/biz/ - Business & Finance

[Anonymous No.53766918]

All my father ever did was beat me.

[Anonymous No.53766929]

This is very sad. I hope you can get over it.

[Anonymous No.53766937]

>>53766918
Do you want me to continue this tradition?

[Anonymous No.53766939]

>>53766918
At least you had a father.

[Anonymous No.53766940]

>>53766918
And all you do is shitpost online

[Anonymous No.53766942]

>>53766918
did he fuck your butt?

[Anonymous No.53766945]

>>53766918
How has this affected you, financially speaking?

[Anonymous No.53766949]

>>53766929
It still affects me.
like it’s never ended.
like i’m still being hit.
idk.

[Anonymous No.53766960]

All my farther ever did was beat my little dick

[Anonymous No.53766961]

>>53766918
im sorry anon. fuck him. children don't deserve that

[Anonymous No.53766963]

>>53766945
i miss moonshots because i’m too scared.
scared to buy.
scared to hodl.

[Anonymous No.53766973]

>>53766949
If you get abused by your parents you don't hate them, you hate yourself

[Anonymous No.53767000]

>>53766973
i hate myself.

[Anonymous No.53767152]

Anyone else had parents constantly arguing?
I remember one time when mom threw my precious toy at my father. I didn't like going home.

[Anonymous No.53767243]

>>53766918
Based

[Anonymous No.53767301]

My father couldn't catch me to beat me.
>h-hayai!

[Anonymous No.53767468]

I've got an 11 month old son. I think I'm doing things right. He's saying dada, smiling at me and mom, sharing things with me. I play with him everyday, crawling around or breaking out his toys.
I think I'm doing a good job.
But I'm worried I'll do something wrong without realizing it

[Anonymous No.53767482]

>>53766918
evidently not hard enough

[Anonymous No.53767494]

Sounds like you need to breed a woman so you can start beating your son, heil hitler

[Anonymous No.53767505]

>>53767468
Just don't turn him trans and make him your sex slave.

[Anonymous No.53767512]

>>53766918
All my father ever did was love me and do his best and I've let him down. I am a constant disappointment. I wish he'd have beat me.

[Anonymous No.53767515]

>>53766918
All those beatings and you still ended up like you did. You're the one that failed, your dad tried his hardest to correct you!

[Anonymous No.53767517]

>>53767468
well just by this post youre showing more care about him than my parents ever expressed for me so thats probably a good start

[Anonymous No.53767529]

>>53767512
Got pics of love making and going down?

[Anonymous No.53767558]

>>53766939
My fellow black anon.
Stay strong brother!

[Anonymous No.53767583]

>>53766918
My dad was just never around. He was always working long hours and when he wasn't at work, he was helping his parents and his brothers and sisters.

Then when his parents passed away, they all fought over inheritance and I'm the only male family member he has left. Except we have nothing in common and no relationship because we never even talked to each other all the time I grew up. So he's been making an effort to form a relationship now, but it just feels like there's nothing there and I'm being chosen as a leftover option.

He never did anything bad and was a good provider for the family, he worked hard to give his kids a good life, but there was no personal relationship at any level.

Always felt low self esteem and behind the curve because of it. All young boys should have a male role model.

[Anonymous No.53767585]

When I was a kid, my father touched me inappropriately and did other fucked up sexual perversion fantasy story telling stuff and what not. I have also seen him doing stuff like grabbing my little sister by the ass and resting his hand on her ass cheeks when she was around 10 - 12. I have many stories involving his perversions.

When I grew up a bit (around 10 - 11) we got distanced and I basically didn't even see him for many years. Then we reconnected and hanged out some more. I tried to "re-build" the relationship, to reconnect with him.

After that, one time I invited him to hang out with my mother's side of the family for a Christmas dinner. He ran after one of my uncles trying to grab his genitals, while my uncle awkwardly laughed in discomfort and tried to turn away and run away from him. He then started "jokingly" punching one of my cousin's boyfriend, while the guy told him to stop also with a nervous laugh voice

Now I haven't talked to him or returned his messages since August last year. I'm getting dreams sometimes of he and me being confronted, like he throwing rocks at me, or me calling him a cuck, etc. It kind of weighs on my conscience that I'm not talking to him, but at this point in my life I'd rather not see him for a while, even if it makes me a bit uncomfortable because I'm not being a good son by avoiding him.

Anyways, having good quality parents is really odd nowadays, just look around at the quality of average people

[Anonymous No.53767601]

>>53767585
You forgot to tell us which jeetcoin to buy

[Anonymous No.53767615]

>>53766918
>Never went on a holiday
>Sometimes the heating would go out in the winter
>Birthdays were just me and my mum with some offbrand sweets
>Only clothes I had were from the cheapest store in my cunt and only if they were on sale.
Who else /singlemother/ here?

[Anonymous No.53767626]

>>53767583
>So he's been making an effort to form a relationship now, but it just feels like there's nothing there and I'm being chosen as a leftover option.

Yeah, I know this feel. It's like, yeah, so now that I'm in my fucking THIRTIES you want to take me on that hunting trip you promised we were going to do when I was 8? Lmao, go fuck yourself, I am busy now, and even when I'm not busy I'd rather just use my free time to dick around with my hobbies than go fill the void in your social life because you alienated literally all your ex spouses and friends

>>53767601
Uh? For me, it's silver and gold. I have a Monero wallet too, but the amount I have there is negligible. I think those are good options for my personal preferences for now, and if you like preserving wealth and anonymity, that's a good portfolio to go with

[Anonymous No.53767642]

>>53767000
better yourself or kys pick on and only one

[Anonymous No.53767651]

>>53766973
>If you get abused by your parents you don't hate them, you hate yourself

I'd like it if you could explain this idea further. What do you mean exactly?

[Anonymous No.53767920]

>>53766918
Mine raped me and my mom called me useless and encouraged me to kill myself.
They both also stole money from me.
Every woman I’ve been with either cheated on me or left because of money/materialism reasons
Isn’t it lovely?

[Anonymous No.53768179]

>>53767583

I have a huge disconnect with my father and cant reconnect at any cost, somehow I cant find patience to hang with him but it does look like your father actually tried to work hard to provide for you while juggling many other things. Maybe give him a chance

[Anonymous No.53768200]

>>53766918
That is because he was a failure. I know it's not as easy as saying the words, but someone else's failure is not your fault.

[Anonymous No.53768203]

>>53767468
Yeah bro I have a 3 year old and I’m trying my best but I know I’m not good enough. At least I love the shit out of the little guy. That’s gotta count for something. Hopefully it’s enough to make up for my mistakes.

[Anonymous No.53768211]

>>53767000
BE A MAN GODDAMNIT

[Anonymous No.53768214]

>>53766918
You probably deserved it

[Anonymous No.53768259]

>>53768203
>>53767468
Nobody raises a kid perfectly, but children are also super resilient. Just do your honest best and leave the rest up to fate. At some point, they're going to take over for their own lives and if you're unlucky, they'll blame their own failures on you, but don't take it personally. There's a shitton of propaganda out there designed to break up familial relationships and not much you can do about it short of literally becoming amish.

BTW once you start teaching them about money and give them an allowance, make sure you teach them about crypto and stacking sats. Better than a bank account these days for teaching them savings.

[Anonymous No.53768341]

>>53767920
i am sorry to hear that. i hope you make it.

[Anonymous No.53768379]

>>53766918
my father beat me hard in my childhood and gave me permanent mental damage but has always financially supported me. now I've graduated from college and got a job in nyc with him paying for my rent for the next couple years. i don't really know how to feel about this relationship I have with my father.

[Anonymous No.53768408]

sounds like the only cure is to pass it along anon good luck with your child

[Anonymous No.53768450]

>>53766918
yall should stop crying and do shrooms

[Anonymous No.53768567]

Wow, biz has really shitty fathers in general. It wasn't just me

[Anonymous No.53768638]

>>53766918
Sorry, OP, but your post made me LOL out loud for some reason

[Anonymous No.53769006]

>>53768259
>make sure you teach them about crypto and stacking sats. Better than a bank account these days for teaching them savings.
good idea, terrible execution, without severely honed critical thinking skills they will just get jeeted
the proper way to do this is give them an allowance that they can spend entirely as they please, but give them also the option of leaving it in bankaccount daddy which guarantees a 20% interest rate
sit back and watch long time frame preferences being organically imbedded in the kids psyche

just when they are older explain why real banks are shit and 20% apr in the wild is almost always a scam

[Anonymous No.53769018]

>>53766918
>All my father ever did was beat me.
and you still didnt learn.
obviously he didnt beat you hard enough.

[Anonymous No.53769054]

I’m sorry to hear that anon. The older I get the more I realize a strong family is the best chance of success in this life. My parents do so much for me, and I honestly probably don’t give back enough, so I just try every day harder than the last. Stick to it, much like with women you have to realize everyone’s looking for the perfect person, but how many people are actually out there trying to be someone’s perfect person?

[Anonymous No.53769067]

>>53767468
Binge watch Bluey. Pay attention to Bandit and how he acts. Just from this you can end up in the top 1% of Dads. The bar is so low it’s really not that hard.

[Anonymous No.53769283]

>>53766918
Were you acting gay?