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53029262 No.53029262 [Reply] [Original]

How to stop being a fucking loser, and be like you guys who have 6 figure jobs?

Background: Dropped out of high-school at 16 years old, have been on NEETbux ever since, I am now 35, I guess you could say I front-loaded my retirement.

>> No.53029276
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53029276

I'm going to be entirely frank with you anon, if you've done absolutely nothing with your life in those 19 years, you are truly, utterly, entirely fucked.

You've wasted the best years of your life and have nothing to show for it. Truly a bleak situation.

>> No.53029289

>>53029262
>Dropped out of high-school at 16 years old
If you're black you can always try to impregnate white wom*n and make her the breadwinner

If your wh*te, then i'd just kms

>> No.53029306

>>53029262
Unless you find a blue collar job. You are fucked anon. You have literally zero options. For that to work in the long term though you'd need to have a goal in mind.

>> No.53029308

>>53029276
I mean, ive done what i wanted to do. Sit at home doing nothing, going to the gym everyday, playing massively multiplayer vidya games, browsing the internet, studying history, art, science, space, technology, etc.

Its been a nice ~20 years, but I think im ready to move on and become a big boy and work now.

>> No.53029341

>>53029308
I doubt you'll have the patience to work everyday for 8 hours and any employer will see right through you because you will stand out like a sore thumb. You'll have to prove them wrong everyday which sounds exhausting. Anon you have to ask yourself why you're doing this in the first place. Maybe start with therapy.

>> No.53029343

>>53029341
Doing what?

>> No.53029361

>>53029343
You said you need to stop being a loser. So obviously you need a low skilled job to start with and even that is going to be difficult to get as you have zero experience.

>> No.53029374

>>53029308
sell your skills as a dedicated, computer literate, office worker and literally lie your ass off about dropping out. (Make up for the time lost with sheer determination and you'll get second looks from employer's because they hunt for winning attitudes).

fake it until make it, bitches love faking it.

>> No.53029382

>>53029374
Lol he's going to be awkward as fuck. It's like fucking an experienced girl for the first time. She'll see your rookie ass very easily.

>> No.53029387

>>53029308
kek, is this the male version of roasties wanting to settle down and have kids at age 45

>> No.53029429

>>53029382
>>53029387

and?

>>53029374
Im not good at faking or lying, never done that before, i am told by my family that I have no filter and I am very insensitive

>> No.53030048

>>53029262
>Dropped out of high-school at 16 years old
That’s what you get for bullying me I’m highschool. Now clean it up jannie.

>> No.53030069

>>53030048
I didnt bully anyone, I got bullied once or twice myself but nothing major, prob standard bullying nothing special. Why the assumption? Me leaving school had nothing to do with social relations, I just cbf'd

>> No.53030114

>>53030069
You watched good will hunting and thought you were as smart as he was didn't you anon. It seems like you already know the answer to your question but are just too lazy to take a step.

>> No.53030123

>>53030114
I dont watch random fictional movies or shows

>> No.53030134

>>53029262
>Dropped out of high-school at 16 years old, have been on NEETbux ever since, I am now 35,
You're fucked bro.

>> No.53030215

>>53029262
Honestly? You will probably need a 15 year plan or so.
>get GED while working
>get into community college, just go straight for a bachelors in compsci, anything else will waste your time, you will need to go into debt most likely.
>get job/build skils
you’re there

>> No.53030253

>>53030215
So ill be 50 by the time I start working?

lol might as well stay NEET

>> No.53030602

>>53029262
Just start your own business anon.
Look up things like SEO, SMM, Youtube blogging, Amazon affiliate etc.

>> No.53030694

Are you still getting neetbux? If so, then what’s the problem? As long as you have a place to live and food to eat, you’re literally retired. You probably feel this way because someone said something to you, probably a girl, most likely your mom

>> No.53030743

>Nofap
>Lift weights
>buy MATIC
>work hard and stay focused

It's easy anon. The external world follows the internal world.

>> No.53030760

>>53029262
take courses so you can get into stem

>> No.53030772

>>53029262
> and be like you guys who have 6 figure jobs?

Larp.

>> No.53030775

>>53029262
Honestly you're not cut out for normie white collar work. It's over, but it seems like you've survived for the past 19 years doing the bare minimum, why change?

>> No.53030776

>>53030694
Yeah actually im on autismbux now, since I was on neetbux for so long they checked up on me and realized I was autistic so i got a big payrise on teh neetbux

No my mum stopped nagging me to be a normie a decade ago

>> No.53030783

>>53030602
>Just start your own business anon.
I would second this. Having no job history and education for as long as you did will set off a ton of red flags. At large companies where they hire out background checks you'd just be filtered out immediately. Your best bet is to start something of your own. I would recommend selling stuff online to get some money saved, then starting an actual business that you can manage. Selling online will not only get you money but give you some experience in dealing with day to day business stuff like customers, taxes, etc.

>> No.53030811

>>53029387
>>53030134


not really because whereas a roastie hasn't a fucking chance at 45 years old of conceiving, if you're in your mid thirties you have realistically squandered about a quarter of your total productive working life assuming you're contending against college grads who largely squander their time their unless they're studying something useful

of course AI gets delivered next year that will functionally make people completely redundant within 10 years but everybody's in that boat

>> No.53030823

>>53030783
>Having no job history and education for as long as you did will set off a ton of red flags. At large companies where they hire out background checks you'd just be filtered out immediately.

I think this is why the gov put me on autismbux and stopped contacting me a few years ago. They used to be on my case all the time about getting a job but then I got assessed by psychologists and ever since then they stopped contacting me and doubled my neetbux

My last contact from the gov was pre-covid

>> No.53030860

>>53030776
26, was diagnosed autistic in HS. How do I join you on neetbux? Would be nice to spend all my time playing vidya and getting tax dollars that could be going to some geriatric retard's social security fund. I deserve it more than he does because I am younger.

>> No.53030901

>>53029262
Too late for any skilled work. You need to either do retail wagecucking/mcdonalds or something and see what kind of skills you have that you can leverage to start a small-scale but profitable business. In your situation I wouldn't even think of pursuing white-collar corpowagie work.

>> No.53030940

>>53029341
first off to op, This guys clearly a hand rubbing jew. Second off, if youve really been studying stuff you'll be fine. Thats a big if. But if you have, you need to find a network as soon as possible. A group of people who can get you in the door somewhere. This is the true value of uni, but in more updated industries like crypto, ai generated art, webdev/ compsci (but this is better to network in uni cause the saturation) its as simple as hitting up jeets in a telegram or discord, joining hackathons, etc. I personally say take a few classes at a university and talk to fucking everyone. Go to job fairs, do research for a professor, etc.

God speed and good luck. Also who the fuck is paying these demoralizing kikes

>> No.53030989

In a somewhat similar situation, a couple of years retail but not really anything to show for it.
Any thoughts on a mature age apprenticeship?
I'm 31 and I'd be making shit money for the next 4 years but it's not like in doing anything worthwhile now.
Would be welder/boilermaker.

>> No.53031005

>>53030253
Dude you’re fucking 35.
Your only hope is to get a job as a host, busser, or barback in a restaurant. Basically take any front of house job you can at a decent restaurant and just outwork everyone else.
The only reason anyone will give you a shot is because they hate the lack of work ethic with younger people and you’re not a cute girl so literally your only advantage is having open availability and out working everyone. If you aren’t willing to eat shit sandwiches to move up to being a waiter or bartender one day then don’t even start.
t. I run a restaurant and dropped out I’d high school when I was 16

>> No.53031630

I find it funny when someone like me asks about going to work after 20 years of being bitched to go work when i finally say ok people say "actually no thanks" haha


NEET FOR LIFE, WOOOOOOOOOOO

>> No.53031674

>>53031630
Have fun when your parents die lol
Hopefully they leave their ungrateful embarrassment out of their Will

>> No.53031738
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>>53031674
>Hopefully they leave their ungrateful embarrassment out of their Will

I have 5 Bitcoin, hopefully by the time that happens that bittis will be worth a big a mount

>> No.53031750

>>53031738
>he didn't sell when price was high
Have fun riding to zero
Central Banks WILL tame BTC

>> No.53031795

>>53029262
Best option would be to study for the A+ certification, get a Help Desk Tech job, and start grinding more certifications and try to move up as fast as possible. That's actually what I'm doing as I spent the last 10 years as a deadbeat alcoholic. I at least got a STEM degree in that time though.

>> No.53031848

>>53031750
I traded my way to 5 btc, so i was selling high, its just what i accumulated over shifting shitcoin to shticoin

>> No.53031849

>>53029262
Radiologist Tech. 2 years at community college. Fuck roastie tik tok nurses all day (must be attractive)

>> No.53031851

>>53029262
It's easily 5x harder to learn stuff at 35 than it is at 16. You're supposed to use 16-25 years to become an absolute expert in a some professional field and then coast the rest of your career on connections and practical knowledge.

You're basically fucked.

>> No.53031854

>>53029262
Don't listen to faggots like >>53029276
Dude it may be bleak but there's always hope and fortunes change. Nigger there are camwhores selling butthole pics and getting rich. Just think outside of the box and come up with a good idea and you're golden. I'm a late bloomer too but at least I'm not a retard who got indoctrinated in a college and wastes his life as a wagie. Btw I'm not poor either. Gl bro

>> No.53031869

>>53031851
this
But OP is delusional and only wants to hear how he can become an adult tomorrow without any effort

>> No.53031923

>>53031851
Yeah, so I guess I just stay NEET and keep accumulating Crypto with my neetbux, hey?

>> No.53031928
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>>53029308
Well it doesn't really work that way anon. Not going to be a doomer and say you have no hope, but Your teens to 20's are largely about developing the person you will be for the rest of your life becuase during that time your brain is still very elastic. Skills, patterns, and information sticks, and is incorporated a lot more readily during those years.
You can still learn things and make changes to your life as you get older but it's way harder and takes a much more deliberate effort and commitment, and if you've been training yourself to live an easy and greasy life for your formative years, it's really doubtable if you have the stomach, work ethic, or mind, to just shift into being not only a productive person but a highly valuable person. Not saying it can't be done, but it's super difficult and you need to account for that. And don't fetishize your past life as a neet, because going forward it's you vs the child you built yourself into.
I'd say your options are: learn a trade, try and find a do-nothing job where you can coast under the radar and collect cheques (though I think of those as the worst of the neet world combined with the worst of the work world), or try to find some self-starter angle like getting in early on the next crypto, but that's easy-come-easy-go type money and it takes its own kind of skill not to go bust on something like that.

>> No.53031980

>>53031928
OP isnt looking for real advice
He simply wants anons to confirm his bias'
See>>53031923
He still has the mind of a child being told 'no' by his parents

>> No.53032046

It seems like everyone has this idea that if you dont prove you're a good boi worker drone in your teens/early 20s that you'll never be one

If this is true, then thats actually kind of cool, NEET lifestyle is unironically based, its actually kind of nice that you guys wouldn't want me in the workforce after all this time lol, easy clap

>> No.53032067

>>53031928
Oh and I guess there is one other option where you go back to school and take something that you are passionate about. I say passionate about because at this sage in your life you will not be able to motivate yourself and focus enough to absorb anything that doesn't really excite you, so that would be your best bet for actually being able to take it all in. I don't mean taking a course like videogame design or an English lit major though, it should still be something practical and valuable. Taking those more "fun" programs is fine if you do it in your youth and have time to pivot if you can't get your foot in the door. You don't have that luxury.

Another note: if you go back to school make sure you find a program with small class sizes and go to a state with cheap schooling. You don't have time to pay down a massive debt and you want to make sure you can have something like a mentor relationship with your professors, otherwise school is a total scam unless you need it for some sort of accreditation.

>> No.53032085

If nothing has motivated you to do better in those 19 years then why would it change now?

What happened to make you create this thread?

>> No.53032092

>>53031980
Oh. That's depressing. I tend to like to believe people have the capacity to change. :(

>> No.53032102

>>53032085
>What happened to make you create this thread?
OP has nothing better to do
No friends, no girlfriend to fuck, and his parents resent him
What else can a loser do than farm (you)'s on an anonymous imageboard ?

>> No.53032125

>>53029308
>studying history, art, science, space
All of history is fake and space doesn't exist because the earth is flat. Most of everything you learned is a psyop.

>> No.53032135

>>53032125
Ok Destiny

>> No.53032140

>>53032046
For men, It's nice to have a sense of purpose and have value. If you spend your neet time as an autodidak (spelling) and doing volunteer stuff then that's fine, but let's be honest, no neet is actually doing that.

>> No.53032143

>>53032092
Don't pity him
Hopefully he gets drafted and sent to die in the ukraine

>> No.53032157

>>53032143
How would I get drafted in Australia to go fight in Ukraine?

>> No.53032171

>>53032157
Oh my bad, to fight China then to protect those computer chips

>> No.53032176

OP you sound me like so you must be a massive faggot. I hate to say this but there’s no hope for you if you didn’t capitalize on this past bull run. May as well enlist in the military and get a sign on bonus and hope you do well so you can get a six figure job that way.

>> No.53032188

>>53032176
Well I turned a less than 1 btc into 5 btc during the bull run by shifting around shitcoins, so I did capitalize on it in a way.

>> No.53032220

>>53029276
What other options does the guy have other than to "try"? I mean he's 35, if you think of average life expectancy he'll be on this Earth for another 40-50 years.

I'm not sure how much knowing he's fucked or not really changes anything. He just has to try to optimize his existence at this point like any other human

>> No.53032255

>>53032188
No you didn’t, that’s pathetic. You don’t even sound like you want to change your life so why are you even asking?

>> No.53032281

>>53029308
>How to stop being a fucking loser
Change your mindset, and learn to get the job you want (recommend IT).

In case you got weight issues, either gain or lose it & change financial habits.

Age doesn't matter, wisdom is what matters the most. Which you need to work on, compare you to you from yesterday.

This site is a mix of larpers and geniuses/tryhards thats why they have 6 figure jobs.

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>>53031849
Easily the best answer in this piece of shit thread filled with inept losers, honestly. OP, get into anything health BUT keep it simple please don't fucking think for a second you'll become a 8 fig heart doctor. Radiology, nurse stuff, stuff that can open the doors to the medicine field. IT if you know computers. Do not pursue education or anything related to the arts despite your knowledge and love for learning.

More importantly though realize it's never too late and all the niggers in here are mostly poor faggots that were forced to work when they were young adults. You've enjoyed life thus far and you want to hack your way into a good field, good. You can do that easily in two years tops. You'll be fine, nigga.

>> No.53032305

>>53032220
His other option is to live off neet bux until someone turns the tap off (the tap always eventually turns off) and then sell all your neet assets (home gaming station and devalued crypto) and resort to begging or selling drugs I suppose. Not like there are no instances of that.

>> No.53032318

>>53032287
I'm working from home making six figs and I'm 10yrs younger than OP with a hot gf younger than my sister
Not a LARP and no debt from school

>> No.53032358 [DELETED] 

>>53032287
Honestly after the last few years of seeing how retarded many medical professionals are it made me think if they can become doctors than why can't it?

Not even memeing.

There are things I thought would happen in the beginning of the pandemic, for example: The vaccines would be pointless because the virus would mutate quickly rendering vaccines useless, but also that the virus would drop in lethality as it spreads as the virus that people have where they dont even notice it, is the virus that will become the dominant virus as it can spread far more if it has little or no symptoms, where as the most lethal and higly symptomatic versions of the virus will die out faster as people wont be going around in public if they're very ill.

This has all come to fruition, but apparently me as a high-school drop out NEET knew better than millions of doctors.

Now that what I said has happened, everyone is pretending as if thats what they knew was going to happen.

>> No.53032369

>>53032287
Honestly after the last few years of seeing how retarded many medical professionals are it made me think if they can become doctors than why can't I?

Not even memeing. If majority of medical professionals lack these basic intuitions about virus life progression...

There are things I thought would happen in the beginning of the pandemic, for example: The vaccines would be pointless because the virus would mutate quickly rendering vaccines useless, but also that the virus would drop in lethality as it spreads as the virus that people have where they dont even notice it, is the virus that will become the dominant virus as it can spread far more if it has little or no symptoms, where as the most lethal and higly symptomatic versions of the virus will die out faster as people wont be going around in public if they're very ill.

This has all come to fruition, but apparently me as a high-school drop out NEET knew better than millions of doctors.

Now that what I said has happened, everyone is pretending as if thats what they knew was going to happen.

>> No.53032592

>>53029262
Ask a roofer company in your neighborhood if you could sell house insulations and new roofs for them for 10% of the whole sum. Then walk around in your city and ask if people want the services of the company you represent. If you have a good appearance and time you should be able to earn good money.

>> No.53032658

>>53032592
Im not going into/onto peoples roof, thats stupid.

When I mean work I mean actual like what high status normies do, ie: pretend to work....i didnt mean actual hands on work LOL

>> No.53032844

>>53029262
My brother! You have lived like a king until 35 yet you let these peasants question you? They are jealous of your demeanor, the way you got everything of the system while not living by the system.

You know what to do, king. People's perception are more important than whats actually going on. Go out and show out, and never ask a peasant for an advice when you wear a crown.

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>>53029262
are you not one of us? lol come on dude. we're still here and we'll always be here. that's not a gaslight joke. and fuck any of these admin who think they're making a difference by pulling imaginary scenes behind the curtains.
not all of us identified with the most popular stuff being created on this site a decade ago so try not to be too hard on us all.

>> No.53033005

Nepotism and white lies will give you an advantage atleast. Start there.

>> No.53033936

>>53032844
You forgot to gift him reddit gold, you fucking faggot. You couldn't have made your post anymore gay if you tried.

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Same. Almost 30 and ive been neeting for 10 years
+ im a drug addict

Should I make a fake resume?

>> No.53034125

>>53029308
I did what you want to do. And it's incredibly fucking hard to readjust. the first 6 months you will feel a whirlwind of emotions that will eventually turn into a numb feeling. If you can even make it to that point without quitting first. Then you have to readjust socially, and learn to connect with normies again. If you're lucky, you will get a few fellow autstics that you can relate to a bit which makes things way easier.

>> No.53034852

Guys im same like OP, but was working from ages 18 to 35, odd dead end jobs, prob switched like 20 jobs total, nothing stuck with me, all money pissed in the wind, even in debt now, no car , moving back to my parents soon. Any advice for me? Got the college degree of multimedia designer but that never resulted in me getting a desk job, im just lost

>> No.53035199

>>53029262
I’m almost a year in to stop being a total fucking loser. So far got a job and car and saved 30k while living at home. Plan on saving another 50k next year. I do residential habilitation and work 84 hours a week, mostly sleeping. During the holidays I’ve been doing 96 hours, might break 108 this week. I have lots of awake time off shift that I want to start learning a real skill I guess IT. My goal is not be a total fucking loser anymore by 40 and buy a low mileage 30 year old roastie.

>> No.53035863

>>53029262
Have you tried acquiring a skill for which someone would be willing to pay 100k/y?

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>>53029262
I wear 10-year-old clothes and buy 2 T-shirts and one pair of shoes per year (2 if I can stretch it).

>> No.53036766

>phone call
>forget address
>they ask for my address
>when it's in my application
>???
>brain utterly malfunctioning because i can't remember a sequence of numbers in my street
>you're probably not a good fit for this position at all
>position is remote
and you wonder why there's a labor shortage

>> No.53036817

>>53029262
It’s over for you unironciallly