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54932564 No.54932564 [Reply] [Original]

> girl texts me "take care then :)"

How do you suck this up and not let you turn bitter?

>> No.54932572

>>54932564
Stop being a faggot, OP.

>> No.54932601
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54932601

Say "you too" and then start posting huge crypto moons on social media

>> No.54932602

>>54932564
>Letting a woman affect your mood
NGMI
Take care anon
>Verification not required

>> No.54932637

I don't have a single female contact on my phone except my mom

>> No.54932918

>>54932637
This is how it was for me too. Now I don't even the phone lol.

>> No.54932923

>>54932564
In what context?

>> No.54932959
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>>54932564
Do the needful sir

>> No.54932972

>>54932564
stop caring.

>> No.54932974

Wrong board, sweetie: >>>/r9k/

>> No.54933032

>>54932564
At least you got a response.
I gave a girl a Christmas card and a little gift and texted her asking her how she’s doing. Never got a response to either. Not even a “thanks, k., or fuck off”
I never did anything mean or wrong to her. I’m not even ugly or pushy or creepy

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>>54932972
this unironically

>>54932602
also this

it literally doesnt matter anon as soon as you allow this sort of stuff to affect your mood you have a problem.

>> No.54934803

>>54932564
I wouldn't respond

>> No.54934887

>>54932564
you simply put on your big boy pants and don't care

>> No.54934947

>>54934887
What if she’s the only girl that ever hugged you. And that she actually looked feminine in real life, and she actually seamed reasonable to talk to

How the fuck will I ever come close to this?

>> No.54935016

>>54934947
ggs bro

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>>54934947

>> No.54935060

>>54932564
look bro u gotta give more context than this

first of all a real man is caring not some fake pretend-to-not-text-back shit. thats high school girls.

youre a strong secure man. she wished you to take care

>"thanks u too ;)"

THEN GO COLD. She will probably text you back in a few days, subconscious test. see if youre a desperate loser.

match her energy. stop thinking about the end result. live in the moment

>"Hey Anon hows it going? :)"
>"I'm good Jennifer, how r u :D "

>"Omg anon my day was so bad bubu pulled my hair and bobo ate my sandwich im stressing out it was so horrible i feel so sad ima go kms man gg"
>"That sounds horrible im sorry that happened to u i know u must feel so bad and sad but it will be ok" (NOTE: DO NOT OFFER A SOLUTION, just feel with her)

now the trick ppl think is

>How long before text back?

Dont try too hard, go do something you enjoy, workout, play games, look charts, browse biz, watch movie. do u, be happy

text back whenever u feel like it when u see the text. but always match the energy, and dont give solutions to her problems.

u can do it anon, just be you.

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54935062

Could be worse. You could have watched the woman you were planning on marrying and even picked out baby names with develop a psychotic break in her mid twenties and spiral into a shell of herself and now years later when you talk you get the the "Hii oh my god its nice to see you" like a vague acquaintance.

>> No.54935069

>>54932564
Literally taking care you imbecile, idk learn something, work out, stop smoking and jacking off to weird stuff, try using nwc to increase knowledge idk, fuck off kek

>> No.54935071

>>54932564
>he thinks this will be the last time it happens
anon, I....

>> No.54935079

>>54935069
How do I tell you... There's nothing they can teach I'm interested in

>> No.54935096

>>54934947
if you were able to attract her, you will be able to attract another one like her or even better
right now it feels horrible but it gets better
stop thinking about it, get in the gym, go with your friends, call your mom, do fun stuff

>> No.54935185

Ignore.
Women want drama and to know they have got a response out of you, be it a good or bad one.

>> No.54935208

>>54932564
What is the context here? Is it a break up? Literally go ghost and do not even think about saying a god damn word to her. Move forward, do at least one thing from now that will radically change you in some way. For many, that's lifting. Just dive head first into something and get after it every single day. In 6 months, you'll be different and the world has a funny way of being very small when we least expect it. You'll run into that hoe at some point, and you're gonna wanna be different enough that it gets her second guessing even if for a mere 10 seconds.

>> No.54935214

>>54935069
There was no need to be a jerk, faggot

>> No.54935224

>>54935069
Nobody wants to do jackshit anon, we just want to get money and spend it on hookers and cocaine

>> No.54935231

>>54935060
We met through other circumstances, followed up non romantically or whatever. Then she wrote me that text "take care then“
Then I have said fuck it and asked out a girl for the first in my life. She responded positively albeit a little late, that she is currently not in town to get drinks with me. Then I replied and she left me on read for a literal month (almost 4ths) and never responded back

>> No.54935243

>>54932564
no idea never happened

>> No.54935298

>>54935231
bro literally nothing happened, how you are attached over this, do you realize how is the dating life nowadays for girls? jesus christ, start with the greeks

>> No.54935326

>>54935231
you made it clear to her that she's your only prospect and it grossed her out. expand your optionality, or just give her less attention and focus.

you're supposed to be the aloof one, not her. i'm guessing you replied to every message of hers right away, while she left yours on read for hours, right?

>> No.54935336

>>54935231
obsessed with oneitis.
buy truebit and fuck off

>> No.54935334

>>54935231
lol nvm

>> No.54935441

>>54935326
>you made it clear to her that she's your only prospect

I talked with her like a guy friend. Casual And asked her concise and asserting if she is coming to get a drink at x

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>>54932564
>>54932601
Totally. Say "You too"
and then you post your x4 on papa today. you did invest in papa right?

>> No.54935494

>>54932564
Take care then
>No. I will be reckless in every aspect of life from now on

>> No.54935506

>>54935441
>being an objectivist in 2023
bro you keep thinking about her, sending her energy through mental memes, she just knows it, you can pretend all you want with messages but you have to be innocent to think there isn't any vodooo shit working behind the veil, specially here in /biz/

>> No.54935552

>>54932564
you're stuck on it because you intuitively understand that you were filtered, but you don't understand how or why. women communicate to potential mates through innuendo and doublespeak as a way to filter out inexperienced scrubs. she probably indicated in an earlier text that she'd like to escalate the interaction and you missed the hint and continued interacting at the level of aimless texting. that's why she said "take care then." in effect, you told her you wouldn't escalate the interaction, thereby making further involvement pointless.
there is nothing to be bitter about, you are just a complete noob to the game.

>> No.54935561

>>54934780
a good anon made a thread here recently that went along the lines of
>no matter how bad things get, always remember there are guys out there living comfortable, rich lives who get suicidal over pussy
and it changed my outlook on life entirely. i am now immune to demoralization. it's that easy.

>> No.54935570

>>54932564
No woman on Earth can affect you if you have legitimately good shit going on in your life and you don't empower her to cause harm to you. The better your life is, the more it will draw women to you who want to be a part of it. But the thing about women is that they don't join your life and make it better. The vast majority of the time they are drawn to your life to destroy it. This is the task nature has given them and they perform it as effortlessly as a fish breathing under water. Example...You begin to go to the gym, through dedication, hardwork, and fuck it maybe even steroids, you become an exceptional physical specimen. Women are drawn to this. When you fuck up and empower one of them to harm you, she will now take the very thing that attracted her to you in the first place and seek to sabotage it.

She will become jealous of the attention you give to the gym and she will try to make you feel bad about going to the gym. How you handle it from that point depends on the sort of guy you are, but that is what women do. They get drawn to things, they try to destroy them, then they move on. It is how they are wired and it is why they exist in a default state of misery. When you realize this, you will adapt accordingly and you will never have a problem again. When you understand that women exist primarily to fuck with you as a man, you will catch them 99% of the time they're doing it and punish them...But guess what...Women, eternally fucked up as they are, actually become more attracted to you when you catch them trying to destroy you and you punish them.

So get some good shit going on in your life and learn your place in the food chain. Women draw you the water to drown you, but if you can drag them out of the water, they'll fuck you like you're the last fuck they'll have on Earth. THEN you need to toss that bitch back in the river sooner than later. I wish this wasn't how it worked.

>> No.54936188

>>54935570
>But the thing about women is that they don't join your life and make it better. The vast majority of the time they are drawn to your life to destroy it.
You guys are such irredeemable faggots, I swear they should rename this stupid fucking board /r9biz/

>> No.54937848

>>54933032
Giving gifts without having dated for a couple months is classic bitch boy behavior unless it's like a $3 toy from a gas station.

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>>54932918
>Now I don't even the phone
Did you accidentally it?

>> No.54937899

>>54932564
>"ok thanks :)"
women don't function well when you don't give a shit. She will suck up to you to make you give a shit just so she can hurt you. Just stop giving a shit.

>> No.54937900

>>54935570
Incel moment

>> No.54937908

>>54937878
Who was phone then?

>> No.54937922

>>54932564
i dont get it

>> No.54937924

>>54932601
back to your dbi containment thread tranny

>> No.54937931

Talk to a new one

Life is so simple XD

>> No.54938033

>>54933032
Imagine being a member of a race of weak midgets whom the members of the stronger and taller race want to fuck all the time. A relentless pressure to fuck from all sides.
On the other hand the weak midgets have weaponized this as a form of control over the stronger and taller race.
You simply got filtered out by a member of the midget race. It's OK. This is how they function in this society. Do not expect sane behavior from them, you would also not be sane in their situation.

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>>54938033
Midget race here, can confirm. We taking all yo women lengthlets

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>>54937924
No

>> No.54938081

>>54932564
Forgot my gf's mum's birthday - she left me but changed my Binance pw (where I have 10000 ADA) and shopped my head onto a pic of a dung beetle and sent it to my parenta with the message CARDANUS