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What are the financial implications of not being able to talk to people? I started using tinder this week and I matched with 5 girls, one of them messaged me and I just can't think of anything to reply
Should I start visiting a psychologist? I don't have much money to spend

>> No.53564351

>>53563690
>XXX ID
Start dating mime girls or stick to porn, kiddo

>> No.53564380

Work on your body. Quickest way to gain self esteem and confidence (other than winning the lottery)

>> No.53564464

>>53563690
Were in the same boat, wanna buy a psychologist but i have no money for things other than food. Im buying the dip with sms-loans

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I wish I wasn't self-aware.
And I don't mean that good side of being self-aware, but literally crippling, and I mean crippling levels of self-awareness of every little miniscule detail. When I interact with someone I over analyze that interaction to the smallest possible detail afterwards, small talk is almost impossible to me because of it. I am aware of the speed I am talking, the posture I am holding, the tone I am expressing, the eye contact I am holding, the body language I am expressing, my brain is literally working on overdrive 110% every single time and as soon as I do something "wrong" in any of these things I feel like I did something terribly wrong. Every single second feels like an hour and I am constantly in fight or flight mode. And later I deconstruct that same interaction for weeks and months to no end.
Every social interaction is like Q&A conversation in a RPG game, but instead of 3 possible questions/answers and endless time to pick the correct response there's like 3 million possible questions/answers to choose from and a deadly awkwardness timer going on, where if you don't quickly pick a response in milliseconds and not picking the right response results in me dying right there on the spot.

I want to erase that, to just be able not to think about any of that and not act manually. To be able to just talk about the weather or something dumb like that without thinking much about it.