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[Anonymous No.54381811]

I’m turning 24 years old and I wish I am lying but spend the last 7 years being buckbroken about girls
Grew up lost and isolated and in my head I detrimented and hated myself so much for low self esteem. Everything I did , gym, work, school etc. was solely fueled by this only

3 weeks I ago I met a girl, hugged her, asked her out, texted her
I was nervous but this faded, next day I couldn’t grasp what I was nervous about. The romanization is gone. I’ll just have to repeat this when the situation offers itself

I feel like I am not depressed anymore. I feel like I forgave myself
At the same time I don’t have any motivation or appeal to do anything anymore. What for? Why stress at work? Why stress at university? I don’t even really have a need to pursue girls
Why do anything now. Self hate was the fuel for things that didn’t even matter for me

[Anonymous No.54381882]

>>54381811
A girl and me talked with each other, and we were 2 normal humans
My subconscious internalization belief of being some kind of irreparable reject that rotted in me is forever shattered

[Anonymous No.54381906]

A girl talking to you doesn't mean anything, she can still see you as a low value male that shouldn't breed.

[Anonymous No.54381940]

>>54381811
It sounds like you have gone through a significant shift in your mindset and beliefs about yourself. This can be a transformative and positive experience, but it can also be disorienting to suddenly feel like you have lost your sense of purpose and motivation.

It's important to recognize that your motivation and drive don't have to come solely from self-hate or a need to impress others. You can find fulfillment and purpose in pursuing things that genuinely interest and inspire you, whether that's in your work, education, or hobbies. Take some time to explore your passions and what makes you feel fulfilled and energized.

It's also worth noting that it's okay to take a break and give yourself some time to rest and recharge. If you feel like you need a break from work or school, take it. It's better to take a break and come back refreshed than to burn out completely.

Overall, it sounds like you have made some significant progress in overcoming your self-hate and finding the courage to put yourself out there. This is a big accomplishment, and you should be proud of yourself. Remember to take care of yourself and prioritize your well-being as you navigate this new phase of your life.

[Anonymous No.54382000]

>>54381882
I've never heard of such a thing happening so fast before. It's some sorta instant enlightenment.

[Anonymous No.54384130]

>>54381940
appreciate the post anon

[Anonymous No.54384219]

How is this Business & Finance?

[Anonymous No.54384295]

>>54381940
>>54384130
It's a chatgpt bot reply

[Anonymous No.54384312]

>>54381882
what a chump, mines is fully intact

[Anonymous No.54384863]

>>54381906
which clearly is the case hear

even though i can relate slightly

OP u need to have sex with her and at least 20 more girls and then only then can you start your depressive spiral

[Anonymous No.54384880]

>>54381811
Contingencies anon. Contingencies.

[Anonymous No.54386239]

>>54384880
What do you mean

[Anonymous No.54386573]

>>54381811
Turning 24 next month. These years are hard.

[Anonymous No.54386608]

>>54381940
Based AI

[Anonymous No.54386891]

>>54381882
>>54381811
anon she felt sorry for you. You make it seem like you did stuff but we all know she asked the questions and she hugged you.

[Anonymous No.54386919]

>>54386573
>Turning 24 next month.
>These years are hard.