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My multi-millionaire grandfather just got diagnosed with dementia and parkinson's disease, was unable to get out of bed for the last 2 weeks, was shitting his pants, my grandmother had him in adult diapers, after about 2 weeks of being bed ridden the family finally called an ambulance and it was in hospital he got the dementia and parkinson's diagnosis.

He cannot be looked after at his multi-million dollar beach side luxurious home, he will be transported from the hospital to an aged care facility for rehabilitation, doctors think he probably wont ever go back home due to the level of care he needs.

No matter how much we "make it" we can end up shitting in nappies unable to get out of bed in some decades from now. Probably a good idea to not really focus too much on "making it" when you're old, probably should focus on making it when you're young so you can actually enjoy a nice lifestyle in your younger years instead of scrimping and saving until you're an old man to "make it" only to be taken down like this.

>> No.52993046

>>52993016
>an aged care facility
kiss your inheritance byebye op, they gonna bleed him dry, then wring him out like a lemon. Yeah, being old sucks.

>> No.52993049
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52993049

The trick is to not even worry about 'making it'

>> No.52993063

I also find it interesting, after 60 years of marriage, my grandmother lasted about 2 weeks changing his diapers, she hated doing it, she couldn't stand it, she wants him in the age cared facility, she says she "just cant do it". Nobody else can do that shit.

So this is also for the polcels who think having a family means you're going to have all this support when you're older and need care, no, you'll most likely have health conditions your family simply cannot deal with, and you will be shoved into a aged care facility just as incels who never had any family will be. Your family aren't trained doctors and nurses who can provide 24/7 care to you at home, and even if they were, they wouldn't want to be changing your shitty diapers.

>> No.52993072

A good portion of that wealth is about to be burned through on upscale assisted living and out of pocket medical procedures and meds. His greed will ensure that you are left with very little, if not nothing all together once your boomer parents get their hands on it. Good luck if you have any extended family like cousins and aunts and uncles because they'll all be trying to steal his house out from under him. Be good to him and be sincere if you love the old guy because people around him change up on you fast

>> No.52993075

>>52993016
>>52993063
As a human being you are too obsess with negativity. Dig yourself out of the hole before its too late.

>> No.52993082

>>52993016
jesus christ
you can tell amerilard hands typed this post
imagine caring about muh millions when your grandfather is becoming a potato

>> No.52993088

>>52993063
>pol
>incels
Ah, the problem was his family was shit and his woman was as shallow as a troon

>> No.52993107

>>52993063
>Nobody else can do that shit
so, why should she?
shes (presumably) no spring chicken either - the fuck should she spend the rest of her limited lifespan washing decrepit imbecile arse?

>> No.52993112

>>52993063
burgerfat DEFINITELY confirmed with this second post
my grandma had dementia near the end and needed constant care, we organized a rotation between her 4 daughters and all available grandchildren to take care of her
was it fun or easy? hell no. but we were there for her just like she was there for us before
ameriburgers literally cannot stop counting their millions of dollars for 2 weeks to love their own kin...

>> No.52993116

>>52993088
Im just saying polcel in a meme way as thats what people to people who activily use pol, as people who actively use it, have this idea that "childess people will get btfo when theyre older since nobody to take care of them" and that ----- "I HAVE KIDS, MY KIDS WILL TAKE CARE OF ME WHEN IM OLD HAHA!!!"

No they wont, your wife and kids dont want to change your man-shits you take when youre bedridden

My grandfather/grandmother got married 60+ years ago at like 18, they're the literal definition of trad, and even then, my grandmother after 60+ years of marriage to her only 1 man in life, got sick of changing his shitty diapers after 2 weeks and wants him in a facility.

>> No.52993124

>>52993116
You've made it clear the type of retard you are and I'm pretty sure you represent your family in that same rotten way

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>>52993124
So you will change your dads shitty diaper and wipe his hairy asshole?

>> No.52993157

>>52993141
And my moms

>> No.52993167

>>52993112
>my grandma had dementia near the end and needed constant care, we organized a rotation between her 4 daughters and all available grandchildren to take care of her
Imagine wasting all that would be productive time just to extend that shitty quality of life a little bit.
Literally wasting time to fight the unavoidable losing battle

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52993170

>>52993157
You will wipe your moms piss ridden hairy roastie vagina and shitty asshole balloon knot?

>> No.52993178

I already told my family to not put me in hospice or a retirement home or whatever. I don't want to drain their resources, resources that I would have helped build with them throughout my life, on my worthless dieing carcass when I'm 85+. There is zero point in keeping me alive if I have dementia or Alzheimer's or can't take care of myself in the most basic capacities. just have me euthanized, either that or I'm going to end up wandering off a cliff when I feel myself deteriorating and unable to take care of myself

>> No.52993186

>>52993170
You won't?

>> No.52993196

>>52993186
No, and my parents even said they wouldn't want me doing that when they themselves are older like what is happening to my grandfather right now.

>> No.52993208

>>52993016
>>52993063
>Unsubtle demoralisation thread
lmao you're a lefty fag and I'm never going to stop being a racist chad.

>> No.52993209

>>52993196
I can tell

>> No.52993221

>>52993112
Should have just stuck her in a home and gave her morphine. What a waste of your time.

>> No.52993229

>>52993116
Your grandpa is on the verge of death and le polcels are consuming your thoughts. This thread is either a LARP or you are a deranged lunatic. Your mind must be a tortuous warzone.

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>>52993170

>> No.52993269

>>52993229
Projecting much? Ive lost my other grandparents in their 90s on my dads side a few years ago, this isn't new to me, at least they died instantly out of nowhere randomly due to acute medical conditions, so there was never any bullshit diaping changing for them, they were here fine one moment and gone the next, so that was good.

This prolonged drawn out slow death is cringe

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>>52993269
>making a thread crying to /biz/ because people on /pol/ exist who want you to wipe your dying relatives ass every once in awhile instead of dying quickly for your convenience

>> No.52993317

>>52993315
Would you really want your family wiping your shitty hairy man ass?

>> No.52993332

>>52993317
Are you saying you wiped your own ass as a baby?

>> No.52993377

>>52993016
At least he can afford care. If he wasn't wealthy, he would be left to die.

>> No.52993589

>>52993063
(You) can do something about it. Go look up obscure alternate cures for his disease. Look at ray peat for example. Or just put him down, if he's brain dead he's dead.

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52994490

>>52993063
I paid for a Philipeno grandmother to live with my Mother when she was at the end of her life it was $600 a week. Mom made it 3 months and got to die in her own home surrounded by her loving family. I held her hand as she passed on it was surreal.

>> No.52994512

>not killing yourself when you're 60 or diseased

Never gonna make it

>> No.52994791

>>52993141
>>52993170
Some people can't do it properly. That said care in elderly homes is even worse.
Teach your children not to be kidults and they will care for you.
The concept of sending elderly away for care is new and was not a thing a century ago.

>> No.52994980

>>52993016
>Probably a good idea to not really focus too much on "making it" when you're old, probably should focus on making it when you're young so you can actually enjoy a nice lifestyle in your younger years instead of scrimping and saving until you're an old man to "make it" only to be taken down like this.
Now you understand why /biz/raelis would rather gamble their savings away on crypto instead of doing shit with their 401(k)'s. Actually, with our generation it's likely we won't even be offered the dignity of retirement; with how poorly people are compensated for their work nowadays, I won't be surprised to see people only "retire" once they get diagnosed with dementia.

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>>52993016
>>52993063
>>52993116
>>52993141
>>52993170
>>52993196
>>52993269
>>52993317
Didn't read.
lol Nigger.
/thread

>> No.52995008

>>52993016
Humans aren't supposed to live beyond the age of 70

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>>52993063
Over played it kike

>> No.52995118

>>52993049
based pic, based post

>> No.52995120

>>52993063
Your grandma is just a whore, mine cared for my grandpa for 3 years until his cancer killed him, and he was a dick all his life and cheated on her multiple times.

>> No.52995149

>>52993107
Old people taking care of old people is just unrealistic. On top of that, whoever steps up for the duty isn’t appreciated enough by their family and exposes themselves to investigation if they fail at something just because they’re not a professional.

>> No.52995173

Reminder your days are probably numbered.

>> No.52995256

>>52993016
I am a medfag OP, someone is lying to you.

None of his care needs sound too severe, regular carer visits or a 24hour carer can meet those.

If he has nursing needs that may be a different story and end stage Parkinson’s patients nearly all do end up in a nursing home, but that isn’t universal and he doesn’t sound that severe considering his diagnosis was literally two weeks ago.

Look into this OP. No Chinese whispers amongst family members, demand to see the medical opinions written down and get second opinions if you are suspect.

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52995385

Iam 34 and always concerned about a future like the one u mentioned. The thing is Iam totally alone right now. Every relationship ive been went nowhere. I cutoff communication with my family because of how abusive they are. I will fall and no one will help me. I should buy a gun to killmyself the moment hope is gone.

>> No.52995426

>>52993178
>just have me euthanized
illegal

>either that or I'm going to end up wandering off a cliff when I feel myself deteriorating and unable to take care of myself
you'll go directly to hell