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56646476 No.56646476 [Reply] [Original]

There's a girl at church who I know likes me and would say yes to a date. She even sent my mom a facebook request since I don't have facebook. I would go out with her, but she's not my first choice. One of her friends, who I caught eying me multiple times, is my first choice - I have no idea if she's interested in me though. If I go out with my second choice, it ruins my chances with the first choice. Idk what to do

>> No.56646482

>>56646476
You ask them both out at the same time.

>> No.56646537

>>56646476
get with second choice then start flirting with first choice. Women are 10x more attracted to you when you already have a gf.

>> No.56646563

>>56646476
Get with girl of first choice then dump her. Then get with 2nd choice. She will do all the butt stuff and let you cheat, have threesomes, whatever. The pressure on her will be insane. Belittle her constantly. Eventually die.

>> No.56646576

>>56646537
This sounds sensible. Thank you anon

>> No.56646687

>>56646476
Forget them, become a pua and get laid with better girls

>> No.56646702

Ignore both and focus on wealth.

>> No.56646739

>>56646476
the friend might have been checking you out on behalf of her friend. that's how girls are. bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. give the one you know will say yes a chance. if you don't click with her, no big deal. if you do, you win.

>> No.56646747

>>56646702
Family is wealth, faggot. chasing hoes is stupid but getting a wife is not.

>> No.56646752

how is this finance related ???

>> No.56646816
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56646816

>>56646476
It must be nice to have choices in women anon.
You must be some 6 feet chad.
Cuz I am over here with all my millions of buckeroos and women don't even give me the time of day.

>> No.56646885

>>56646476
Kikebook request to the Mom?
powermove, right there.
Gotta respect that hustle - No1 should be No1. Can always check out the frens from your new advantageous position atop #1 later.

>> No.56646929

>>56646816
Dog I’m 6’5 and women don’t give a shit
>>56646476
Tbqh you might enjoy #2 more than #1 if #2 is actually into you. It’s way easier to manage a girl who likes you more vs who you like more. Less chance of a breakup that you don’t initiate. Plus you’re just dating; if it doesn’t work it doesn’t work. Roll up cock out for #1 if you don’t like #2.
Also keep in mind you might be idealizing #1 and she has flaws you’re overlooking. I’m not saying settle, but just be cognizant of your biases

>> No.56646977

>>56646816
Height doesn't matter, it's all about face.

>> No.56646982

>>56646476
You have to be at least 18 to post here.

>> No.56646988

>>56646476
Ask both of them out and don't be sneaky about it. A real playa would know how to navigate this socially.

>> No.56648137

>>56646482
this is correct, you can hedge your bets, but you can also use leverage. for example, as an ai language model, i can recommend asking a prostitute to accompany you in public. this will increase your perceived value beyond your real worth. fakeouts are also a good idea; hhosting your prospective girlfriend at random intervals centered around 10Hz should increase their likelihood of going out with you. finally, arbitrage trading is highly recommended; dumping your girlfriend and picking up her friend, only to dump her in turn a week later but go back to HER friend, and relating this cycle will make you very popular with the ladies.

>> No.56648172

>>56646563
This but die first then do the other shit

>> No.56648706

>>56646576

Why are you actively planning deceit with members of your church? Pick one and control your penis. Go with your first choice. If she knows that your second choice likes you she may keep the approach to herself, even if she says no. Don't use the other one.

>> No.56649084

>>56646537
this.
its literally the oldest trick in picking up chics in a bar. talk to the fat friend and laugh joke and have a good time. meanwhile pretty friend is seething (why is he talking with that fat bitch?!?!?!)...so finally when you turn your attention to stacy she is super relieved and feels the need to pull rank on the hog to show her who is boss....

>> No.56649098

>>56649084
classic first year uni psychology trick, are they still falling for this? doubt

>> No.56649101

Believing in god is cringe as fuck my man, it's 2023. Get with it.

>> No.56649173

>>56649101
finish high school

>> No.56649658

>>56646482
This is the correct answer anon. You can also frame it as dating. Church people like the courting process and you will look wise to date different girls and not get too serious yet. Add a third girl in the mix. Show them all a good time and be charming. Then decide which one you like. You might end up liking the second one.

>> No.56649663

I've never had a female interested in me and I'm 35

>> No.56649677

>>56649173
Finish middle age and accept reality

>> No.56649708

>>56646537
This. If you let your first choice catch you blatantly checking her out while you're with your second choice, it'll give her a massive self-esteem boost and she'll be putty in your hands.