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55681472 No.55681472 [Reply] [Original]

Is it worth splitting rent with your gf to save some money? Not sure I'll regret this, but she offered to move in with me. Also offers to cook/clean

>> No.55681485

Wtf? You guys let your gf live for free at your house?

>> No.55681490

>>55681472
>but she offered to move in with me. Also offers to cook/clean
thats wife material and you are saving money on rent now.
you did good anon, you make us proud

>> No.55681505
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>>55681472
only if youre ready to be legally married to her after a year or two. im nervous my girlfriend even has some clothes at my house she's gonna try to take half.

>> No.55681515
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>>55681485
that was my first reaction, what the fuck?

>> No.55681517

>>55681472

Lol, lmfao.

>> No.55681524
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55681524

If you get married but cohabitate before hand you will increase your chance of divorce.

>> No.55681533

As long as she pays her share and actually does cook and clean. But i'm thinking she is doing it to cuck you and will stop doing her part after one month once the sex is so good that you start giving in to all her demands.

>> No.55681546

>>55681490
The only issue is she's 27 and I'm 26, so I doubt I'd marry with kids. She also gives me massages every night while we watch Simpsons or Seinfeld
>>55681524
wont sign any papers

>> No.55681569

>>55681533
already had sex with her pretty much daily for a year straight, but that's a good point. I'm only worried she'll get lazy over time and I'll regret having the roommate vs paying a few hundred more bucks a month to be 100% solo

>> No.55681573

>>55681505
This is FUD, it's only two years in a minority of countries/states. It's a lot longer than two years for most of those countries/states. But common law marriage is not so common around the globe. In fact, it is extremely uncommon.
>>55681472
Don't let seething fucklets FUD you out of financial prosperity and love-infused meals.

>> No.55681647

>>55681569
She will definitely get more lazy and uppity especially when she sees how you handle your laundry, then she'll go complain to her mom and friends who will be surprised at her strange unfeministic behaviour. Next thing you know, she's getting angry at you and denying you sex and giving you ultimatums for no reason and the relationship is over at this point. Familiarity breeds contempt anon.

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>>55681546
>The only issue is she's 27 and I'm 26, so I doubt I'd marry with kids. She also gives me massages every night while we watch Simpsons or Seinfeld
dude you are living the dream, seriously.
enjoy it man, you are at the best age and these are the best years of your life, plow that woman on a daily basis and you will be happy.
trust

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>>55681573
if you say so

>> No.55681786

>>55681472
Why dont you ask her to marry and have kids straight away? You're both in the perfect age to have kids.
Also, Warren Buffet recommends this.
Find the right woman, get married.
This is financial advice.
https://www.cnbc.com/2018/05/14/warren-buffett-says-the-most-important-decision-is-who-you-marry.html

>> No.55681796

>>55681485
A friend of mine lived alone in a sweet luxury townhouse, started dating some high maintenance bimbo who wanted a house, so he dropped 700k and she didn't pay a cent. They just broke up a couple weeks ago and she still lives there for free while boning a new guy already.

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>>55681786
I dont trust boomers

>> No.55682085

>>55681524
no its just that people who are more likely to divorce are more likely to cohabitate before marriage

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>>55681472
she won't have the rent some months so there's that

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>>55682085
maybe
regardless OP should stop being a faggot as usual, marry the whore and have kids
OP is a faggot so he probably won't

>> No.55682367

>>55681472
Anon don't listen to anyone else in this thread. My now wife and I did this when we were younger. The only agreement that matters in this arrangement is, can you trust each other to be civil if you have a break up. We had that conversation and we trusted each other. We moved in together before we got engaged and when we were engaged we decided to merge our finances and set a budget together. We are happily married now. Take this wisdom and make your own choice. It sounds like you have a good women just be sure to give back in the ways she wants, good luck.

>> No.55682403

>>55682367
we will talk about this again in 5 years when you'll be divorced

>> No.55682512

>>55681472
That’s a fairly safe move as far as I know. If she’s someone you’re happy to live with and she’s willing to chip in on half the rent, that should be fine if not commendable. This sounds like the rare occurrence where the woman in the equation isn’t playing some secret game against you. I had a girl try something similar to get me on common law, only for that genius to discover to her horror that a non-common law state is just that. There’s no interpretation otherwise even possible.

>> No.55682655

>>55681472
Probably will be fine. Depends what kind of guy you are if you want to see your girl friend every day. I know many people that lives with their girl friend and has no problems

>> No.55682811

>>55681472
My gf lives here free and I get so pissed sometimes that she takes way more than she contributes but I'm too much of a pussy to break up. Never gunna marry her though I'm not entirely opposed to marriage in general.
>cooks rice pilaf and box pasta
>had literally never touched the toilet scrubber in one full year
>burned up my vaccum when it sucked up a rug and she just stood their like a retard
>I mow, paint the exterior, plumbing, all the hard and dirty maintenance
>long hair on all the rugs and in the shower
>complained I wouldn't snake the shower when it was all hair on top of the drain
Reeeeeee

>> No.55682862

>>55682811
Inb4
>communicate with her ;-^
It's not like hey can you do this. She needs instruction and supervision to do anything and half asses everything. So I have to constantly monitor and provide instructions and moral support.
I wish I was a faggot.