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I have death grip syndrome and I don't know how to cure it. I've been masturbating essentially watching very questionable porn and putting a condom and fucking my pillow in a rough manner since my twenties. Most of the time I force myself to coom even when my penis is semi erect. That said, every time I try to have normal sex with a female, I just don't experience pleasure at all. It feels like the pussy is just too loose, I sometimes can't even tell if my dick is inside her or not, unironically speaking. Even no protection oral sex does not provide any kind of pleasure to my tortured soul. Women get frustrated because I last too long or my dick is as soft as marshmellows and they think they're not hot enough for me or that I'm a massive faggotlord in denial. 80% of the times i don't even coom. 90% is a struggle to keep an erection firm. How to solve this? I'd be grateful if someone who actually experienced and overcomed the death grip could provide some useful help.
t. 36 Years old death gripped abyss-staring fag

>> No.55099711

>>55099694
>the “vax” is working

>> No.55099723

>>55099694
Stop touching your dick and if you have to use a fleshlight.

>> No.55099746

>>55099694
Just stop masturbating, it's that easy. Problem solved within 6 months or your money back.

>> No.55099756

I suffer from this too. And still do to this day. However, I have mitigated the effects a lot by just cutting off the type of porn I watch. No more rough, no questionable things, I stopped watching altogether for a while. And ngl I folded a few times but I noticed when I looked at vanilla things I received a rock hard erection since I hadn’t touch myself to hard stuff in a long time. I completely get where you’re coming from. Porn is your biggest enemy and you damaged yourself watching it so much when you were younger. I suggest cutting away from it

>> No.55099762

>>55099694
I imagine some months of abstinence from stimulation would reset that, but that is far easier said than done, speaking from experience, unfortunately.

>> No.55099897

>>55099711
Unvaxxed XRP holder here
>>55099756
I went that road a few years ago. It does work at some point. I limited myself to vanilla porn for a while as well. I got rock hard boners just from watching photos from girls I know irl in social media- maybe I should try that again. But despite having hard rock erections back I still had the death grip, total dick anhedonia/loss of sensations.
>>55099762
I did that too, the only thing you achieve is becoming a monk, no help whatsoever if you had to fuck some pussy. This lead me to think I should be fucking a lot women until I like it. Until my brain wires itself to coom only when having sex. Not having sex just makes you good at not having sex despite the increase in libido