Girlfriend and CHILD vs BULL RUN MONEY

[Anonymous No.53169944]

My girlfriend just broke up with me yesterday because I told her I am not ready to have children until a few years.

I made a few million off crypto but it's not enough to live carefree for the rest of my life.

She is 39 so I feel she has baby rabies. We have been dating for a year and she moved in with me a month ago and then she started making all these plans about getting dogs and trying for kids during the next few months.

I told her to chill out on the kids stuff for a bit because it would be too much for me. I am taking care of my mom, sister. If we went her way I'd be taking care of her, dogs, children. I told her we could keep living together and have her eggs frozen so we can try in a few years when I have more money to support us.

She flipped out, said this relationship was unsustainable and that I thought I was too good for her and then started comparing me to her exes who also thought they were too good for her but actually weren't. I said that it felt like she was trying to trap me with a baby and she said "lmao why would i or any woman try to trap you? you act like a celebrity or royalty lmao." I told her I AM royalty and if she doesn't think the man of her future children is one then she shouldn't be with me. She said she didn't even want my kids anyway and then said she was leaving me.

I packed up her things and sent them to her house. Then I changed my number.

Am I making the right choice? I am 36 and she is the person I loved the most in my whole life. But I feel that she is trying to make me her workhorse. The thing is, if I have the baby with her (which after the last interaction I really don't want to do), it might break my life, her life, my sister's life, my mom's life, my future baby's life because a few million is not enough.

I heard Kevin O'Leary on the podcast say that when you have a decision like that, choose the thing that you cannot replace. I'll never be able to replace 10x'ing the amount I save for the next bullrun.

Thoughts?

[Anonymous No.53169950]

>>53169944
you are in the right, rushing babies is bad

[Anonymous No.53169955]

You are a good man, get a younger wife my friend.

[Anonymous No.53169964]

>>53169944
>36 and you fell in love
I’m 26 and feel I’ve lost my ability to love years ago. I don’t really form crushes anymore or think of women beyond sex at all. Is something wrong with me or is that normal with age? It could just be depression and emotional numbness.

[Anonymous No.53169965]

Why are you with a 39 year old hag as a 36 year old millionaire lol

[Anonymous No.53169969]

>>53169944
weird larp, and weird bait desu

[Anonymous No.53169974]

>>53169964
Porn, lot's of it.

[Anonymous No.53169976]

>>53169965
Because she's Asian and looks 15 years younger.
Because she's intelligent.
Because she's hot and sexy (slim Vietnamese).
Because she is submissive.
Because she's great at sex.
Because she's a nerd like me and she loves to read books and chat philosophy on Discord.
Because I felt like I was dating my best friend.

[Anonymous No.53170012]

>>53169944
You dodged a bullet like Neo in the matrix dude.

Baby rabies is exactly the right word for it. Her biological clock was ticking and she threw a tantrum when you told her to chill.

To her it's existential (times up, no family, etc) so you can understand her reaction. But that doesn't mean it's your responsibility. She would actually resent you after she's finished using you for your resources.

Just be grateful this happened before she got pregnant.

There are a lot of nice women out there that are not so close to the end of their reproductive years. Good hunting.

[Anonymous No.53170015]

>>53169944
replace her with a moldable zoomer, they're dtf and won't want to have babies anytime soon
just having your own place and cooking food is like having magical powers to them
t. 41 dating a 20 yo 9/10 PAWG

[Anonymous No.53170027]

Bitch is 39, she needs sperm in her pussy NOW if she wants a baby

She is right to break up with you if you don’t want to give it to her, women go bad and need to get inseminated quick at that age before it’s too late

[Anonymous No.53170031]

>>53169976
Knock her up you absolute retard.
>I’ll just wait another few years so I’m 62 when my son graduates
Women aren’t for just hanging out and having fun with. Reproduction = satisfaction in life

[Anonymous No.53170037]

>>53170012
/threaddo

[Anonymous No.53170045]

>>53170027
>>53170031
Well I get all that but like...

The way she did a 180 after I told her I *MIGHT* want to wait a few years and we should freeze her eggs and I'll pay for it makes me think that she was just throwing all her love at me to get me locked down.

She didn't even try to understand my situation. She didn't even try to see how hard it would be on me. She just flipped out and started insulting me.

Doesn't seem like she loves me for me. Seems like she loves me for my use to her as a provider of the decent sperm she could find at her age.

[Anonymous No.53170052]

39 is already kinda past birthing age desu

[Anonymous No.53170059]

>>53169976
hmm, tough order card to fill. will take some time but not impossible.
a man isn't a real man until he has kids. ask yourself what you really fear. what values do you have that make you place money above kids.
I had my kid during the great financial crisis. It was scary as fuck as I got wiped out in property and had like $50K to my name.
I think you might want to look at your value set - just to make sure you are good with it and the decisions you made based on those values.
your call.
39 years old - she is going to need to get sperm in her within in the next 6-9 months because she is already in the danger zone. You can trade her in on a newer model, no doubt about that.

[Anonymous No.53170062]

>>53170052
That's getting into prime autism territory.

[Anonymous No.53170079]

what's your income. ihave to hoard my pile too

[Anonymous No.53170086]

>>53170062
yeah i forgot about that risk.

[Anonymous No.53170094]

>>53169976
oh god a retarded cook lover. she isnt hot and sexy anon she is a stick board body. she's almost 40 and past her prime and you're wsating it on her. LOL at having millions and not fucking 20-25yr old hotties. the mindset is that of a beta boy. let me let you in on a secret anon. I made 6mil during the pupper token era last year. Now I spend my days talking to 20-25yr old females on instagram and twitter and various sites like seeking and I have a harem in rotation. The thought of me at 40+yrs old settling for a used up old bag of bones who's has her pussy dusted off 40+ times in her life with men and you think im gonna be ok with that? holy shit fix your mindset. your a king yet you date pathetic bar wenches stickboard old hags? jesus fuck fix your broken beta mindset. pic related one of the thots I had briefly in rotation becuase im not thinking like a dusty old man dating out of date expired females

[Anonymous No.53170117]

>>53169944
Having babies with someone after only a year of dating definitely seems way too soon.

I'd be a bit careful about the dream of 10xing your holdings, because that's a slippery slope that might want you always wanting more. You should never choose money over love, since money will ultimately never make you fulfilled.

[Anonymous No.53170118]

>>53170094
Okay there, Andrew Tate. Why are you even posting pictures of that fatty? Her body is a 6 at most.

I've been to those sites. I have been using them since 2018. I have never met anyone as smart as her. She fucks better than any 20 year old I've met.

Believe it or not, women who have the (Asian) genes and take care of themselves can look good way past 30. And they can provide better companionship also.

[Anonymous No.53170159]

>>53169964
im 35 and same. married to a 37 and will divorce her soon because she decided no kids, which destroys the purposeof marriage.

what caused my jadedness however is my 20s. so much sacrifice, so much pain, so much work. fuck love they are all whores in the end. only reason is to make children (read: sons)

[Anonymous No.53170212]

>>53170118
>better companionship
ya until she found out you werent willing to support herclittle family vision
>she fucks better than blah blah blah
If you rely on the woman to make sex good then you as a man are terrible at fucking

[Anonymous No.53170229]

>>53170118
aww you have to call her a fatty to cope with you having only access to old dusty pussy. LOL yeah sure you "been to seeking and other sites for years" IF TRUE YOU WOULDNT HAVE TO SETTLE FOR OLD DUSTY PUSSY LIAR! MAKE YOUR LIES MAKE SENSE LIAR!

youre buttmad at me so you pretend this chick is unattractive I posted to lash out at the fact you can only get dusty used up dry pussy. stay salty faggot cuz unlike you I dont have to settle for ancient granny gook pussy that you cant even lock down properly cuz you arent a man with a mans mindset. you're a lil beta bitch who looks the ground when he wants and mumbles when females are yelling at you. just fuck off with your fake alpha attitude you dusty pussy MF. Next you'll claim this girl off seeking is fat and unattractive.

calling me andrew tate because I get young pussy and have money and am happy with life. Thanks appreciate you recognize a real man in front of you and acknowledge it properly. I know you were clowning but nah im legit a man like andrew tate and other men that fuck multiple females and dont settle for dusty old used up pussy and dont make excuses in life while talking and thinking like a beta. you look at the ground when you walk I stare people in the eyes when I walk by. you and I are not the same. you're a boy pretending to be a man and im a man laughing at the boy in front of me pretending he's on my level to lecture me.

[Anonymous No.53170232]

>>53170212
>ya until she found out you werent willing to support herclittle family vision
Ya and I didn't protest her leaving. What's the problem? I found out that's what she was after all along.

[Anonymous No.53170234]

>>53170045
maybe try her perspective bro, you are signalling a serious lack of commitment by prioritizing your parents over your future kids
you have plenty money

you may have fucked it up tho

[Anonymous No.53170240]

>>53170234
Yeah no shit because it's not my fault she didn't freeze her eggs sooner. Why should I suffer for her decisions and get rushed instead? Why should I become the working horse for her vision of family without even being consulted about it?

[Anonymous No.53170249]

>>53169976
Surely you're Asian too, right? She didn't want to create more interracial retarded jewed rootless idiots right?

[Anonymous No.53170253]

>>53170229
I don't think you have 6mm desu. If you do you'll lose it soon because you sound like a retard.

>durr hurr young pussy best pussy

It's not that simple. Stop pigeonholing everything into some narrow redpill mindset.

>Next you'll claim this girl off seeking is fat and unattractive.
This one's better. Maybe a 7. My ex is a 9 though.

[Anonymous No.53170270]

>>53170240
That's kinda what a relationship is always aspiring towards retard, making babies is the reason relationships even exist at all. Do you want to be one of those guys who is 60 years old with a toddler? People mistaking you for grandpa constantly? If you havr millions of dollars then you are better off financially than 99.9999% of
the parents who have ever existed

[Anonymous No.53170289]

>>53170270
I know that but one year is not enough time for me to stop popping out babies because I want to be sure about the person. I like to feel safe because my mother and my sister rely on me too. I need more money to have kids. I am afraid it will be too much and I will just drain my crypto winnings and then I'll be some loser who she will leave. She is trying to change my life in a way that I do not want and makes me think she cares about her goals more than she cares about mine.

[Anonymous No.53170297]

>>53170253
I never said young pussy best pussy you dumb subhumanoid. And I was very careful to reinvest my money into various things including land. I doubt i'll lose my money anytime soon. Nor am I forcing some redpill bullshit. You're just being a butthurt defensive bitch becuase instead of being praised in this thread you're being told you're not a man for settling for dusty old pussy and you dont like that so you're lashing out and shitting all over the floor over other guys similar to you in age being more successful AND fucking young hot pussy while you have to settle for a 40yr old 4/10 (shes not hot nor is she 9/10 at 40 sorry not sorry you cope so hard) Maybe if you actually got on seeking and Instagram and put yourself out there (for real not pretending like earlier) you'd get similar results and would have a harem in rotation. But instead you cry about being dumped by dusty old pussy from some ancient elder gook female you pretend is a 9/10 to cope with the fact you cant pull anything younger and hotter than a 4/10 dusty. I await your cope and seethe retort where you make lash out and seethe and once again pretend you're doing better. Again 40yr old dusty 4/10 pussy anon. with millions?? ooof this beta lost the game

[Anonymous No.53170308]

>>53170015

This. I do it just to make the roasties seethe.

[Anonymous No.53170310]

>>53169944
>She is 39
>She flipped out,
shes almost out of eggs. The ones she has left are probably low quality too (higher chance of birth defects)
Men can wait endlessly to have a child, women cant.

> I am 36 and she is the person I loved the most in my whole life
if you really loved her, picking her over money would be an automatic easy decision.
I dont think you really love her. And if thats true, then you definitely SHOULDNT have a child with her.

>I made a few million off crypto
you sound like you already have enough.
> I'll never be able to replace 10x'ing the amount I save for the next bullrun.
Dumb. Theres endless opportunity in this world.
Love & Family is far more value than money. BUT only start a family with someone you actually love (more than money).

>She said she didn't even want my kids anyway and then said she was leaving me.
Sounds like she wasnt the one OP
Forget her.

[Anonymous No.53170314]

>>53169964
>I’m 26 and feel I’ve lost my ability to love years ago. I don’t really form crushes anymore or think of women beyond sex at all.
Let me guess you spent years whoring around?
That will wipe out any ability to bond.

[Anonymous No.53170318]

>>53170297
Look you can repeat DUSTY OLD PUSSY as much as you want if it makes you feel better.

I have banged countless escorts, sugar babies, etc. It's not fulfilling.

There is no better feeling than having a woman who you have an amazing connection with who is your best friend. I can accept a 7/10 in looks for that. It's much more fulfilling to have one main woman that you form a deep bond with and do everything with.

[Anonymous No.53170322]

>>53170297
Based. Op toastes

[Anonymous No.53170330]

>>53170310
>if you really loved her, picking her over money would be an automatic easy decision.
It's not only money. It's also my self-development, ability to travel, learn new things etc. When I have kids my life will be put on hold. And the amount I have now is not enough in case the next bull run doesn't come.

[Anonymous No.53170351]

focus on yourself and if you still want kids, get a younger girl (maybe mid 20s to early 30s). but also don't be like that degenerate clown who posts his bimbos itt. having a (((harem))) and needing to brag about it is faggy behaviour.

[Anonymous No.53170361]

>>53170351
He sounds like a jealous LARP who didn't make any money this bullrun so he's trying to get under my skin by calling my ex OLD and DUSTY. It's just too over-the-top to be real. "I invested in land bro so there I really did make 6 million"

Okay bro.

[Anonymous No.53170369]

>tfw not sure if the bait threads are getting better or if the board is getting dumber
it's obvious to me but apparently every faggot itt is buying it

[Anonymous No.53170372]

>>53170369
Why do you think it's bait thread?

[Anonymous No.53170374]

>>53169944
>a few million is not enough
When does this bullshit end? At what point do whites finally admit they are just using "can't afford it" as an excuse just to not want the responsibility of raising another life? If an immigrant working a minimum wage job can raise 6 kids, then you certainly can on "just" a few million. Fuck off with that bullshit and just admit you don't want a family. Just sit in your room with your funko pops and count your monies.

[Anonymous No.53170377]

>>53170318
LOL Nah man in 2023+ females are not dating or wife material. Especially if you factor in children and divorces (initiated majority be females) and child custody cases (almost 95% won by females) and add in that females dont want to work with a man and be a team and a pretend "loving relationship" isnt going to work. And the fact you had to point out dusty pussy shows how much it bothers you. spare me your made up larp about how you fucked escorts and sugar babies and all that and how its not fulfilling when you're sorry ass in the end of it all ends up with a dusty pussy ancient elder when you could easily get a 25-35yr old or better. But muh family muh legacy muh relationship muh it has to mean something. sad sad beta mindset. I MUST HAVE A FEMALE TO BE COMPLETE! YOU ARE NOT A MAN IF YOU DONT HAVE A WAHMEN TO COME HOME 2! you're one of those old pathetic blue pill dweebs. with all the evidence against dating and relationships and especially marriage you're another dumb retard sucking down blue pills and clinging to an era of dating/marriage killed by feminism and modern female mindset. I will keep my glorious harem in rotation while I buy land and invest in various things and you will be sad and pathetic and blue pilled and chasing relationships at 40+yrs old thinking you'll find a female worth a damn at that age. dusty ancient elder pussy is NOT a long term relationship. But sure gimme the hilariously lame and blue pill beta retort of there is no better feel than muh female to come home to. god damn I wish I could slap beta bux like you thru a monitor.

[Anonymous No.53170385]

>>53170374
whites? ahh listen there troll you're gonna have to stop making it about race when other races dont evern have an active father community like the black community. just admit you saw a chance to come in and shit out your white racism and you took it. cuz its not just a white thing where this happens you sad pathetic troll.

[Anonymous No.53170393]

>>53170361
i mean she is kinda old for child bearing reason. but love is love. no need to feel ashamed about this. don't let that boy who bangs insta slag get under your skin. like i would legit let my ancestor strangle me to death if i inpregnated on of the chicks itts

[Anonymous No.53170399]

>>53170045
>throwing all her love at me to get me locked down.
Yeah that's what they do.

>Doesn't seem like she loves me for me. Seems like she loves me for my use to her as a provider
How are you 36 and still believing in "true love"? KWAR.

[Anonymous No.53170400]

>>53170372
come on mate. i'm the same age as your larp. i figure you as a twentysomething fooling other twentysomethings with this. nobody my age would fall for this unless they were browns or retarded

[Anonymous No.53170403]

>>53169944
Thought: you should never have children

[Anonymous No.53170408]

>>53170400
Fall for what?

[Anonymous No.53170416]

>>53169944
>She flipped out, said this relationship was unsustainable

Kys nigger loving cuck no women in the history of time has said that last word

[Anonymous No.53170417]

>>53170377
This reads as if someone read all the redpill manosphere theory and then recited it in one bad take.

Post proof of funds.

[Anonymous No.53170420]

>>53170408
your obvious made up trolling because no 40yr old is this clueless bout females unless you lost your virginity in the last few years. but do continue to spit blue pill beta crap in the thread. im enjoying your attempts to tell men to simp for used up whores its amusing.

[Anonymous No.53170424]

>be OP
>have the great idea of marrying a middle aged vietnamese woman
>complain

[Anonymous No.53170429]

>>53170417
aww poor beta doesnt like reality and since you only lost your virginity in the last few years you're still with that blue pill beta dating mindset. muh redpill muh cope muh I wont accept it cuz it doesnt fit muh wahmen to come home narrative. lol jesus dude

[Anonymous No.53170433]

>>53170094
>I made $6m gambling on dog money so I have it all figured out

[Anonymous No.53170443]

>>53169944
>Ox ID
I was with her for ten years and I was ready to spend the rest of my life with her. The 250k I had at the time just didn't seem like enough and I didn't cash out. It all slipped through my fingers and I didn't use any of it.
Fast forward one year after the crash and she ghosts me. No calls no texts no nothing. I went to her home and she said she was breaking up with me. She understood that I didn't have anything planned for our future. She said she didn't expect me to buy her things and do fun stuff. She just needs a future with children, home, car lol! I argue that's pretty fucking materialistic.
Now I'm stuck thinking if I asked for this. I could've cashed out the 250k and not have told her and the same thing would've happened! BUT if I would've spent some of it on us then maybe she would've stayed? I really needed her to stay with me so I prefer the latter but how genuine is that really? Would she have just stayed for the money? I'm blaming myself for not taking care of my woman. She was being challenged and pressured during that time until she finally broke down and gave up on me.
I feel like as a man, I failed my woman. We were childhood sweethearts and took each other's virginities. But when bills and time came looking for us, love just wasn't enough. Fuck all the red pill shit, take care of the woman of your dreams. I was too proud to recognize that I was being naive to her hardships.

[Anonymous No.53170447]

>>53170420
How am I telling men to simp up for used whores? I just said that I will take a 7/10 in her 30s with a great feminine personality over a 9/10 20 dumb 20 year old without one.

>>53170429
I've banged more escorts/sugarbabies than you, friend. It doesn't make me happy to have 3-4 girls on the go. I like having a girlfriend that I reward with my time, knowledge, money way better.

[Anonymous No.53170458]

>>53170433
I do have it figured out. I own a ton of land mostly all undeveloped, I have a massive amount of dividends im invested into which bring in passive income constantly, I day trade with a decent amount (im only ok at this), and I still have tons in crypto and moved into stables and various investments I think will do good over the next few years. So financially and with land im set. Add in I have a nice harem I have in rotation to keep things interesting and not boring. I also own land on an island in a nearby lake and use that for storage of various goods and supplies I dont want to keep at my place and will use later. I get to travel the world and I dont even work anymore at this point. And I can sit here at 5am talking shit to idiot betas in threads on /biz/ before I offically start my day buying/selling shitcoins and hanging out with whoever stops in today. Be it harem or a couple of local friends. So im fairly sure all things consider I do have it figured out as well as I can.

[Anonymous No.53170460]

>>53170330
>It's also my self-development, ability to travel, learn new things etc. When I have kids my life will be put on hold.
True it would fuck up the travel. But traveling alone is empty af. You could do some EPIC family holidays when you kid/s are older. If you want to travel just to fuck random sluts, then you should be single anyway.
I cant see why the self development stuff cant happen as a father.

That she up and split so easy is maybe a warning. She might just want half your money and child support. Be careful.

>>53170094
Id have to agree. I wouldnt waste a second on a woman past 30 (unless id married her a decade before and she was now my 30yo wife)

An 18 to 21yo woman who fills you with energy and excitement and makes you rock hard every time. That you can guide and experience the world with. Thats someone worth pursuing.

[Anonymous No.53170465]

hey mr harem guy, doesnt that shit get old? when I was in college i got loads of pussy and had basically a harem and i got so fucking bored of it. I remember turning 8+/10 chicks down who were trying to hook up at parties and my less successful friends jaws dropping that I was actually not gonna fuck the big tit whore who was just making out with me and wanted me to take her to my room. But i was just so over it I didnt really care a lot of the time cus pussy was plentiful and I'd rather have fun / do other shit. I have a gf now mostly as a sexual release cus putting in the effort to fuck random girls is annoying. Also she cooks and cleans. I gotta say having a bitch do your laundry and dishes and cooking you dinner before she sucks you off is actually nicer than having 7 20 year olds willing to eat your ass

[Anonymous No.53170469]

>>53169944
checked and test if banned

[Anonymous No.53170470]

>>53170447
I had an ex in her 30s when I was 25. She was one of the few females I still think back on. She was awesome and ended up marrying a really great guy and getting the kids and life she wanted.

I will eventually tire of this life but for now its fun and than i'll go the single bachelor life.

[Anonymous No.53170471]

>>53170465
He's a LARP pretending that Dan Bilzerian lifestyle is desirable and makes a man truly happy.

[Anonymous No.53170472]

>>53169944
>36 year old millionaire scared of having kids because the economy or something
>meanwhile ghetto dwellers on welfare having multiple kids before they hit twenty
Every fucking time.
Why don’t you just get your tubes tied already so you don’t have to worry about getting pregnant faggot?

[Anonymous No.53170486]

>>53170472
>just breed and be like mindless ghetto dwellers, bro
I have the opportunity to give my kids and myself and everyone around me a good life. I don't want to fuck it up by start having kids that will shackle me for 18 years. I want high quality kids. The safer I am financially the more high quality kids they will be. I'd have kids with her in an instant because if it didn't work out with her I'd be able to send them to a good school, tutor them, etc. I'd do what Elon Musk does and just impregnate women and then pay to make them into high quality humans.

But I can't afford to do that right now.

[Anonymous No.53170490]

>>53169944
This sounds made up / a bot post.

[Anonymous No.53170516]

>>53169969
It's probably bait but desu I know a situation like this IRL. There is a generation of women who doesn't know that 39 is too old to have kids. Society has failed them. OP is obviously completely retarded but that's beside the point.

[Anonymous No.53170524]

>>53169976
>Because she is submissive.
but orders you to make a baby then insults you when you refuse and leaves?

[Anonymous No.53170530]

>>53170471
lol whatever cope you need to get thru the thread beta boy

>>53170465
I have enough of a variety with the females in rotation it doesnt get boring. And its not just sex. Sometimes I fly out to a different state with one of the girls and we spend 3-5 days exploring some city or locations. Sex is a side thing to that. Im not trying to live like Dan Bilzerian. I live my life the female comes along and we have experiences doing whatever I do that day. I just flew back from visiting traverse city michigan and took Ashley with me and we spent the time seeing the town and hitting up resturaunts and exploring the area in a rented car. And the girl before that came over for a few days and she spent it playing minecraft on her laptop most of the time while I did whatever. So for me the rotation and constant changing keeps it fresh and I dont get bored. Nor do I really get tied to any one of them

[Anonymous No.53170540]

Nigga, she's 39, y'all ain't having babies anyway lol.

[Anonymous No.53170546]

>>53170524
That's her choice.

[Anonymous No.53170552]

>>53169944
Fuck dude she is 39 of course she can't wait a 'few more more years'

[Anonymous No.53170560]

All I want is a son that I can raise and bring to greatness and pass my companies down too. I will get one, and he will lead and do great things.

[Anonymous No.53170579]

>>53170045
well what would you do if you were a woman running a nearly empty carton of eggs that are already a couple days past expiration? shes just coming to the realization that shes out of time and all the jewish lies about putting children off because being a career bitch is more important are finally getting exposed as fake to her

freezing eggs is also not some guarantee, its actually pretty low % and every year they are frozen they lose viability. also its painful as fuck and like an involved medical procedure that isnt even guaranteed to succeed, do know how they take them out? i know a woman about her age who tried twice but they couldnt extract one in good enough condition, they failed th first time to even get anything at all. the ovaries are pretty much empty at that age, its like fishing around a fishbowl trying to suck out a bb with a straw only you cant see the bb

[Anonymous No.53170582]

>>53170015
unbelievably based

[Anonymous No.53170629]

>>53170015
Absolutely Based and well done.

[Anonymous No.53170630]

>>53169944
Settling down for a 40yo rag? Are you nuts?

Dating age for you is 22-27.

[Anonymous No.53170651]

>>53170458
honestly it sounds like you are living the dream. i wish i had that. im kind of depressed im almost 40 and running out of time, i had bad luck and sold some coins like ETH too early before they mooned. needed to pay for other stuff in life and i got nervous about crypto crashing. then the fucking 2021 bull run happened and i totally missed it. not sure how i even cope. i keep wagecucking and tryign to come up with business ideas to break the cycle, tahts literally all i want to do is stop waging for greedy jews. make a nice little cabin on some rural land and have enough totake care of my financially retarded mother. dont waste what you got, you literally are living the dream, being able to spend time how you want and hang out with friends and people you like. id give anything for that, dont take it for granted. enjoy it man

[Anonymous No.53170666]

>>53170443
Fag just knock her up instead of blogging on a east-chinese kite flying forum... that's alm it takes, just get her preggo

[Anonymous No.53170667]

>>53169955
Digits of truth
19-24 is your shopping rang

[Anonymous No.53170720]

>>53170486
Westerners way overvalue both the cost and money needed to raise a good kid. All of that aside it's way better to have parents that aren't over the hill and parents that actually survive long enough to b a grandparent than it is to grow up rich. People nowadays are putting their life on hold forever until they realize it's too tucking late. Even though you aren't a women you're reaching the stage of too tucking late. I pity the kid who has a 60 year old dad when they're 10. It's not very fun to be raised by a dad that should be a grandpa and a dad that will be dead by the time you have kids. Stop worshipping money. Kids don't prevent you from making money but making money is preventing you from having kids. Honestly your posts are so self-centered and retarded I don't even know why I am bothering typing this shit out
Honestly the world will probably be a better place without you reproducing, so ignore everything I said and continue on just keep making money

[Anonymous No.53170733]

>>53170720
the average westerner cant even afford to buy their own home retard. how the fuck can they think of children?

[Anonymous No.53170766]

>>53170733
Literally the poorer the person (or country) the more children they have. It costs next to nothing to raise a child. I have no idea why Westerners are absolutely obsessed with some weird consumerist idea that they need to spoil (and fuck up) their kids by spending half a million raising them when they'd turn out better with less and a stronger work ethic to boot

[Anonymous No.53170781]

>>53170666
Those digits. Why do you try so hard to copy my DNA, Satan?

[Anonymous No.53170840]

>>53170766
it costs nothing to raise a child, in poor 3rd world shitholes. the cost of living in 1st world countries is not comparable, your analogy makes no sense. what shithole are you in? tell me your average price of a gallon of milk and lets compare

[Anonymous No.53170847]

>>53169976
Are you white? Either way, royalty don't go for subhumans or anyone with exes.

[Anonymous No.53170866]

>>53170720
It's because if you're a white Westerner the government expects you to pay for your own kids as well as subsidizing all the kids dumb poor minorities with your attitude are having. If we got the same gibs they did we'd have more kids too, likewise they'd stop having kids or starve to death in a gutter if the government treated them the way it treats us.

[Anonymous No.53170917]

>>53170866
Yes. So maybe stop cucking your genetics by havingzero - two kids max like most high IQ whites/ Asians do and actually reproduce for once.

[Anonymous No.53170975]

>>53169944
You don't deserve her.

She obviously loves you. Look at all the contradictions. That is when a woman doesn't know what to do.

You are a man. Guidance and stability is your job.
So be a man and make your woman happy. Go find her, tell her how much you love her and apologise.
You'll never find one like that again. So stop obsessing over a 10x and do your damn job, retard.

[Anonymous No.53170976]

>>53169944
I don't know about you anon but even in a heated argument I would never say anything like "I don't even want your kids" or try belittiling someone when they currently are caring for close family members.
It sounds like she may not truly love you but that's an outside opinion without any knowledge on the granularity of your actual relationship.
One thing I'd note is she is 39 and it's no surprise she wants children past 35 her eggs are rapidly depleting and the child is slowly statistically becoming more retarded.
You unfortunately have a short amount of time to make a decision but I believe you can conjure up an answer.
Like you said yourself you can always replace her but most likely not replace the wealth so you're in an awkward situation.
I believe in you though just meditate in the shower for a few hours or go on a long drive in nature.
Hope you find peace - Peace Anon xoxox

[Anonymous No.53171012]

>>53169944
she sounds like an insane cunt
if you have any reservations about having kids with her then you made the right choice. 39 is too old for a woman to be having kids anyway honestly

[Anonymous No.53171270]

>>53169976
>asian
Stopped reading there

[Anonymous No.53171475]

>>53169944
> I am 36 and she is the person I loved the most in my whole life.
You just met her a year ago you fag cuck. Atleast you werre man enough to toss her out. Did you tell her about your crypto investments? She only wanted your money anyway. Get a 14-16 yo and marry her when you are financially ready. Fuck women! Alwys treat them like shit, because they are shit.

[Anonymous No.53171508]

>She is 39

[Anonymous No.53171586]

>>53169944
1.
having kids with a 39 year old woman is retarded
2.
taking advice from kevin o leary (unless it's advice on how to murder people with a boat and have your wife take the fall) is also retarded
3.
do not have kids until you are ready; don't make kids suffer from your mistakes
4.
women do not care about you
5.
stop being retarded

[Anonymous No.53171655]

>>53169944
That's her job retard.
She's a woman.
You won't find one different unless she is a rabididly stupid liberal.

[Anonymous No.53171668]

>>53170667
Incels.
Kek
Only incels dream of having zoomer wives with which they have absolutely nothing in common with.
39 is much to old, but if he's 36, 30 should be the cutoff or it's just scott adams sad.

[Anonymous No.53171683]

>>53170733
Kids are very cheap. You've absorbes globohomo propaganda.
They can literally survive on the woman's tit alone for 3 years.

[Anonymous No.53171691]

>>53169944
>Am I making the right choice? ... I feel that she is trying to make me her workhorse.

Yes, you made the right choice.
You are very lucky this happened before she got pregnant.

[Anonymous No.53171695]

>>53169944
>made a few million
>cant live carefree
Why are americans so fucked

[Anonymous No.53171697]

>>53169944
where do you live? a few million is enough to allow her to take time off work, have a baby, and possibly pay someone to help take care of the house and family
on the other hand
>maybe someday at age 39
try again with a girl closer to 30, theres no way babies would come out right from a 40yo
on the topic of being ready, youre 36 with millions, you should be ready, you just dont want to be. I'm 24 with less than 50k net worth and I'm preparing myself for babies with my gf (22) next year

[Anonymous No.53171716]

>>53169944
You’re retarded and I’m glad she broke up with you. “A few million” is enough to live a comfy life with security from disaster, you just might have to move to another state if you’re a coasty fag. Enjoy being lowly you dumb, greedy faggot

[Anonymous No.53171721]

>>53169944
If she is freaking out and trying to rush kids just for the sake of having kids I would have completely cut off contact all together but that's just me

[Anonymous No.53171734]

>>53169964
Women won’t love you if you love them.

[Anonymous No.53171737]

>>53170015
Post her ass

[Anonymous No.53171791]

>>53170229
You sound like a fag

[Anonymous No.53171801]

>>53169944
Yes
You'll find another, better and younger.

[Anonymous No.53171877]

Get a stealth vasectomy and just creampie her sweet asian pussy every day, fag.

[Anonymous No.53171934]

>>53170377
Have a look fellow young anons, this is the kind of "man" you never want to become, ever. Also dont take relationship advice from fucking 4chan of all places, you only attract ridiculous ego driven zoomer incels throwing around childish buzzwords and cant give constructive adult advice without writing a hate letter mirroring their own misery and dark persona. There are obviously PLENTY of amazing women out there which is marriage material and more if you just know where and how to look, but its way easier to give after to hate, seeth and not doing the necessary self improvement to get out of your own little mental hell you have created. This is what Yuri warned us about, this is their goal, peak male demoralisation. Throwing away all healthy conservative family values and real goals only to bend the knee to pleasure, false self gratification and psychopathic social manners that only leads to closer to complete dissociation of the real world.

[Anonymous No.53172049]

>>53169944
Not gonna lie senpai, you're in the wrong. From everything you've written in this thread it sounds like you're being an absolute pussy unable to move on to the next phase of your life. Also why is your mom and your sister your burden? At your age you should be building your own wealth and your own family not covering for them.
How have you not been more aligned about kids until now, do you guys not communicate these things at all? At 36/39 years old I feel like kids should be the number one thing to be aligned on early in your relationship?

Also you made a few million and are worried that's not enough? This has to fucking be satire.

Anyway if you want to play Peter Pan some more listen to the other anons and get a much younger gf but yeah just consider do you really want to be in your 60s or even 70s when your kid is in college? You could die before they get married and have their own kids etc. Obviously if that shit is completely unimportant then do whatever. Normally the roastie defense position is untenable but in this case you really do sound like a child.

[Anonymous No.53172149]

>>53169944
>She is 39
>she started making all these plans about getting dogs and trying for kids during the next few months.
Kek, don't bother getting a gf that age if you're not planning to have kids. They're pretty much all gonna be like this. You're just wasting both of your times. Especially since it sounds like you're planning on having kids later down the road which may not be an option with a woman that age (and even if it were it's debatable whether you should even consider it).

[Anonymous No.53172151]

>>53169944
>I am 36 and she is the person I loved the most in my whole life. But I feel that she is trying to make me her workhorse.
I usually NEVER side with 35+ women on ANYTHING, but you may want to reconsider as you actually love her. She's freaking out because she is now a "high risk" pregnancy, and may not even be able to sustain an embryo.

Do not put money ahead of children. Children will be your greatest joy in life.

As for being a "workhorse," you are absolutely correct, but its not like a 29 year old woman won't make you a "workhorse" as well. Good luck.

[Anonymous No.53172171]

>>53170385
>other races dont evern have an active father community like the black community
You might be surprised to find out just how common single motherhood is in other races, including whites. It's not an exclusively black problem though it does affect blacks disproportionately.

[Anonymous No.53172417]

What the fuck did you expect dating a 39yo.
Fertility and chance of a damaged child go steeply upwards from 33 to 35.
I think the le freedom meme is indeed just a meme, you're coping. If you really like her I'd probably make the baby, but again I wouldn't have gotten myself in that situation in the first place

[Anonymous No.53172434]

>>53169944
You handled it like a champ anon. Holy fuck, balls on you.

[Anonymous No.53172853]

>>53171697
Babies come out right from 40 year olds all the time.
Old sperm from fat retarded 40 something men is as often to blame or more often when problems happen.

[Anonymous No.53172863]

>>53171877
>Castrate yourself
Ywnbaw