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Honest question: this last year, my ability to work has fallen drastically, like 80%. I used to be a go-getter, did long weeks, was always motivated. Right now, i just cant motivate myself to do anything but absolute bare minimum. Whitecollar, i can get away with it, but i am not used to this feeling and desu i dont like it. Is it only me? This is new for me.

>> No.52690848

>>52690802
did you get the vax?

>> No.52690856

I know what you mean. I feel lethargic all the time now. Motivation gone. I lift and get sun but have stopped caring about most things.
I didn't get the vax but have slept with women who did so may as well have.

>> No.52690859

>>52690848

Lol no

>> No.52690870

>>52690802
Probably placebo effect of some sort. My motivation comes in waves

>> No.52690928

everyone has given it up and packed it in

the social contract is dead. white women are used up roasties.

buy ammo

>> No.52690936

>>52690802
Try to get meth prescription, it doesn't help with motivation but if you have the will, it will help you get that edge

>> No.52690946

>>52690802
If you live in the northern hemisphere could be vitamin d deficiency causing you to feel shit

>> No.52690953

>>52690859
probably long covid, many such cases. should've taken the jab.

>> No.52690965

>>52690953
I shorted covid instead

>> No.52690969

>>52690802

What was your motivation before? Might be burn out.

>> No.52690983

Thanks for replies, should have been more specific. Its not motivation in general etc, its relating to work. Im working out and doing this stuff, but its getting harder for me to actually care about work. Will check out vitamin D.

>> No.52691005

>>52690802
I've been getting more and more suicidal as the years go by. I'm not functional anymore

>> No.52691028

>>52690802
Same as me. I just dropped out, the veil came down for me and I won't go back anymore. I settled on poverty and I'm ok with that, my soul and mind are worth more.

>> No.52691035

>>52691005
>>52691028
Winter blues

>> No.52691040

>>52690983
I'm exactly the same. If you find the answer please come back here and post it. I'm fine with getting by with the minimum in a sense but there are times where I go below that even and I know I'm being a fraud. Working from home is comfy but it's made it so much worse... The boomers might have been right.

>> No.52691043

>>52690983
Lmao are you just now realizing that waging is pointless?

>> No.52691048

>>52691035
no mate, I dropped out two years ago. Covid lockdowns were the final redpill.

>> No.52691051

>>52690983
Vitamin D won't help you delude yourself into thinking that the company cares about you. It won't make you think that getting more money is important now that you have enough.

>> No.52691053

>>52690928
That shouldn't have made me laugh that hard

>> No.52691101

>>52691048
Kek lockdowns for pandemics are nothing new. You fags just need an excuse for your depression. You are never able to offer any specific solutions, you just say ”everything is fucked” as if everything hasn’t always been fucked.

>> No.52691118

You saw the reality of our world when the lockdowns and psyop happened, and your stuck in limbo, not willing to work for this horrifying machine trying to destroy you, yet not willing to do nothing.

If you didn't take the vax you get to play in the endgame, so worry not you'll find new meaning destroying ontological evil in the next few years.

>> No.52691119

>>52690802
Did you just hit 33-34? If so that's normal

>> No.52691126

>>52691040
why is it worse? can you elaborate? person who is forced to be in the office 5 days a week and is desperately trying to get at least 1 day a week to WFH here. they want me to do programming and shit so clearly there's shit i can do from home. my commute is 1-1.5 hours, both ways. the job is basically perfect and mostly do-nothing, it's just the fucking commute that sucks ass and the only way i have the means to help that is getting any sort of WFH time.

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>>52690802
Let's ask Paul Allen.

>> No.52691289

>>52691126
I'm not trying to say that WFH is objectively worse. Just that it seems like one of the sources of the problem that OP and I are experiencing.

>> No.52691299

I felt this way all year - but actually the last week or so Ive pepped up and am really excited to be working again. I took a long break - like three months of holiday to recharge so try that.

>> No.52691300
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>>52690983
>>52690802
It's over

>> No.52691304

>>52690802
sounds like long covid

>> No.52691314
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52691314

>>52690953
This anon knows. Since the dawn of man the magical flu has held us all back. We now have finally engineered a cure. Christianity is the long covid that ends with a shot. Well, and the never ending boosters.

>> No.52691331

>>52690802
Exact same thing is affecting me. My last job, I dominated everyone on my team, carried everyone and became team leader. I changed jobs in September 2021, since then I've deteriorated to the point where I can barely work 2 hours a day.

There's two possible ways I could go from here. Maybe the extra free time is allowing me to realise how hollow my life is and the pain of it will spur to find something more fulfilling; or maybe idleness is the main evil and I need to find a way to get busy for the sake of getting busy and keeping idleness at bay.

Or it could be the unprocessed trauma of witnessing seemingly 90% of the population falling in with the MSM on the covid narrative and going gung ho on vaccine mandates, in the complete absence of hard evidence. It pretty much means the MSM could make the bulk of people do anything that the string pullers could ever want. Kind of a scary thought, especially since I was one of the people who opted out of the whole thing and effectively became pariahs.

>> No.52691344

>>52691289
fair enough. i assume you WFH all the time or something? i'd love just 1 or 2 days WFH, hybrid seems like the way to go imho. the fucked up thing is that i do fuck-all in the office most of the time when there isn't testing to do so idk why they're even so mad about me doing any sort of WFH shit even a little bit. like, it's not like im doing anything in the office besides being there physically in many cases. it's just weird and draconian. "be in the office all the time because we said so! there's plenty of reason for you to WFH but go to the office anyways because we told you to!"

you want depressing, get a long-ass commute time, lol. but it's the best opportunity i have and a cherry job besides the commute so nothing i can do about it, can't move closer.

>> No.52691350

>>52691344
>get a long-ass commute time
Buy a motorbike, your commute will be more fun.

>> No.52691351

>>52691331
>unprocessed trauma of realizing seemingly 90% of the population are retards
did you forget or miss out on the whole thing in Germany with the dropout Art Student that ranted at brew pubs?

>> No.52691364

>>52691350
i'd rather not die, thanks. i have a nice comfy luxury vehicle, my commute is as comfy as it can possibly be, but 1.5 hours each way when traffic is bad is still 3 hours of commute time total no matter what im driving in.

>> No.52691385

>>52691344
used to sit on the train 1.5 hours twice a day. Remember I enjoyed getting some laptop stuff or language learning done.
now I'm unemployed for 1 month... it's over

>> No.52691401

>>52691344
Yeah I'm at home all the time; this is part of the problem though. It's a bit strange to ONLY connect with people virtually 99% of the time. I've always tried to prioritise commutes; before I always took a job <30 minutes away that paid significantly less over the one that paid better but was much further away.

>> No.52691420

>>52691401
to be fair i feel like i'll probably wind up doing this (taking a job closer even if it pays less) eventually. i need to be here for 3 years at least for the sake of my resume, though.

>>52691385
focus on self-improvement. eat healthier, get more exercise, learn new skills for making money, whatever your specialty is. you gotta make use of unemployment. force yourself to do it for a month and you'll develop the habit. look up Atomic Habits if you don't understand how developing good habits and breaking bad habits works.

>> No.52691435
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>>52690802
Quick rundown.

Picture the scene, it's the 1940s, you are an intelligent young man, but a virgin. You want to have sex, every fiber of your being screams out for it.

>Want sex
>Officially approved path is marriage
>In order to get married, you need a good career; you need to provide for your wife and children, you need a respectable job so her father will allow her to marry you, she won't marry a bum.
>Money is the path the sex
>Work hard, follow the rules, save money, get interest from women
>Get married
>Finally I can have sex.

Today

>Empowered roastie women everywhere, OnlyFans.
>Women openly show disgust for "boring" beta males who "expect" or think they are "owed" sex in return for their money
>Women earn more than men, and have no need for males direct provisioning any more for their survival.
>2/3rds of college grads are women
>Red pilled
>Young, pre-wall (under 30s) women care about genetics, Game (personality), charisma, style, they will not sex you for your money except to squeeze money out of simps
>Unemployed chad jacked drug dealers have more sex than you
>Motivation to hit the gym, read books, and generally improve oneself from an "alpha" standpoint improves
>All motivation for making money is gone

>> No.52691437

>>52690802
Imma a old fag, you sound exactly me and literally almost everyone i know. We were all somewhat career minded and outcome oriented types but to a 1 we all want to quit and our work output is fucking pathetic. In the last 2+ years, if i do 2-3 actual hours of productive work in a week its huge, and this is a common theme amongst all of us.
No idea if its burnout or just realizing how fucking stupid it all is or what....

>> No.52691461

>>52691420
im 205lbs with 15% bf, benching 320lbs and deadlifting 475lbs

my wife makes six figures so I'm just gonna neet it out until something magically falls in my path

>> No.52691494

>>52691126
For 8 years i did that, i had a 100 min drive, 85 miles each way. I didnt care then, it never even occured to me to think about it, I listened to radio or whatever and just did the drive.
At some point it hit me and i fucked hated it...

>> No.52691507

>>52690983
Its vitamin D for sure. Did you took Sun this summer?

>> No.52691520

>>52691437
>you sound exactly me and literally almost everyone i know.
I think it comes down to lying to yourself. Lying that it's just so simple, you get up you work, you eat, you exercise, you socialise, you go to sleep and that is all there is and all there needs to be. Imagine covid-19 never existed. Maybe we're exhausted because we've become hyper aware that the government might be trying to kill us... maybe they just wanted to throw their weight around a bit... we could put it down to that and try to forget about it.

>> No.52691573

>>52691461
why did you say "it's over", then? sounds like you're set for life dude. you know what you should do? you should start practicing gratitude. i believe that will actually help you a lot. think of all of the things in your life that you're thankful for, that you've achieved or that you're lucky to have. and practice being grateful for those things. because if you're fit and married to a rich woman i don't see what you have to be depressed or burned out about.

>> No.52691599

>>52691507
I have never taken as much sun as this summer, now im like bedridden and taking caffeine pills just to stay awake in this depressing dark and cold winter

Im sure that healthy lifestyle and vit d will fix this, new year new me etc but i was wondering how many years i have wasted without taking sun at summer, its like charging batteries, damn i miss summer

Inb4 no vax, 2x fluvid without longcovid

>> No.52691676

>>52690953
Kek

>> No.52691873

>>52690802
Buy serovital

>> No.52691897
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>>52690802
same fren. I make 250k wfh in the midwest as a software engineer but it is so painfully boring i just cant do it anymore. I have ADHD and medication worked very well for 12+ years, but that has changed recently. Prior to covid I was easily a 10x coder and had a reputation as being a genius everywhere I worked. I can still code just as well but I have absolutely 0 motivation to do it. It's to the point where I am considering changing professions....
Math has always been a hobby of mine and I never struggle to find motivation when studying. However going back to school to earn a math PhD at 30, while working fulltime and with a family to support seems impossible. Has anyone ever done this? I truly think I'd be happier as an academia fag writing papers and jerking off all day, but maybe that's just a symptom of ADHD. I dont care about money anymore i just want to make a positive impact on the world and I feel like I have the ability to do that in math.

>> No.52692319

>>52690802
wait till you realize who actually runs your country and how they spend your tax dollars.

wake up white man

>> No.52692397

>>52690953
you can't get "long covid" if you aren't vaxxed because "long covid" is just the bullshit MSM name for vax side-effects.

>> No.52692470

>>52691435
>>Young, pre-wall (under 30s) women care about genetics, Game (personality), charisma, style, they will not sex you for your money except to squeeze money out of simps
>>Unemployed chad jacked drug dealers have more sex than you
>>Motivation to hit the gym, read books, and generally improve oneself from an "alpha" standpoint improves


You have a great point. The game as a whole has changed which people are aware of but not exactly in the way they think.

They still think status=money but now its more

Are you physically fit?
Do you have a group of people you spend time with frequently that you are real close too?
Are you well read, personable, and interesting and have lots of useful skills?

Women don't care if you click buttons on screen and make a lot of $$$. It doesn't get them hot and they know they can just eventually find some simp who provides that

When they talk about you to their friends they can only say his well off so many times. They want something their friends have ZERO access too that is unique.

We literally have reverted back to tribal times. Resources are too easy to acquire (for now) and morals are generally out the window so you basically have to be a Renaissance Man or Jack of All trades

>> No.52692503

>>52691297
Damn that's grim. Why would anyone agree to be a doctor in UK? But yeah when it comes to Finland, literally the only thing keeping me here is how good the pay and demand happens to be for doctors (compared to the amount of competition) lol. No idea why so many people just continue to work and pay these super high taxes.

>> No.52692547

Instincts. The math isn't working out even for high-end careers like law and banking, all while employers ramp up social demands from employees. There's a point where the instincts kick in and turn you away. The only real go-getters right now are entrepreneurs because they can still make money and do what they want.

>> No.52692601

>>52692547
Not to mention that the work itself is increasingly inhuman. It might not be hard, but it's not the sort of thing that humans are well-suited for. Computers and software have been a disaster for work.

>> No.52692617

>>52692503
Finnish women are relatively good. Plus the winter wonderland vibe is comfy. Driving down a narrow winding road through the wilderness, snow capped pines on either side, pitch black with northern lights shining above. Comfy.

>> No.52692675

>>52690802
I definitely understand that feeling. In my previous team I basically was given little to no work to do, so I spent like 90% of my time just playing vidya or reading novels and lost motivation to actually work.

I think what helps to get over the hump is definitely some physical suffering. Go run until exhaustion, try to refresh your mind. Then I realize nothing would really change even if I had a different job, didn't work, have a relationship and/or children. Life will just provide more stuff for you to suffer through.

tl;dr try to refresh your mind with physical exhaustion and stop thinking too deeply.

>> No.52692820

>>52691435
Kek what incel cope. My own grand father swooned my grandma just before WW2 in the local villages barn dance with sick dance moves and general chadness. My grandma was the villages teacher and the only female earning a stable wage while my grand dad was from a house that owned land so he was high status but unemployed because he wasn’t the oldest son and didn’t want to do ”working class” jobs. So yeah it’s always been about genes and being a chad, momey has never mattered and has always been a cope for beta males with bad genes.

>> No.52693280

>>52692547
>>52692601
Good points, I don't think computers are any worse and inhuman than working in a factory though.

>> No.52693396

>>52691101
>Kek lockdowns for pandemics are nothing new
They are fag, we haven't done lockdowns for 300 hundred years prior to COVID because after sanitization they were scientifically proven to be ineffective as fuck. Suddenly COVID hit and 300 years of scientific experience were erased by magic

>> No.52693807

>>52690983
>Its not motivation in general etc, its relating to work. Im working out and doing this stuff, but its getting harder for me to actually care about work.

thats called adulthood. you'll get over it. the alternative is being broke, which sucks even worse. just remember you work for yourself and your own net worth. there is no point going above and beyond at work unless you can make more money in the process or get promoted to make more money

buy yourself something nice once every 6 months, that tends to help. or go to church and find God for purpose because the truth is: there is no purpose to life outside of going to Heaven when you die - thats literally it

>> No.52693827

>>52690953
based

>> No.52693889
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>>52691314
>Christianity is the long covid that ends with a shot.

>> No.52693937

Bros I wish I had gone into medicine so I could help people. Why did I fall for the soulless corporation meme?
Sometimes I daydream about going to medschool and then doing residency but I realize it’s impossible since I’m 30 and married with a kid now.
Someone kill me. I ruined my life and will never be fulfilled slaving for shekelberg Corp.

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>>52692470
>women
>stopped

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>>52690802
I've seen and heard this all over the place. It's because theres no real merit to har work anymore. Nepotism is how you climb to the top, wealth inequality is higher now than immediately prior to the french revolution, the vast majority of women are unfit to be mothers, addiction to social media or porn or screens in general has people constantly feeling inadequate and at the same time feeling like they deserve better. Its fucked. We're on the verge of something big.

>> No.52694598

>>52691351
Link, nigger

>> No.52694848

>>52693807
>dismissive boomer shit
>immediate pivot to Christcucking
>no effective advice to found at all
You are the faggot that storms out when someone texts in a theater and then the manager doesn’t care you call the police please stfu and kys.

>> No.52695367

>>52694598
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beer_Hall_Putsch

>> No.52695379

>>52695367
Ha, you got me on that one

>> No.52695573

>>52694848
you need to be 18 to post here, depression cuck. lift weights and bee yourself

>> No.52695574

>>52690928
chud

>> No.52695757

I had this problem for a long time, especially when the lockdowns came in. I was always a hard worker but something just broke and I stopped caring altogether. Since then I've tussled with trying to do more. Recently I made the decision that I was only going to do what was asked of me. No more trying to code perfect solutions which handle edge cases that won't matter. No more looking for additional work or finding things to do. I get a task and think, what is the simplest solution that will work properly?

All my additional energy is going into my projects, which are much more stimulating for me. I realised that if I want interesting work I'm going to have to create it myself. I treat my job like I treat doing the dishes. Occasionally it's satisfying, but mostly it's just something I need to do.

The surprising thing is that my performance at work is improving, and my boss is happy. Probably because I'm not procrastinating as much because I'm not fretting over producing some perfect code. And in the past I've been warned about my lack of output (I work from home).

Tl;Dr perhaps just try letting go a bit. Do your job, do it well, and put your energy into things that are more satisfying to you.

>> No.52695867

>>52695757
I'm in the same boat as you anons. It's comfy to know that I am not alone. We will get through this.

>> No.52695886

>>52690953
>get vaxxed
>"brain fog"
>don't get vaxxed
>"long covid"

when will you retards realize there are other factors that can make someone always feel tired?

>> No.52695890

>>52694501

What are you even saying? Use your words baby girl

>> No.52695911

>>52690802
congratulations, it's called being normal

>> No.52695927

>>52690802
I think it’s the 5G honestly, I can barely function and can’t sleep without pills,

>> No.52695937

>>52690802
Yeah man, me too. Exactly like you. I have my own business and I used to be hustling everyday. Now I lay around the house and have to pretend to my customers that I'm not basically unemployed. But.... Today I'm taking steps to really turn it around despite my internal resistance. I think momentum might help me break back into the groove. But it's so strange how this happened to me.... Idk what happened.

>> No.52696030

>>52690983
I work out hard daily too. 5 days a week. 30 to 1hr a day. No motivation problem there.. But when a customer calls half the time I just ignore the call and never return voice mail. It's basically me giving up trying. I would have never let myself do that 3 years ago. It's unacceptable but here I am doing it regularly...

>> No.52696037

>>52690953
>>52690848
kek, damned if you do, damned if you don't

>> No.52696666

>>52691435
This, but not really. >>52692820 is right that it was never true. However, it was an exceedingly useful lie for keeping the average man motivated. Muhammad (pbuh) understood and wrote it into his religion. Polygamy for the high achievers, and everyone else can cope that they'll get theirs in Jannah.

>> No.52696719

dopamine detox.

>> No.52697172

>>52695890
I think they are trying to say, who gives a fuck about women and what they think. Live your life and stop being a faggot for women.

>> No.52697289

It's because even if you're in charge of logistics at a company, that's useless work. Whi the fuck cares what truck is going where? Calling people all day.
It takes a lot of effort to keep straight but it's meaningless work. Your brain can't see the result because you're not eating it and your muscles don't ache and nothing is being built.
Because in reality. Who the fuck cares if the company that makes center consols for jeep goes under? Who the fuck cares if the whole factory lights on fire? Sho really needs new cars?
Its unfulfilling work. And for those of you who understand, it isn't fulfilling for your soul and faith.

>> No.52697302

>>52693937
>Bros I wish I had gone into medicine so I could help people
Most patients are cunts that try to stab you because you were unable to save their dying aunt with diabetus + 20 years of hypertension + previous acv + morbid obesity. There is still patients that thank your work but most have switched to being entitled cunts that believe you have access to magic healing that can revert a lifetime of bad health choices in a visit. The satisfaction in helping people is no longer found in medicine as having to deal with modern patients drains your light and mood very quickly, there is a reason why 95% of medical staff are burnouts

>> No.52697476

>>52697302
Medfag here, this isn’t true for my patients at least.

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>>52697476
They're dogs, anon.

>> No.52697872

Same.
Gf feels same too.
And many of our friends.
Not sure what it is, but the wind has been sucked out of the sails of most people we know.
Always tired. No motivation. No hope.
>unvaxxed btw

>> No.52698209

>>52697872
>>unvaxxed btw
It's long covid. Hope your disability insurance covers your poor choices.

>> No.52698269

>>52690802
Put all your money into a Bitcoin or Monero time locked transaction to yourself, so you have no money available. Being desperate will give you back your motivation. Maybe change jobs also.