Depression and anxiety bros, need your help

[Anonymous No.54622206]

I just turned 27 and everything has started seeming grey to me.

How will I ever get a gf, married, kids, family, get a house etc.

I have a job, and i'm fine with it but the pay isn't the best (60k) and I'm 20k in debt already.
No major savings or investments.

Life just seems unenjoyable all of a sudden.
No friends
How the fuck do you make friends at this age...I don't get it

[Anonymous No.54622240]

>>54622206
Enjoy ze pods n ze bugs

[Anonymous No.54622259]

>>54622206
im in the same situation, even worse. its pretty much over

[Anonymous No.54622332]

[Anonymous No.54622366]

>>54622206
not just u bro the world is fucked up.

Just go study something and improve yourself a little each day.

1% every day for a year is 1.01^356 percent improvement.

u can do it

[Anonymous No.54622470]

>>54622259
>>54622366
>>54622332
>>54622240
What do you guys do to pass time in the day?
Besides work
like what keeps an idle mind at bay?

feels like all my normie friends just happened to get their lifes together

[Anonymous No.54622489]

>>54622470
just watching everything fall apart in realtime, while not being able to generate any ideas on how to fix it

[Anonymous No.54622498]

>>54622206
Just stop being depressed and anxious

[Anonymous No.54622579]

>>54622498
i took my meds kek
Sertraline
It does help in going onwards with life, but everything i mentioned in my OP still stands

>>54622489
are you in debt?
money is by far the biggest factor in my happiness

[Anonymous No.54622590]

Go for a walk every day. Get out into the sun.

[Anonymous No.54622602]

>>54622579
yes, my father placed house and business on my name and its failing, so around 100k for no good reason lol. Its pretty unbearable... Money really is the biggest factor. The positive mindset law attraction stuff is complete bs, working out is alright but doesn't change that much, walking as other anon said also doesn't change anything. Even microdosing psilocybin, its great yeah, but really doesn't do shit in the end.

[Anonymous No.54622604]

>>54622206
Enjoy the incel lifestyle broooo

[Anonymous No.54622612]

I've been struggling with these issues as well. One of the most important things I did was joining a sports club. Working towards mastery in fencing while being around and competing with my club mates, helped to develop me socially.

I would recommend you to study social and emotional skills. As well as growth mindset and affirmations.

The book "Drive" By Daniel H. Pink is also great to learn more about behaviour.

And also regularly going to a therapist can be a great help as well. Besides of what he's saying, it gives you a support network. It makes you feel less alone in the struggle.

[Anonymous No.54622622]

>>54622206
>>54622590
>Go for a walk every day. Get out into the sun.
This is good advice, OP. It's hard if you are truly depressed, but if you can figure out a way to fit it into your life that works for you, it just might help. Create a ChatGPT account if you haven't already and just start asking it how to fit this into your life. In my experience, AI has helped a lot with that. But you must go into it with a positive attitude, on the off chance the AI suggests something that might seem negative to a very depressed person.

>>54622579
>i took my meds kek
Based on this response, it seems like you could approach talking with an AI in a positive manner. I don't know if that sounds corny or not haha, but give it a try.

[Anonymous No.54622627]

>>54622470
My fundamental is a strong eating and sleeping base, which I still enjoy.
I have the luxury of being financially independent, so I can do this. But I'm sure not financially independent people can also.

I wake up a 8 and immediately make and eat breakfast.
Lunch at 12
Dinner at 16

After dinner only water. So it's like an intermittent fasting regime. Makes me hungry enough in the morning and excited for food to get up and cook. Always a great start of the day and also a good evening rest; because I have something to look forward to the next day.

Sleep is at 23.

I can also highly recommend tongkat ali supplements. And zinc/magnesium. Tongkat ali is my antidepressant, basically.

[Anonymous No.54622639]

>>54622622
Second the OP. ChatGPT completely changes life because it addresses a fundamental human basic need: strategising.
It helps you to strategise your life. And does so most effectively. It's overpowered, really!

Anyways, good luck on your self development and healing journey! It's something many of us go through in their early twenties. Don't give up and try to master the art of living!

[Anonymous No.54622656]

>>54622639
>>54622627
>>54622622
>>54622612
>>54622602
>>54622590
thanks all i'll look into your advice
this 'dreaded feeling of no purpose' is worse than anything else imaginable
even video games and media are less interesting

hope you all have complete happiness every moment of your life.

[Anonymous No.54622663]

>>54622470
im in a depression hole too, I just quit a high paying job that drained my soul and i have some money now so im taking a break|

my sleep is all fucked up and i was eating so much trash and getting acid reflux staying up til 7am every morning playing games until my head hurt since i had no job or responsibilities now.

recently trying to fix this and eat greens, exercise again and study and "be motivated" just to do things like washing my dishes or cleaning my floor

microdosing cow poop caps has helped

[Anonymous No.54622670]

>>54622206
Do a lot of physical activity. Go hike, run, play a sport and push your body. Will help you deal with the stress better and release endorphins which help fight depression. Long walks are good because it's easy to think clearly and clear your mind and come up with a plan to get your life in a better state.

[Anonymous No.54622672]

>>54622206
ok long fucking wall of text incoming, just turned 27 fag here too.

so, turned 27 not long ago too, unironically feeling similar to you but different circumstances: I fucked my head by going into a 4 year relationship at 21 with a 32 yr old, now she's near 40 and I feel like I'm about to reach the age she had when we first started dating. I feel like 2017 was fucking yesterday but it's been 6 years which my mind seems to fucking not be able to fucking process so it gives me fucking anxiety to think I'm closer to 32 than to 21, and in a way I feel like I just wasted all that time and, also I ended up unironically not wanting to have a fucking bitch around, I like pussy not necessarily bitches, but at the same time, it isn't fulfilling, I fuck a bitch and I cum and that's that, sex doesn't fulfill me the way it did when I was a dumb fucking teenager or a young 20-21 kid. A relationship seems dreadful to me at this point just because >women and their fucking dramas and bs.
I almost daily wake up not knowing what to do (not in a bad way, but I'm a web dev, I work from home and I have been living modestly since 2022 cuz dumb fucking perma bull in 2021 wasted most profits in consoomerism), so I don't have work everyday, so I usually code some shit just for fun and to learn almost daily just to not be staring at the fucking ceiling...
about the friends, IDK, I look at my highschool friends and they are all either suffering through a miserable 9-5, suffering with kids and getting fat, or they seem depressed like me, new friends idk man, just try your best to not be awkward if you are, mirror technique works wonders (an aunt that studied the uni when she was already old told me this like 10 years ago, not sure if it works for everyone), but I get it that sometimes people are fucking shallow normies so there's no way to fit in really...
I might continue this post if no one shits on me hehe

[Anonymous No.54622673]

>>54622206
Same situation except I'm almost 31.
Got lucky with starting my own business, which got me some money at least.
Other than that I just worship the Lord and wait until I am released from this prison.

[Anonymous No.54622684]

>>54622670
tried that, its beneficial yes, but ultimately doesn't change anything

[Anonymous No.54622700]

Try prayer.

[Anonymous No.54622706]

>>54622672
dude, everything you said is relatable

feels like we are all in this shithole state of dread
>>54622673
>>54622663

[Anonymous No.54622711]

put as much as you can into internet tokens

[Anonymous No.54622722]

Im on the same page as you though just turned 28. I started tkin St John Wort a week ago. I have chronic stress and ocd, i hope it helps

[Anonymous No.54622725]

>>54622711
this is the one thing I wish I never did lmao
i invested 10k in late 2021, made it into 100k, then lost it all.

worst feeling imaginable and im never touching this shit again except MAYBE dcaing into only Bitcoin and nothing else or boomer indexes

my mind is ruined by this gambling that gives me dopamine hits and put me in debt.

[Anonymous No.54622728]

>>54622206

Do you now realize why people are so disgruntled?

They are seizing the means of (re)production. They want to kill love.

Flow with the Dao, my son. Go to the fucking boxing gym and rage like it's a matter of life or death (because it is)

[Anonymous No.54622730]

I've tried a lot of things, from esoteric rituals, breathing techniques, long periods of no fap trying to transmute that energy, working out, long walks in nature, eating super clean, quitting alcohol and cigs for a year now, fasting, reading, tried to brainwash myself to have a positive outlook, supplements, psilocybin microdoses. Nothing has helped... I wont lie, I fantasize about kms quite often

[Anonymous No.54622744]

>>54622730
damn, sorry to hear that.
meds seem to work for me in that i dont want to kms
Try Sertraline for a few months maybe
dont take your life though. At worst you could gain some money and spend it on a hot escort every few days until things turn around

[Anonymous No.54622751]

>>54622725
personally lost 150k but im not gonna quit or it's all for nothing

every generation has their own opportunities - boomers and gen X's have property and dotcom boom, we have internet tokens

[Anonymous No.54622753]

>>54622744
not taking any meds lol, thats stuffs really fucking stupid. have done the escorts, brings no joy or fulfilment at all

[Anonymous No.54622757]

>>54622602
I was thinking of mentioning the same about weed and psilocybe microdoses and the same: it works for a while, maybe a placebo and then you fall again for some reason...
>>54622206
no faggot but thanks for making this bread, I've had these thoughts in my head for a month+ now but never talked it or wrote it down, it seems to be stuck in a weird sort of limbo and it gets grounded when you actually do put out the words

[Anonymous No.54622766]

>>54622753
if it keeps you alive, it can't be that stupid.
i understand where you're coming from but you took mushrooms...chemistry doesn't discriminate whether its from the lab or nature

[Anonymous No.54622769]

>>54622730
dude that's fucking sad, I've done probably 9.5/10 things you listed there and lately have been having those kms thoughts. ngl the only reason I haven't done it and wouldn't do it is both my parents are still alive, if they were gone I'd probably be gone too

[Anonymous No.54622773]

>>54622206
>How will I ever get a gf, married, kids, family
>I have a job
How do these things relate lol? If you couldn't get a gf till 27 it's not because you didn't have a job, you think you don't have the money for a family, but in reality you're just ugly

[Anonymous No.54622779]

>>54622751
alright, be careful anon.
I kept chasing losses and lose it all...even lost loaned money
its very hard to realize a few mouse clicks can lose you real money that people survive on

>>54622773
i had gf for a year but she's a party girl with no future. i guess i meant how do i get a wife

[Anonymous No.54622780]

>>54622730
visualise yourself as a sun, and pray like so every day-

May I sufficiently utilise your wisdom and strength so that beauty may manifest
May I honor your gifts and love as you do
May I recognise the beauty within and without me
With you as my nucleus may I be the sun of my existence

amen

[Anonymous No.54622786]

>>54622766
synthetic vs natural, there is quite the difference in my mind, but i see your point too, still never taking (((pharma))) meds

>>54622769
yeah, known feels, pretty fucking shit it would be to cause such pain on the family if you kys

[Anonymous No.54622798]

>>54622780
have done similar visualization/prayers for months, sure theres some good e(energy)motions as a result but thats about it, nothing else

[Anonymous No.54622806]

vibe engineering will be the only true job in demand when general AI becomes a thing

this thread is full of BAD VIBES you guys have to work your vibing muscles

[Anonymous No.54622820]

>>54622779
One year of relationships in 27 years of life is pathetic. You should have gotten a gf in HS or college and already be comfortable with each other by now.
You're not getting married with someone in less than 3 years of being together and if you do you're retarded. So you're starting from 0 like a high schooler except close to 30.

[Anonymous No.54622841]

Also you're not finding a virgin gf at this age so why even want a family?
Are you okay with the mother of your children having had other men's cum on her face and in her mouth? She will never admit it so you will never know if she was a cock sucker in her youth

[Anonymous No.54622866]

>>54622841
...

[Anonymous No.54622871]

I am 26, by the end of this year i will have about 30k euro in savings. In the span of 3 years i lost 2 family members and one is sick. This place is unironically my refuge from all the shit i am being served irl. I put all my hopes in making it next year, even 6 figures would do, I just need enough money to take a long vacation somewhere because life is so tiresome

[Anonymous No.54622875]

>>54622798
Sending a prayer request to God, Allah, Creator and visualization yourself as the Sun are two totally different strategies.

[Anonymous No.54622878]

>>54622206
the sooner you accept it's over, the easier it'll be. thing ironically got better once that happened. I was try harding to get the ideal life and it got worse.

[Anonymous No.54622880]

>>54622866
What's this supposed to be? Are you a cuck that enjoys someone else's sloppy seconds?

[Anonymous No.54622890]

>>54622875
and yet I have done both for periods of time and the results are the same

[Anonymous No.54622895]

>>54622820
>>54622779
im only counting my gfs after college lmao
who counts their high school ones...

this thread isn't about looks or dating desu,you're missing the point. im fine with all that jazz

[Anonymous No.54622898]

>>54622880
>being a cringe fuck edgelord when everyone is trying to actually have a dialog with OP
wHat'S tHiS?

[Anonymous No.54622910]

>>54622898
>if you don't want to marry an unvirgin whore you are a cringe edgelord
Ok bluepilled retard cuck

[Anonymous No.54622919]

>>54622910
at what point did I acknowledge any of the utter fucking unrelated retarded bullshit you wrote?
can't you fucking read mutt? OP also stated something similar yet you seem to not understand it, do I need to spell it for you? record a voice clip or what is it necessary for your ape brain to understand that you're missing the point entirely dumb fuck

[Anonymous No.54622922]

>>54622910
>im an almost 30 year old mental train wreck society OWES me a virgin wife

[Anonymous No.54622937]

>>54622919
keep seething you retarded cuck you're malding cause I pointed out how pathetic you are for being with a woman that sucked dicks in her youth
>>54622922
>NOOOOOOOO you have to marry the whore or I will call you names and attack your fee fees

[Anonymous No.54622941]

I mean other than that I can only see your reasoning being "depressed faggot, let me shit on them" which is fucking pathetic really, sure I go telling everyone to kill themselves in this fucking board according to thread, but that's the key, I reply to posts according to context, so if this is what you can contribute, bro it's not really useful and as OP told you, misses his point. or if you saw "depressed fags time to throw my turd" uh,,, what do I tell you kek

[Anonymous No.54622952]

Lol this retarded cuck is losing his mind, looks like the syphilis you got from your whore town bicycle wife got to your brain

[Anonymous No.54622953]

>>54622895
but taking a point from Hp+i0Z here, listening to tate podcasts might help your mood and will to do shit

[Anonymous No.54622956]

>>54622952
the projection from this nigger faggot is hard kek

[Anonymous No.54622958]

>>54622871
did they take the jab?

[Anonymous No.54622966]

>>54622956
>no u
Best STD brain chimp could come up with

[Anonymous No.54622995]

>>54622672
>>54622706
You guys lack the historical approach to see why nihilism is the norm. The whole purpose of judeo atheist revolutions by the bourgeois in NL, UK and France and Russia was to remove the kings and priests off of their backs. priests and kings took their money and told them what to do , who to marry, daily rules and so on . it was awful for the bourgeois bug.

atheism= hedonism+ propaganda that christian kings are evil, in order to make a society based on commerce alone, and not on priests and military conquests

The typical life of a bourgeois is going to orgies at night and then during day getting bored since they have a very shallow meaningless job or even just be trust fund babies and all they do in the afternoon is getting ready to go parties in the evening.
From time to time they want to feel like good guys so back in the day they would go to church on the sunday morning after their saturday night orgy.

Nowadays they just push for humanism, ie the philosophy they themselves crafted to take power.

And women lead the same life of the bourgeoisie, this is why they thrive so much in the bourgeois pinnacle creation: the democratic republic.
A woman truly have no hypocrisy when all she does in her life is using hundreds of orbiters to get them solve her daily life problems, when she gets free gifts by men, when she has lots of casual sex free of charge, when men put her on a pedestal while her skills are non-existent. A woman is hedonistic and she has very little work do to get an easy life.
Women coast thru life thanks to
-being the apex predator on the liberalized sex market (liberalized by the bourgeoisie since bourgeois hate sexual conventions, because it prevents cooming).
Both women and bourgeois are bisexual sex freaks.
-being deeply neurotic, desperate to virtue signal during the day to gain atheist karma points

[Anonymous No.54622996]

A resident glowie is here to demoralize everyone in the thread. Guess the thread is over at this point.

[Anonymous No.54622997]

>>54622996

-being the only species able to sustain high dose of hypocrisy, ie being self centered hedonist but also pushing for more humanism, because they have no introspection faculty

the only difference between a bourgeois and a woman, is that the bourgeois perfectly knows he is a scumbag who doesnt care one bit about the peasants in private, while claiming in public that caring about peasants is super important.

[Anonymous No.54623003]

You guys are all huge faggots especially that one queer complaining about “u shulda married when ur 18 loser”. Kys for real faggot.

>microdosing shrooms
Retarded
>nofap
Retarded but based
>take kike medicine
What the fuck am I reading

None of this shit will change your life OP. The problem isn’t chemistry or even doing megative things to your body, in your case it’s the monotony of daily life. You need a trip or a life change. Working out won’t help if you are already active. Perhaps try moving or joining a club and ignore most of these faggots who probably are in the same aituation and mever left their mommies lil basement

As gay as it is, Carpe Diem

[Anonymous No.54623014]

>>54622995
Extremely based take and also the truth.

[Anonymous No.54623020]

>>54623003
this actually might be a key factor, I was a fucking nomad when I was 19, but by 23 I came back to my city and been settled here ever since, seems to correlate to not traveling anymore as I used to, I mean I moved homes around 15 times between 2015 and 2019

[Anonymous No.54623030]

>>54622206
>How the fuck do you make friends at this age...I don't get it

You don't, adult now have work and gf/family to tend to, they don't have the time to make new freinds.

[Anonymous No.54623036]

>>54623003
thing is, ok you gather enough shekels to go on a trip, sure its nice, but the pressing issue of not having money still will sit at the back of the mind and you cant really enjoy the trip knowing that you will have to go back to the suffering

[Anonymous No.54623049]

>>54623020
Dude I am nommadding now and have been for 5 years and I am also a dev. I am terrified of returning to my old home and living a normal life and don’t think I ever will. Also, this life too is becoming monotonous in a way.

[Anonymous No.54623056]

>>54623014
even worse western scum women are completely conscious about being scumbags more likely than not and the regular fag just accepts his fate of having a whining useless bitch as a wife, further demoralizing and slowly rotting away all mental sanity from their couple

[Anonymous No.54623057]

>>54623036
That’s true and you shouldn’t travel if you can’t afford it. When I say travel OP, I am suggesting actually getting a job abroad or somewhere new and moving there for a few months-1 year. That way you can develop yourself and basically “kill yourself” and be reborn again. It might suck, but it’s something to try. Teaching english is a great way to do this easily and fags here will shit on the idea but it’s based

[Anonymous No.54623085]

>>54623049
same happened to me when I came back, a friends' biz went belly up and I just didn't want to go back to the dirty contaminated city, I dreaded it and I hated it when I came back, but eventually I settled down onto this monothony...
see, what kept it fresh for me was that I didn't just literally nomad into hostels or camping, I did that but I found paying for a room per day/week was stupid so I actually rented apts or at least a room in a roommate house, that way I was able to live a normal life (go to the market, buy my shit, cook my food) instead of a tourist or traveler life, that also helped me extend my time doing that because I was spending much less than I'd be if I was paying as a tourist... there was one time I met a couple in a beach who had paid the same I paid for a 1 month apartment lease for 1 night in a hotel kek

[Anonymous No.54623219]

>>54622206
Running and working out helps with depression and anxiety. Balanced diet (read: no junk food, prepare your meals at home, eat veggies, berries and meat)
I abandoned thought of getting married and having family. But at 27 if you pull yourself together, you have good chance to have a family.
>but where do I meet girls and/or friends..?
Get a hobby which forces you to be around other people. Like join yoga classes or climbing. I'm sure there are more activities in your vicinity.
>money problems
Cut your spendings. If you have any subscriptions, think really hard if you need them. Invest, not only your money will make you money, but potential partner will see this as secure future with you.
If you hate your job, or want to make more. Write down 20 ways how you could earn more in a year (for example how to earn 100k per year) in one sitting. And there's high chance you'll come up with something.
Have a goal, but don't make it something like
>get a gf
>make a family
It will make you more depressed and anxious, because those things are out of your control. Make goals which improves something in your life like
>learning new cooking recipe every week
>reading 20 pages daily
>working your way to lift heavier weights or run faster/further
>learning new skill and improving it
Etc.
Good luck, anon.

[Anonymous No.54623377]

>>54622656
I completely understand how you feel, I've been there too. It's an effect of being overwhelmed, I think.

[Anonymous No.54623404]

>>54622730
Did you try social and emotional skills - becoming a part of a larger network?
For example sports club.

Also may sound cheesy but you have to believe that things you do help and congratulate yourself for doing them.

[Anonymous No.54623423]

>>54623404
I used to do sports, not anymore, shekels needed to do it. yes, certainty is key, i did brainwash/mk myself to believe them for a while, but yeah, no results. I've even fallen for the blood over intent meme lol.

[Anonymous No.54623456]

bump before going to sleep, will and strength for all of you my brothers.

[Anonymous No.54623462]

>>54623423
I have hard time believing that affirmations won't work for you. In my opinion, they're the strongest thing I've ever tried. The power of empowering thought is great. Combined with a growth mindset.

Yet I'm also a nihilist but that's probably due to larger societal issues I don't have a lot of control over at the moment. (I'm trying to make a change though)

[Anonymous No.54623565]

>>54623462
the thing with affirmations is that they are a very powerful tool but they need to work in conjunction, I was heavily into metaphysics, numerology, energy, vibration, etc when I was 17-20 and it all seemed to fall in place perfectly but my mental state was completely different back then, our current mind state is as you said part being overwhelmed but also (at least in my case) a lack of consistency, regarding both affirmations and physical work towards the goal, it seems to me that the negativity cycle needs to be broken from all angles otherwise it reinfects you and cripples whatever progress you might have made.
A few months ago I started telling myself when I found myself splatted in my chair wasting hours away "Complacency is the worst fucking cancer, it will cripple you and destroy your lifeand mind, you're not a complacent mf, get up, wash the dishes, check the dogs water, qhatever but stop wasting your time" ofc if I feel like dry turd I don't even remember this so I first need to get out of that mindset and then start working on something or affirming something, otherwise whatever I try, I have an apathy level like a spoiled teenager being told to wash his plate
that's why they recommend doing anything at all so the mind is busy on something productive instead of just producing negative bs thoughts, once you achieve this and get out of the "don't wanna do anything" hole you're much more likely to actually do what you need to do, but obviously depending on the troubles you're facing, keeping your spirits high as the days pass is the real challenge

[Anonymous No.54623592]

>>54623565
You could also:
Say to yourself: I am not a complacent person.
Talking to yourself with an I-statement and not a you-statement, because inherent in the you-statement is a critical tone (which will only get you down)

And the statement "I have an apathy level like a spoiled teenager being told to wash his plate" sounds like a static mindset, not a growth mindset.

Better would be to tell yourself: I have an apathy level like a spoiled teenager at the moment. But I am an adult now and I will overcome these troubles. I trust in my abilities and capabilities to do so. I am strong. I am in control of doing what I want to do.

[Anonymous No.54623645]

>>54623592
pure truth my friend, curious but I indeed say this in third person, thanks for pointing that out, it's mentioned in this book that I find myself coming back to every now and then and which came to my life in a casual causal way, it just popped one day out of nowhere while watching youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EhpOgoiYos
"the spirit knows no dualities, it only knows about I and I am, it only knows that it is"... and "the thought is a seed and what does a farmer get if he sows all kinds of seeds? all kinds of plants! All thoughts, affirmations as well as doubt or negative thoughts are seeds and the negative ones should be removed because they create contradicting outcomes when the mind doubts" super simplified version tho, I recommend giving it a listen, as I said thanks for bringing this to my attention. the teenager part is not something I actually think, but that's what I would compare it against but you got a good point for that one too, hopefully the audiobook helps you to dude

[Anonymous No.54623661]

>>54623645
Thank you! I will for sure listen to it! Sending you much love, appreciation and good luck as well, anon.

[Anonymous No.54623708]

Gayest beta thread on 4chan rn
Just stop caring about anything that doesn't immediately effect you, it's that easy
Fuck the world and every faggot in it, let them suffer through the hellscape while you sit their laughing
By all means notice things, but like fuck any of us would do anything to right the wrongs of society that upset us, just stop caring
Get yours, do what makes you happy and just don't give a fuck about anyone else but yourself
Set a small achievable goal, DO NOT BY ANY MEANS SEE A THERAPIST OR A DOCTOR
you will be treated differently for the rest of your life and may have access to certain things rebuked due to you being an official fucking mental case
TL;DR - the world's fucked, but what were you gonna do about it anyway? Nothing, exactly, so just stop caring and be at peace with the decisions you've made

[Anonymous No.54623714]

>>54623661
This might be the best thread I've been on lol, even better than making money in 2021 top season lol, much love, light, guidance and strength in your path brother
hopefully the discussion will keep going by some other anons, regardles, a pleasure crossing paths fren (I feel like someone is gonna tell us to go to /x/ at any moment lmao)

[Anonymous No.54623752]

>>54623462
they really dont, ive tried more than the usual affirmations, really nothing has changed. also did get this one audio that cost 10k (pirated) to change your outlook and get over emotional blocks and get a success mindset, its combined with tuning fork frequencies. feels good after the audio, thats it. Have written out sentences as in to imprint it to my subcon, no success. Sigil magick, nothing. Trying to write yousrelf into stories where you get success, same thing. Repeating affirmations and mantras, same thing. Leaving affirmations playing over night too, nothing.

[Anonymous No.54623771]

>>54623423
>>54623752
same anon as this, id has changed

[Anonymous No.54623793]

>>54623771
stay strong anon, maybe listen to the audiobook I linked, shit took me out of a darker place already

[Anonymous No.54623800]

>>54623793
darker than now*

[Anonymous No.54623806]

>>54623793
i dont have the strength to listen to this kind of stuff, ive read all of them, they say the same thing in essence basically, its all bs (for me)

[Anonymous No.54623864]

>>54623752
It's important to act on them. I think they can be used as an important motivator and also to challenge negative beliefs when they pop up in your mind.

If they don't work for you, maybe look for different solutions also.

[Anonymous No.54623887]

>>54623864
yeah, the magic is in the acting/doing it, but still, its all going to shit, with or without the things we were talking about. I have tried other things, what I wrote before, not sure what else to do. Every problem is because of the lack of jewtokens. Close to be a catch-22 type of thing.

[Anonymous No.54623950]

>serious thread with real advice turns into religious bullshit circle jerk
Many such cases!!!!

[Anonymous No.54623988]

>>54622806
based

[Anonymous No.54624093]

>>54623887
For sure poverty can be deliberating.
That said you can also develop positive beliefs about the world instead of negative ones. Beliefs like: “I trust the world is a good place full of opportunity”. “I believe people are full of potential”, “I believe in the human race it’s power and adaptability to overcome hardship” etc.

[Anonymous No.54624109]

>>54624093
I meant debilitating.

[Anonymous No.54624160]

Jesus Christ I'm the luckiest guy here. Yes I'm old at 37... But at least I've got a house, savings/investments, good job, wife, 1 year old child, my health... Fuck I'm lucky. Thanks for helping me realize how good i have it. I will say, I think the main reason i did so well was because i was born rich. I even think it helped me with basic things like having girlfriends/etc

[Anonymous No.54624241]

have you tried having someone punch you as hard as they can?

[Anonymous No.54624387]

I am 28 years old and I never even kissed a girl

[Anonymous No.54626459]

>>54624160
>37
>1 year old

lol you're married to a feminist, enjoy having a teenager in your 50s

[Anonymous No.54626478]

it will be okay

[Anonymous No.54626493]

TRE (Trauma release exercises)

[Anonymous No.54628523]

>>54626493
>Trauma release exercises
basado

[Anonymous No.54628575]

I'm 36 with a crippled back and a autoimmune disease that's eating my body.
I don't have friends.
I can barely work.

If anyone actually cared I wouldn't have gotten to this position, give up on hope and start becoming evil.
I should have ages ago, trying to be a good person only allows the evil people to take advantage and use your soul.

There are no such things as friends.

[Anonymous No.54628599]

>>54622206

28 here. You gotta force yourself into uncomfortable situations to break the darkness creeping into your mind. Literally start going places by yourself.

>How will I ever get a gf, married, kids, family, get a house etc.
Dating apps, mutual friends, or cold approaching in public settings.

My pay is about the same as yours.

Only $2k in debt for my brand new car. Lots of investments.

You literally need to force yourself to attend public events, or join a group that does hobbies you like. I'm about to fly down to Florida by myself and just hangout for 2 days at different places by myself.

[Anonymous No.54628620]

>>54623864
>>54623887
>>54623950
>>54623988
>>54624093
>>54624109
>>54624160
>>54624241
>>54624387
>>54626459
>>54626478

>>54626794

[Anonymous No.54628629]

>>54628599
>>54628620

[Anonymous No.54628641]

>>54628620
i have tried this too, made no difference lol

[Anonymous No.54628691]

>>54622206
I turned 27 this year too. I have a wife and 2 kids. I just bought a house. I have no debt but the mortgage and make nearly $200k/y. My only investments right now are $20k in my 401k because I liquidated our Roth IRAs for the down payment. I don’t really have friends either, but I’m getting lunch with a coworker soon so I guess he’s kind of my friend

[Anonymous No.54628802]

>>54622206
> How the fuck do you make friends at this age...I don't get it

Only during school can you make friends, after high school or university if you don’t have an established social circle you’ll never have one and only way to make friends as an adult post school is to have an existing social circle, because having the existing friends to go out with is how you meet new people, if you have nobody to go out with you are automatically labeled as an outcast weirdo that has mental problems

[Anonymous No.54628837]

>>54628575
damn bro, you're literally me except a few years older. where did it all go wrong for us?

[Anonymous No.54628920]

>>54622878
This unironically. The moment you stop caring and stop chasing the opportunities come to you. Just accept life. It is what it is.

T32YO with GF and 21 BTC. But even if I had none of those material possessions. I would still not give a fuck. And that's how to be happy.

> Have problem
> Stop caring
> Problem is gone
It's literally that easy

[Anonymous No.54628923]

>>54628641
Drink your urine then

[Anonymous No.54628927]

Based on your specific situation in regards to finance.

>Pay greater then the minimum payment. Make it a focus to pay off your debt as fast as possible since that is really holding you back from creating true wealth since it is reducing your income that could be invested. Debt slaving is le bad.

>Additionally there is probably a lot of expenses that can be cut to have more money to pay off debt or save so one can improve their life faster. At the end of the day It won't make a difference because earning such a small amount is the main problem. I would focus on finding ways to earn more since that will make the biggest difference second to paying down the debt faster.

As for the mindset/ social aspect

>Don't fall for the mushroom/ weed meme anybody that suggests using drugs as a 'crutch' to help with tough situations is a loser. Drugs are fine when at a healthy point in life when used in moderation not when one becomes dependent on them to get through the day since they don't want to face their problems.

>Eat healthy and exercise, while it doesn't make a big difference for me at least it gives me a bit of self-worth in the sense that I am taking care of myself and not being a slob like most people plus it is something to do and actually helps mindset and maybe social problems unlike drugs.

Finally I can relate,

>Not a huge social circle because I am focusing on earning more and getting to a bette place financially and mentally. I am getting to the point were I can be more social and have some hobbies that if I really wanted to could probably met some people but I mostly keep to myself for now.

>I don't have any debt thankfully but I have virtually nothing to my name for a variety of reasons which Is pretty brutal but I am investing and saving so it is getting better.

I also turned 26 recently and while I flip between not feeling to far behind or really far behind overall I feel like I am doing a lot better then before.

[Anonymous No.54628949]

>>54628641
>>54628923

https://www.ndtv.com/offbeat/uk-man-who-drinks-his-own-urine-daily-claims-it-left-him-looking-10-years-younger-2936346/amp/1

[Anonymous No.54628965]

The golden ticket to curing everything including depression is drinking your morning urine.

Urine is not waste like we’ve been lied to but ultra filtered blood plasma

[Anonymous No.54628966]

>>54628599
Chad move. I went everywhere alone from 26. Recently came back from 7 months of travel. Have new foreigner gf now that wants babies. All my girls here didn't want any so I broke it off

[Anonymous No.54628974]

>>54628965
I did urine therapy fro about 6 months. Idk fren. But I do look 23 at 32 everyone is amazing when I tell my age. Also did fasting and carnivore diet for multiple years

[Anonymous No.54628975]

>>54628966
Foreigner as in like Ethiopian?

[Anonymous No.54628986]

>>54628975
No she's Persian/middle eastern. We met in Constantinople. A 3 hour flight.

[Anonymous No.54628993]

>>54622206
You are a child, ffs.
You have your whole life ahead of you.
Chill out and have fun.

[Anonymous No.54629028]

>>54628993
Also kinda true. Men peak way later. I get tons more interest than I ever got now at 32 then I did as 21. Although I always have had girlfriends and interest. Also if you have a gf but you aren't going to make babies it's pointless.

Sex that doesn't ultimately lead to a child is pointless. The Chad that had fucked 100 girls but has 0 babies has exactly the same as the virgin incel who has sex with no one. 0 babies

[Anonymous No.54629051]

>>54628837
Being open about hating jews probably didn't help but tldr jews.

[Anonymous No.54629083]

>>54628974
It’s magic. Applying it to your skin too. My mom is 70… she looks great… has always looked great all her life and she looks 55 at 70… but wrinkles are sprouting in and she’s distressed about it. Got her to use it on her face and she’s calling me all happy because the wrinkles are going away.

[Anonymous No.54629085]

>>54628802
>, if you have nobody to go out with you are automatically labeled as an outcast weirdo that has mental problems
Ultra cope. I went out alone from 26 everywhere. It's a bit awkward at first but you meet a lot more people this way then going out with "friends". The Chad goes very where on his own. He doesn't need anyone. The people there are friends for the evening. The loser needs to go with 3 buddies or else he's not comfortable.

> Anon can't go somewhere alone

Hahahahah

[Anonymous No.54629108]

>>54629083
Already did on the skin too. And used it to heal a cavity. Or ot was the oil pulling and iodine I applied. But the results is the same I had a starting cavity and it healed. Mfw

[Anonymous No.54629128]

>>54629108
Yeah I healed my peridontal disease and tooth infection just holding my urine in my mouth. Avoided a root canal just holding it in my mouth 3 times a day 15-20 mins at a time

[Anonymous No.54629207]

>>54629128
Amazing. I posted the pee pill on /fit/ and /pol/ for time in 2021 and 2022. The Vedas (holy indian texts) talk about the healing capabilities of urine.

I also came to the conclusion that the bladder is more like a water storage tank than a waste disposal tank. Just think about it for a second. The human body has energy storage ( fat ) you can go months with out eating as long as you have fat. But the body does not have a water storage? Bullshit! The bladder is water storage. Special water just for you! You can probably go a month or so without water just consuming your pee again

[Anonymous No.54629280]

>>54628974
>>54628949
>>54628966
>>54628986
>>54629028
>>54629083
>>54629085
>>54629128
>>54629108
>>54629207
schizo talking to himself about being raped and drinking piss and eating shit again,
Never fails.
Gonna recommend some red light therapy as well rabbi?

[Anonymous No.54629304]

>>54629207
Exactly… why would the body create tow entirely different systems for excretement?

If urine was poisonous there would not be a chamber for it to be held in for an indefinite about of time…whereas shit comes out a chute… no holding area.

[Anonymous No.54629385]

>>54629280
Kys faggot

[Anonymous No.54629608]

>>54623708
This guy is an idoit except for the first thing he said

[Anonymous No.54629638]

>>54624387
If you're a virgin by 25 and haven't gotten a hooker, then you
Well you need to get a hooker moron

[Anonymous No.54629652]

>>54629385
>>54626794
Attention whoring nigger samefaggot, you poisoned people here, I hope mods report your IP for investigations into the iodine poisoning.

[Anonymous No.54629659]

>>54628691
Enjoy your kids and make sure you keep romance with your wife. Be married first and raise the kids second. Not the other way around

[Anonymous No.54629672]

>>54629280

Wtf? Lmfao

[Anonymous No.54629679]

>>54626493
Ah so OP is a fucking beggar whos scamming people here, massive amounts of samefagging ITT, way too many posts for a monday midday thread created at 1am.
I see through you OP you fucking nigger mods you gotta fucking do something about this, he put one person here into a coma 100%