My wife says she wants a divorce

[Anonymous No.55287976]

But says that she won’t do it until her pregnancy is over in four months.

I fell for the roastie trope and married a 32 year old that switched from trad to being super obnoxious and just not who she used to be.

We are at this point now after I have spent so much on her and sacrificed over the three years.

If she doesn’t respect me anymore should I support her? She’s smart in trapping me like this but am I supposed to just keep paying until the day of reckoning?

Help

[Anonymous No.55287979]

>falling for the marriage meme

[Anonymous No.55287983]

>>55287976
Abandon her completely don’t let her trap you in the system

[Anonymous No.55287991]

>>55287976
I own the house outright

I’ve spent at least 100k on her but her financial position is better than mine as a result of the past three years of mental degradation she has done to me

My fault yes I need younger but should I just ask her to leave now?

[Anonymous No.55288002]

>>55287991
Have about 300k in crypto and high paying job

I feel like she set me up

[Anonymous No.55288011]

>>55287991
Sell the house put it into Bitcoin and flee the country. If you do anything other that what I suggest you are a cuck. You gave up your right to live a normal life when you married. She has your ass for 18 YEARS

[Anonymous No.55288032]

>>55287976
>wife says she wants a divorce
did she elaborate as to why?

[Anonymous No.55288045]

>>55287976
Pull a few tarot cards, pray to your guardian angels beforehand, they will give you the answers and the solutions you seek.

[Anonymous No.55288047]

>>55288032
Honestly I’ve just stopped engaging in her games

I am setting boiundaries now and I think that’s a big reason. I believe the man should be head of household and she wants to be the big dick also which leads to clash in values now

[Anonymous No.55288081]

Lemme guess shes white. Ngmi

[Anonymous No.55288107]

>>55287976
It was pre-nuptial, right? Because otherwise you'd be even more fucked than what you think

[Anonymous No.55288110]

>>55288047
Both of you should get a counseling.

[Anonymous No.55288116]

Do you make up these larps dear?

[Anonymous No.55288138]

We were supposed to just enjoy a life of adventure and fun together, and fall in love.

[Anonymous No.55288152]

>>55287976
Kick her in the stomach and say "your pregnancys over, now get out".

[Anonymous No.55288158]

>>55287976
>married a 32 year old
You deserve this
"Women" over the age of 24 aren't even human

[Anonymous No.55288169]

>>55287976
do not liquidate everything, do not convert to xmr, and obviously do not flee to some shithole country. that would be unethical and illegal.

[Anonymous No.55288245]

>>55288047
>I’ve just stopped engaging in her games
>I am setting boiundaries now
Anon you were supposed to do this during the relationship phase before you got married.

If you have a joint bank account consider draining it completely and move it to your own personal account now, it's legally both of your money so she can't do anything legally against you for it. It will piss her off so if you want things amicable don't do it, or only just take half.

Anyway you have basically 2 choices, neither of them are good but this is what our gynocentric society lead to.

The Cuck Route - Try to settle things amicably and divorce with minimal lawyers involved to save everyone money, be aware she may try to make it nasty and overstep and take more than she deserves, at this point it's either pay her or pay you lawyer a fortune and then maybe pay her slightly less. You'll get rekt with child support, you might be able to get away without paying alimony. The house will probably have to be sold unless one of you buys the other out. This gets you the most amount of visitation with your child, assuming she doesn't run off or claim abuse.

The Ghost Route - Take your money and flee the country, ghost her. Can possibly even get away with just moving to another state and get a different job and open a different bank account, it will make it much harder for her to garnish wages because from what I understand she has to know where you work and apply for the garnishment each time you switch jobs, but there's always a possibility of them just draining your bank account or putting out a warrant.

[Anonymous No.55288253]

>>55287976
You deserve it for being a stupid cuck for falling for such trap. Worst part she is pregnant and won’t let you see your kid. Game over.

[Anonymous No.55288266]

>>55287991
>>55288002
Sell the fucking house immediately and move the funds into crypto. A judge is going to give her the house since she’d be a single mother with a newborn baby and you’ll get nothing

[Anonymous No.55288305]

>>55287976
Interview with all the best lawyers in your town. Once they’ve heard from you, even if you don’t hire them, they can’t take your wife’s case. Then hire the lawyer you want. File as soon as fucking possible. If you own the house and it’s only your name on the title, you’ll likely get to both keep living there during proceedings and after the split when you settle. I cannot stress this enough though: DO NOT WAIT. Get a lawyer by the end of this week, and file next week.

[Anonymous No.55288347]

>>55287976
>3 years of subpar pussy
>That will be 300,000 USD sir plus $1000/month for the next 18 years
Thanks for playing

[Anonymous No.55288360]

>unironically giving advice to some <95 iq beta cuck
lmao
here's some advice:
kys
alternatively glass the cunt, but that'd require you to be an actual man for once, in which case you wouldn't have ended up on this situation to begin with, so refer to the suggestion above

[Anonymous No.55288392]

>>55288347
kek

[Anonymous No.55288401]

>Getting married
Lmao

There is no benefit to getting married
>Take half your stuff or more
>Alimony for 20 years
>Women start 80% of all divorces
>That number rises to 90% if they are “college educated”
>50% of marriages end in divorce

Made sense back in the day when women weren’t allowed to start a divorce only the man
Now it’s a way for them to have starter marriages so they can get their life started with a new house, income, etc; so they can can dicked down by the husband they think they want

Cancerous dogs

[Anonymous No.55288408]

>>55288110
fuck off roastie, not buying your BS

[Anonymous No.55288415]

Just went thru this, the latter isn't any easier anon. If child support and alimony doesnt break u, false claims made up to cps will and only time be able to see your kid is supervised once a week. Just bend over and make it work.

[Anonymous No.55288457]

>>55288002
Put 100k into link immediately. The rest into gold. Then fake your death.

[Anonymous No.55288496]

>>55287976
What made you think she was the one to marry? How old were you? How long were you dating? Were you desperate to get married?

[Anonymous No.55288503]

>>55288415
Definitely don’t do this, flee.
Cucks like this are why you will ruin the rest of your life.
Sell everything, throw it in monero.
Go to a different country if not state.
Do what that other anon said and talk to every good lawyer in town so there is a conflict of interest.

[Anonymous No.55288641]

>>55287976
>married a 32 year old
stopped reading there

[Anonymous No.55288665]

>>55288360
>just commit assault bro, that'll definitely help ease the stress

[Anonymous No.55288693]

Why people get married? I am an autist so maybe I dont get it. In my country you will get fucked by laws even if you live a couple of years with a partner. Getting married just make the government cock bigger to destroy even more your ass.

[Anonymous No.55288727]

LAAAARRRPP THREAD alert
Larp alarm setting off beeep bboop beep boop.
Feds want you to be afraid of women so you dont reproduce!
Feds want you to be afraid of women so you dont reproduce!
Feds want you to be afraid of women so you dont reproduce!

[Anonymous No.55288771]

>>55287976
>t. jew
How's the weather in Tel Aviv?

[Anonymous No.55288792]

>>55287976
>using the term trad wife

relationships arent for you incel

[Anonymous No.55288806]

>>55287976
As a father, I find it odd that you’re only thinking of yourself and how your bitch wife affects your happiness and not the poor kid you’re bringing in to this hellhole. Do better do your fucking job you retarded nigger. Do not abandon that child. My wife is a mean mother fucker, but I’ve kept her in check for over a decade and we have 3 kids. Stop being a faggot and pull your fucking pants up.

[Anonymous No.55288814]

>>55287976
Bro talk to a lawyer wtf are you doing on this anonymous market share forum

[Anonymous No.55288827]

>If she doesn’t respect me anymore should I support her?
got no choice, you WILL pay the child support and it WILL make you destitute

[Anonymous No.55288833]

>>55288806
>just stay in a loveless marriage for the kid
Anon the kids can tell both of you hate each other. Chances are they'll grow up in a house in which the parents are constantly arguing and cheating on each other. They'll grow up to think that's normal and continue the cycle. It's a lose lose situation so might as well bite the bullet and divorce. Anon could try to get custody. If the baby isn't born it's still possible to get custody(dumb question ik but it's a serious one)

[Anonymous No.55288862]

>>55288110
Any relationship that needs counciling is doomed to fail

[Anonymous No.55288884]

>>55287976
See a lawyer immediately. Not a cheap one either.

[Anonymous No.55288890]

>>55288693
australia?

[Anonymous No.55288960]

>>55287976
Use a camera too, pregnant women are mad because it's hard because they never faced challenge
1st try, be more asertive in everything but also be kind, women are children don't let her drag you into their stupidity or they will lose respect towards you

[Anonymous No.55289112]

>>55288169
>this
i concur. it just wouldnt make any sense. dont be this guy...
https://www.thestar.com/news/gta/2012/07/01/deadbeat_dad_flees_to_philippines_leaving_four_kids_without_support.html

“Therefore I have left the country to seek greener pastures elsewhere, and will never return. Well done Einstein.”
“Good luck and goodbye.”

[Anonymous No.55289363]

>>55289112
>$4k a month
That is pretty much financial execution, they never had the mother and kids in consideration anyway, probably just wanted the guy in jail.

[Anonymous No.55289369]

>>55287991
>married
>should I just ask her to leave now?
Anon..

[Anonymous No.55289522]

A fool parts with his money.

[Anonymous No.55289523]

>>55288806
What a life you must live

You’re the real faggot here that can’t work up the courage to leave his wife. Or maybe you think no one Will ever love you at the point in your life

[Anonymous No.55289605]

>>55287991
get some hidden cameras, start an argument with her and get her to push or slap you or denigrate you, then when you are in divorce court claim you were a victim of abuse and show the judge the video. you can then lie about other shit she never did but make her look really bad and the judge will believe you. she might even chimp out in court over all teh ridiculous lies you start spouting when she sees the judge taking your side. that will only help your case further. as a victim of domestic abuse the judge will be less likely to award her monetary benefits from your house which was already yours to begin with (you bought before you married right). unfrotunately if your house appreciated in value after your marriage the gynocracy will dictate that those gains be split evenly with your wife. but as a victim of domestic abuse and a battered househusband, the judge could likely mitigate those awards to her.

[Anonymous No.55289627]

>>55287976
reddit spaced ; didn't read

[Anonymous No.55289642]

>>55289363
reevaluation of alimony was the final straw after she'd already been given the million dollar (10 years ago) home which included the rentable guest house. and, of course, he was already hated by his children.

[Anonymous No.55289703]

Take your money and bail, you tried friend.
It was worth an attempt

[Anonymous No.55289728]

>>55289112
Absolute state of that article lmao.

[Anonymous No.55289772]

>>55289112
>He left behind four children without support: a 10-year-old fighting cancer, a 14-year-old with Down syndrome and a teenaged son in treatment for drug addiction.
Holy shit, i would have jumped the ship too

[Anonymous No.55289878]

>>55287976
get a lawyer asap and try to stop her from stealing absolutely everything from you, I had an ex who tried to screw me with an assault lawsuit because she wanted to keep the house I was buying, now the money I spent on her I use it for things like VINU, a lawyer always helps to set limits

[Anonymous No.55289901]

Make her more afraid of the consequences of leaving you and taking your money than otherwise, simple as.

Women are all cowards that always take the easy route. If they think they will have no consequences from fucking you over, they will fuck you hard as possible. If they know they will suffer consequences, they wont even try it.

[Anonymous No.55289923]

paternity test

[Anonymous No.55289930]

>>55287976
>married a 32 year old
ahahahahaha oh no no no bwahahahahaha

[Anonymous No.55289933]

Hint: That isn't going to be your kid

[Anonymous No.55289934]

>>55288032
Because she can and all the kangaroo courts are on her side lol lmao. Thanks for playing retard better luck next time.

[Anonymous No.55289936]

>>55288011
Came here to say that
First time in millenia we have a weapon
You owe this your ancestors.
Your son will start looking for you.

[Anonymous No.55289957]

>>55287991
>past three years of mental degradation she has done to me
and you decided to have a child with her? i call larp but many such cases

[Anonymous No.55290022]

>>55288045
this desu

[Anonymous No.55290076]

>>55287976 >>55287979 >>55287983 >>55287991 >>55288002 >>55288011 >>55288032 >>55288045 >>55288047 >>55288081 >>55288107 >>55288110 >>55288116 >>55288138 >>55288152 >>55288158 >>55288169 >>55288245 >>55288253 >>55288266 >>55288305 >>55288347 >>55288360 >>55288392 >>55288401 >>55288408 >>55288415 >>55288457 >>55288496 >>55288503 >>55288641 >>55288665 >>55288693 >>55288727 >>55288771 >>55288792 >>55288806 >>55288814 >>55288827 >>55288833 >>55288862 >>55288884 >>55288890 >>55288960 >>55289112 >>55289363 >>55289369 >>55289522 >>55289523 >>55289605 >>55289627 >>55289642 >>55289703 >>55289728 >>55289772 >>55289878 >>55289901 >>55289923 >>55289930 >>55289933 >>55289934 >>55289936 >>55289957 >>55290022
You are in a JIDF-made thread.

[Anonymous No.55290163]

>>55287976
You deserve it for marrying in the year 2023. Has to be a special breed of retard. Specially a long past peak 32 yo roastie who probably has fucked her entire high school soccer team.

[Anonymous No.55290181]

>>55290076
>We have the numbers, and we will continue to fight until these racist bigots are driven away from the website and no longer have a home on the internet
>driven away
>no longer have a home
>Jews
That's ironic.

[Anonymous No.55290192]

>>55290076
Every thread is a kike thread, I enjoy talking with other anons.
The fact that you think making me hate women more while giving advice to retards who may have also put themselves in this position would drive me away is laughable.

You’re here forever faggot
Palestine for the Palestinians
Death to all kikes

[Anonymous No.55290228]

>>55287976
>from trad to being super obnoxious and just not who she used to be.
SHE WAS ALWAYS AN OBNOXIOUS THOT YOU FUCKING IDIOT. She's a filthy millennial, those are always psychopaths and sociopaths.

[Anonymous No.55290232]

>>55290228
fr fr

[Anonymous No.55290275]

>>55287976
It's just hormones, bro. Spend more time at work and maybe enjoy a massage once in a while.

[Anonymous No.55290278]

>>55287991
Depending on the state, not after a divorce you don't.
Lawyer up dude

[Anonymous No.55290290]

>>55290228
>>55290232
no cap ong

[Anonymous No.55290295]

>>55287991
>I own the house outright
So did XQC. And he wasn't even married ahahahahahaa

[Anonymous No.55290296]

>not beating your wife
sounds like a western european problem

[Anonymous No.55290300]

>>55290076
>Anything I don't like to hear is said by a jew/chink/nigger
4chins absolute sticking point. Ultimate head in the sand demonstrated daily.

[Anonymous No.55290302]

>>55290296
Eastern Europe is just as cucked.
The entire world is cucked except for the Middle East.

[Anonymous No.55290305]

>>55287976
Just one more shittest in a long line of never ending shittests. Tell that bitch she can have her divorce, but you get the kid and everything else, or she can leave in a bodybag.

[Anonymous No.55290308]

>>55290302
Cap. I can beat my wife to a pulp and the police will only come to say to be less noisy

[Anonymous No.55290309]

>>55287976

>Wife wants a divorce during her pregnancy

What color is the baby?

[Anonymous No.55290431]

>>55290076
I fucked your mom while you were mass-replying like a loser

[Anonymous No.55290452]

>>55287991
Lawyer up, sue the bitch

[Anonymous No.55290479]

>>55290076
Wow. Fuck kikes

[Anonymous No.55290496]

>>55289605
Something along these lines, but I feel like op still in love with that bitch
Op suffers from bitch dependency https://youtu.be/rVyMoWGv0Z8

[Anonymous No.55290507]

>>55287976
Hey my wife is also pregnant! Except she loves me cause i took her virginity

[Anonymous No.55290514]

>>55288045
THIS op, tarot is real, take it seriously. It won't tell you the future, but it will give you an accurate description of what's going on

[Anonymous No.55290527]

>>55287976
It’s probably just the pregnancy hormones making her nuts. Having children is the greatest blessing in life. My wife can be a bit of a cunt and I don’t even really like her, but we make wonderful children and they are my life. I’ll probably stay with the fat cow until the kids are grown up.

[Anonymous No.55290533]

>>55287976
>I fell for the roastie trope and married a 32 year old that switched from trad to being super obnoxious and just not who she used to be.

It's almost making women pregnant completely changes them. Who would have thought. You're dumb OP because you sacrificed everything the moment you nutted inside her and you don't seem to get that.

[Anonymous No.55290562]

>>55290076
Omg.
Now I get the sentiment here.

But... One question remains: who is this 4chan?!

[Anonymous No.55290785]

>>55290562
He's a terrorist from the anomanouse group.

[Anonymous No.55290814]

>>55287976
Bro she’s pregnant, women are not the same person until 9 months after delivery. Pregnancy 100% fucks you up.
t.father of 3

[Anonymous No.55290823]

>>55287976
They pretend to be whatever you want them to be, and reel you in with their pussies, and then once they know they have you their real personality comes out. The way to avoid this is to act in a way that she knows that you could leave her and not care.

[Anonymous No.55290879]

>>55287976
As an FYI they are 100x worse after the pregnancy. Post partem. You best get used to your new life of child support. Just be a good dad. You will be much better off without her mental illness

[Anonymous No.55290908]

>>55290823
Spoken like a true virgin or at least a faggot.

[Anonymous No.55290923]

Op here and I’m def not letting this shit slide it was basically a practice execution for
Me her convo and berating yesterday. I have to make a stand but I don’t know if this is a situation of the milk being spoiled or if I can get her back on track

Men I’m 35 work hard and want a family but don’t let yourselves be gaslit by the media the girl boss shit etc to relinquish control. You make the rules in your household and if you let that slide you will find out soon real pain and he’ll.

Know your worth. It’ll be an interesting morning

[Anonymous No.55290948]

>>55290908

I mean, a lot of people really do this

[Anonymous No.55290966]

I’m 50/50 deciding how to play this

Honestly a divorce sounds great since I’ve lost my sense of self this past 1.5 years due to her shit so I’m trying to think long term here

I can’t let myself get grinded down by her bs because she will then really leave me for someone else that can provide. This shit is draining like dealing with psychic vampire.

And whoever was larping earlier saying it was her on her - I wish. I don’t think we’d be talking this if she posted on here unironically

[Anonymous No.55290971]

>>55290908
>t. seething roastoid

[Anonymous No.55290975]

>>55290814

So she gets to just wreck my life because she’s a woman? Lol no

She said last night she’s 85% (????) sure she wants a divorce lol now let’s see what shit she talks

[Anonymous No.55291010]

>>55290966
>then really leave me for someone else that can provide.
You're the one who's gonna be providing child support for 26 years until your bastard finishes college.
And alimony.
She'll use the money with her new boyfriend and laugh at how dumb you are lol. Imagine being retarded enough to get married outside of Sharia Law.

[Anonymous No.55291037]

>>55290966
>>55290975
OP please for the love of god sell your house and move most of your bank fiat savings into crypto on a ledger or trezor. Do not let her get a cent

[Anonymous No.55291054]

>>55290975
don't take the bait, don't antagonize her. did you do anything to warrant this?
if not just reach out to her friends and family, talking about divorce while she's expecting your child is insane and nobody would tell her to do it.

[Anonymous No.55291061]

>>55290309
Depending on where you live, responsibility for that baby could depend on whether you file for divorce before the mulatto is born.

[Anonymous No.55291223]

>>55287976
You know what to do

[Anonymous No.55291272]

>>55287976
i'll marry you anon. lets get faggot married and save on taxes this year

[Anonymous No.55291444]

>>55290923
>>55290966
>>55290975
Let me get this straight...
>You, as the man of an apparently childless household, wants to set ground rules (of which you have yet to elaborate on)
>You also want to somehow salvage the relationship if you can (while alluding to the fact that its because of LITERAL sunken cost fallacy on your part)
>You also very much like the idea of not being with your wife (lol) anymore

You sound like you're the male version of my generic borderline personality (ex) girlfriend. Your wife will leave you and simply ask for child support at which point you will act ridiculous and chimp out (as you are planning out in this thread) only to be met with legal action in return and a judge favoring your soon to be ex wife in divorce and custody court once she sobbingly recites your shenanigans with the conclusion that she just wanted you to help with child support. Its amusing how obvious to see how your situation will play out and im just some rando on the internet.

[Anonymous No.55291500]

>>55287976
This is the life you chose unfortunately.
If only you had some clue that an unmarried 32 year old wasn't actually "trad" lmao.

[Anonymous No.55291534]

>>55287976
>It's all woman fault
Turn this shit around asap
>3% man
>Way of the superior man
>No more Mr nice guy
Wont explain

[Anonymous No.55291594]

>>55291444
No shit that’s why I’m trying to avert this

You think I should just man up or leave?

[Anonymous No.55291761]

> switched from trad to being super obnoxious and just not who she used to be

News flash - she was ALWAYS obnoxious. They simply do a good job of being a chameleon to lure you in to their traps.

Real question though - did she in the past during her "trad woman phase", go on multiple girls' nights out? Was she ever into alcohol? Did she have multiple "guy friends"?

There's always red flags you have to look out for. Good women are out there but most of them are taken by the time high school ends. Also, you aren't normally going to find good women in places like an upper middle class suburbia or downtown anywhere. They're usually out on the country side but even then, you still have to look for those red flags.

[Anonymous No.55291956]

>>55290908
Nah, he's right.
Treat her like she's the love of your life and treat her like you wouldn't care if she left, I tried both approaches on different women, guess which has retained my relationship for over 3 years now.

[Anonymous No.55292106]

>>55287976
Write a will. Costs less than 500$. Make sure to get every nook and cranny, all inheritance shall belong to your estate or a family member you trust. This includes all assets, hard drives that you will place inside of a safe of a bank. Send everything to monero, use a nonKYC method to manage your crypto, use bisq, launder everything. Put everything under your mother's/father's name. Fuck the kid. The kid can die in a fire if she gets 100% custody at birth. I don't see the point of being there to see the birth with a person who won't be in your life anymore. These are just 2 empty ghosts as you sit in the hospital room.

[Anonymous No.55292334]

>>55291594
Do YOU want to stay or leave? You seem like you want to leave so leave; ideally in an adult fashion without loads of drama. Sell your fucking house asap as well and put the money into cash/USDC.

[Anonymous No.55292683]

>>55287976
>and married a 32 year old
why would you ever do that. Marry an 18 year old instead

[Anonymous No.55292906]

>>55288047
Shes challenging you because she wants you to assert yourself and dominate her, which will make her feel safe.

Its your choice to rise to the occasion or to let yourself be ruined.