing

>> No.57646888

>>57646871
I’m here. If you’re not a normie this is enough. It seems you’re a normal nigger

>> No.57646894

if its not at your job, its literally over

my advice to you and other incels; get a part-time job bartending/serving at a decent restaurant, just tell people you do it for some spare cash on the weekend

what you are ACTUALLY doing it for is to meet girls and hangout with normies

plus you dont have to take it seriously or anything cuz if you get fired so what you dont REALLY need that job

>> No.57646904

>>57646871
don't listen to this retard anon >>57646888.

unfortunately its tough nowadays. everyone says "bro just go to a meetup" and i don't really think that's a good fit most of the time. my best advice is to form hobbies you are passionate about and form friendships via social media with these hobbies.

>> No.57646914

>>57646904
>>57646894
Two normal cunts on /biz/ if you can’t get social fulfillment from the internet you NGMI

>> No.57646924

>>57646914
okay retard keep deluding yourself.

>> No.57646933

>>57646871
I used to be like you, depressed and lonely, but then I got a GF. Now WFH is perfect. I socialize with her on weekends then get my alone WFH time during the week.

>> No.57646934

>>57646894
This is actually one of the smartest things I've read on biz.

>> No.57646939

>>57646933
This is my current setup. I cba to socialise and enjoy my free time alone

>> No.57646950
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57646950

Get a paper route. Make some extra cash and meet a bunch of people while you out delivering papers.

>> No.57646958

>>57646871
I haven't had a social outing in 10+ years. all my 20s just at home

>> No.57646976

i plan to make it this year then leave my parents house and move to Europe
will be using Tinder and HInge to smash a different pink pussy everyday on my yacht

>> No.57646979

>>57646888
Hmm it's almost enough. I have a gf but I miss the old days when I had buddies to do things with. Everyone moved after college and I only see them once or twice a year. Also tried dive bar hopping last night and I didn't like any of the people I started a conversation with. It's always hit or miss.
>>57646904
any hobbies you rec in particular? I like playing guitar, but I'm not good enough for a band. Maybe tennis or an MMA gym? Not really passionate about either though
>>57646894
do you really get invited to hang out with people or asked out if you're a bartender/server?
>>57646933
>>57646939
I do have a gf, but still gets boring if she's the only person you socialize with through the week

>> No.57647114

>>57646888
What do you even do for fun? Surely you do more than just browse the internet

>> No.57647141

>>57646979
>I do have a gf, but still gets boring if she's the only person you socialize with through the week
Hmm with my GF we try to do social stuff where we see other people too, like gym going, skating, or restaurants on weekends. Even if it's just us we interact/talk with other randoms and that's enough to fill my social battery. You might be more extroverted than me though.

>> No.57647143

>>57646894
Is it really worth turning yourself to a turbo wagie just for the chance to make friends or dates?

>> No.57647177

>>57646914
Yeah add this annyoing beta cuck >>57646933 to list of normalniggers that need to leave ASAP I hope your kids aren't yours lol

>> No.57647191

I just actively avoid people all my life. Back in school, college, in public, anywhere. Even on the street if I see someone vaguely familiar coming my way I go to the other side of the street just to avoid them.

It's just easier to avoid interaction rather than engaging in it.

>> No.57647193

>>57647114
I fish and play board games online. Just waiting for the bullrun and I should be retired for good

>> No.57647274

>>57646979
>I like playing guitar, but I'm not good enough for a band. Maybe tennis or an MMA gym? Not really passionate about either though

Anon, you have to find what youre passionate about. You have to understand that friendships need to be bonded over something otherwise they will fizzle. College and HS for easy for this reason. You were all held together by school and the good friends you made had further bonds with music/sports/women etc. Now that you don't have the HS/College, you have to fill that gap somehow. I think the hobbies you shared are a great start. Set some goals with guitar, tennis, or MMA (MMA sounds bad ass desu). Live for something and people will want to be around you.

In the end don't do these things to make friends. To them to fulfill yourself. Find what's fulfilling for you.

>> No.57647286

>>57647274
I also want to add to not be hard on yourself about these things. We are all struggling. If it's hard, it's not you. We just live in a different world these days, so these things don't come as easy.

>> No.57647343

>>57647143
>part time job
>turbowagie

>> No.57647379

>>57647141
Yeah, we go to the gym together, but not really a fan of restaurants, rather just cook, but skating sounds good. Might change that for a sport like tennis. Tried boxing, but there's too many dudes with anger problems in it in my experience
>>57647177
you sound fun
>>57647191
I kind of do this too but I dont think it leads to the most happiness long term
>>57647274
You're right, that makes sense. Thanks, anon. Probably will just keep at a sport like tennis or MMA since I'm passionate about fitness, or might double down on music as I enjoy the flow state through it. I probably enjoy music more but it's a lot tougher to collaborate unless you do it for a living, like being a music producer.

>> No.57647402

>>57647343
>works full time wfh job
>adds working on the weekends
Sounds like a turbo wagie. Maybe not too bad if it’s like 4 hour shifts twice a week though

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>>57646871
One day robowaifus will fill every need you have

>> No.57647490

>>57646871
i have been on 4chan since 2008.

im now 34. single. i hate dealing with females and dates unless she is an utter fat pig, thats the only way i will not get emotionally attached or care.that way i dont care about if she flaked the date or cancels or doesnt pick up the phone. and i only plan to take her out when its slow cus im ebarrased to be seen in public with her, but i like the company of real blowjobs. and soft tits.

i have a dog. and go for 4 miles walking with it every other day.

sometimes i travel to a city, rent an air bnb. and just people watch, or go to a restaurant alone and get served, flirt with a waitress... just this weekend i went to a place, and ate oysters and crawfish, and the cute zoomer waitress was really nice to me, and called me love."hey love you need anything else over here?" "heres your refill love" etc. etc. "i hope i see you again love" etc etc etc. she also sat in my table with me and showed me how to peel crawfish.

it might help that im really fit and attractive, and i was smiling at her as well and i was in a very good mood that morning.

i guess thats just southern hospitaly but i keep thinking about her she was so nice, she was really ugly but so sweet. she was really disappoiinted when i told her i would never return to that town and that im from california,

it was as if i fell in love and broke her heart in one sitting. i wanna go see her again. but thats lame,

>> No.57647527

>>57646933
Prob is how do you get a girlfriend when you're depressed and lonely. not exactly attractive qualities. Plus, whatever made you become depressed and lonely in the first place is another roadblock. That's the conundrum.

>> No.57647546

>>57646976
sigh... that gets really old after a while...
next you will be lookkng for online dating agenecys. its much better than tinder. or fcuking escorts. you get put in front of women who are on their best behavior trying there absolute best to please you.you can literally tell them from the first date that you want to have multiple wives and they will be ok with that.. yuo want kids just tell them that and they will be ok with that if they find you attractive and think you are emotioanlly and finacially stable. just lie to them, lead them on, some hope to travel the world with you. you then pump and dump them, get the girlfren experince. get bored of her and have the agency personally introduce you to how ever many other women you pay them to introduce to you.

if you are attractive and younger than 40. youre so lucky and ahead of anyone else.

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57647570

>having a gf
>having friends
Fucking normalfags

>> No.57647605

>>57647527
Be at least a 6/10 and use every dating app and Instagram until you find someone you connect with. Social skills don't matter when every date is the same setup. If you fuck up, doesn't matter, because you'll do it again and again until it just clicks perfectly with one chick
>>57647546
how expensive are these dating agencies? never heard of anyone using them. No escorts either as a burger (USA)

>> No.57647711

>>57647605
If you're not 6/10 what's the best course of action? Of course looks are big part of the reason I ended up alone in the first place. Thought about becoming a passport bro since, as a tall rich white guy, might have a comparative advantage in some other country, but then you have the whole language & culture barrier.

>> No.57647721

>>57646871
You should try going to eth events
There's eth Denver and eth London and eth Vietnam coming up next month

>> No.57647801

>>57647605
about 4,000 dollars, choose a city,,, fly and you get picked up at at the airport when you land, taken to a 4 star hotel by the agencies trusted driver.. and then they have a party. 100-200 women, 10-20 men... all old, bald, fat fcuk boomers.but most are millionaires successful, intelligent, and actually pretty cool dudes. ,so you build camaraderie, you might befriend some of them and they may take you under their wing...

then the women meet you, a handsome young anon, and they all want you. you actually might find someone you genuinely click with... after that you can go on tours with the rest of the group and the lucky women that they chose. if you need a translator they will be with you and your date..

i like it becasue fcuking prostitues is very forgetable. like i fcuked hundreds of prostitues,and only remember a few girls..

i really like seducing a women. taking them out, having the chance to get rejected.i like to plan the date, pay for the date. treat the women good, getting to know them. going slow, or fast.

my next trip is going to be to colombia, im going to spend 3 moths there. dating maybe 10 women from the agency and im going to try to impregnate all of those women in 3 months. none are going to know about eachother as it will be in 3 different citys in colombia..

it will be a crazy story.

>> No.57647834

>>57647801
Any tips on how to find & research these agencies?

>> No.57647895

>>57646933
You do realize she fucks other men during the week?
>>57647343
we have regular jobs too, nigger

>> No.57647915

>>57646894
>is to meet girls and hangout with normies

Lmfao

>> No.57647926

>>57647915
KEK imagine being a wagenigger to to that. These people do not belong here

>> No.57647931

>>57647527

Your mental state means nought if youre above 7 face... if you think its your personality holding you back in modern dating lol bro

>> No.57647951

>>57647926

Normies will exclude him even more if he doesnt jestermaxx and seeing as hes on biz, his autism WILL NOT allow him to become cognitively dissonant long enough to achieve said level of mental vacuity necessary to assimilate to niggers.

>> No.57647955

>>57647834
yeah look up mail order brides, same experience

>> No.57648043

>>57647711
yeah, I'd just go overseas. Both Eastern Europe and SEA. If you're rich and tall, you can probably do well anywhere though.
>>57647721
have you been to previous events? how were they?
>>57647801
How does this compare to just using dating apps + Instagram? All it takes is curating some photos and you can even pay someone to find some good leads in case you can't be bothered to swipe. With IG, you can even create ads to target girls in any location, just message those that like the photo/video that you're promoting of yourself or a local party etc.
>>57647931
>>57647951
Accurate. Yeah, jestermaxxing is not worth it. If attractive and rich, you can be as autistic as you want. At that point it's just being "eccentric". Obviously if ugly and poor, you better be 10/10 charismatic.

>> No.57648194

>>57646894
I already tried this working at a Target one summer in 2021 while having like 700k in crypto. Didn't work, lasted 3 months before I stopped showing up.

>> No.57648885

>>57648194
Target sucks. Should have tried bartending or a coffee shop

>> No.57648905

>>57648885
The Target was filled with a handful of qts but I was working in the electronics department and pretty isolated from everyone else. Bartending seems like it'd be alright but then I'd have to get a license, too much work desu

>> No.57648920

>>57648905
Yeah seems like a bad ROI. Better off just have hobbies and travel a lot. Sounds like you’re probably already rich so that shouldn’t be a problem anyway

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>>57646871
I work.

Went to after work drinks with my work mates last friday, got drunk with one of the cuties and had a blast.

>> No.57648962

>>57648925
What kind of work? Im in tech and no one does this. They just go to their families after work.

>> No.57648969

>>57647931

Truth. I put in somewhere between zero and negative effort (ie woman carries conversation and I am expressing open disinterest) and still get a ton of interest on apps.

Too bad it's not ever anyone I'm attracted to

>> No.57648986

>>57648969
Anyone for apps is a downgrade. It’s just to pump and dump. E.g 7/10 guy easily getting with 5/10s any day of the week. If you want a 7/10 it’s likely through social circles or approaching through the day and playing the numbers game

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>>57646894
I’ve thought about this. Try to be a part time manager at a bar with hotties. I’m afraid of Covid though. Fucking being a young low digit multimillionaire is boring.

>> No.57649006

>>57648962
I'm a doctor in a big city so lots of other young doctors and nurses. But basically any white collar job in a big city should have this because the business/healthcare center/whatever should have a lot of young adults working there. I guess a job where they hire young adults is what you should look for.

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57649452

im an autistic shut-in but i have an internship coming up in a couple months.
it sounds retarded, but to prepare, i started being one of those faggots that has normie conversations with the other people in crypto telegram chats.
making small talk about what we're up to and all that.
i keep coming back because im invested in the coins and want to stay up to date, and jumping straight into in-person talking seemed a bit far off for me so it was good to get used to acting like a normie over text first

>> No.57650263

>>57648043
instagram is king. and to add its also very cheap and effective to run ads in third world countries. i know of people who run ads in small towns and get the hottest girls of said towns to be their gf.

my only issue is i never downloaded instagram before. you remind me to start to try that... thanks.

but also to me that is time consuming, messsaging al the girls, dealing with flaking etc.

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>>57648998
i really really hate drunk girls... most of them are so drunk when they give you their number that they wont remeber you and they flake any dates you make with them.

they all vape abd have tattoos. or they are cheating on theri boyfreinds. yes it is really fun. but i was a nightclub dj for 5 years and have nothing to show for it... other than so many stories of girls being whores. cheating on their man that i secretly fimed...

pic reltaed one of the waitresses i had a fling with. she said she knew i would never commit to her so she stayed with her loser bf. i drove her so crazy

smart girl

fcuking/dating the waitresess only causes drama at work. not worth .

>> No.57650507

>>57649452
good luck at your internship anon. try to be open to things.

>> No.57650571

>>57646871
I’m a 40 yo autist . I have to fake being a normie at work, and pretend to be into normie things so I can fit in. It’s painful and tiresome.

Op you should find a local bar or hang out spot and just go out once a week. A good spot will have some friendly people that you can chat with about normie shit. That’s what i do to practice being a normie for work.

>> No.57650598

>>57649452

Def DO NOT go full crypto autist during internship lmfao! Just KEEP vague like: "I tried crypto, was pretty cool, excited to see how it plays out in the near future, lots of bullshit in it but wtv its like gambling, you like cheese?, what DPI is your mouse set at?, do you dual boot your mac with ubuntu as well?"

GL

>> No.57650616

>>57646871
go take a course in something

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i only talk to you guys and beoble users. that's quite literally it. i dont interact with anyone else except very rare family related shit i dont care for.

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>>57646871
I have the opposite problem, women will not leave me alone at work. Everyday is petty gossip and office drama with them. Leave me alone!

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>> No.57653800

>>57650342
Man i always wondered what it would be like to be a dj or a bartender and some southern country tourist location. So many girls being at their ”naughtiest”, you’re bound to end up with some really hot ones too just going by the numbers.